Uncle Qing is 55 years old. His wife died of illness five years ago and he never remarried. Uncle Qing's younger brother has been urging Uncle Qing to find another one all these years. Because uncle Qing has a bad heart, the doctor told him to have someone at home with him at all times, otherwise it would be too late to find out and send him to the hospital for treatment.
However, due to my physical reasons, I want to find a wife. Uncle Qing always feels that it is disrespectful to the woman. Of course, the biggest reason why he didn't want to find a wife was that he didn't want to make his dead wife sad.
Although Uncle Qing refused again and again, Uncle Qing's younger brother never gave up. No, he called uncle Qing after seeing him leave without saying a word. Uncle Qing replied, "Brother, you are really wrong. Even if a man is 60 years old, he still needs the care of a woman and needs to remarry! You don't have to be ashamed. You have many old ladies who want to live with you, and they also need company. "
Before the person on the other end of the phone could finish, Uncle Qing hung up the phone. He doesn't agree with his younger brother's idea. Any man who still needs a woman at the age of 60 and wants to remarry doesn't believe it. In this world, people don't have to get married all the time. People can experience marriage in this life, but they can't take married life as their whole life.
Usually he plays chess, or signs up for a group tour, and has a very leisurely and happy life. There is no need to remarry and let others miss it.
There is nothing wrong with Qing Shu's idea, and Qing Shu's brother's idea is actually reasonable. So, does a 60-year-old man need a woman or remarry? In fact, different people have different opinions.
Shu Ge is 58 years old and his wife died two years ago. After his death, he continued to live in Shu Ge. His children are very busy, and he never comes back once a year. He is very lonely himself. He believes that both men and women, regardless of their age, actually need someone to accompany them.
Why do you say that? Shu Ge understands this very well. Just a year after his wife died, he cooked at home. Suddenly I felt dizzy and my whole body was in a cold sweat. He quickly lay in bed for about half an hour, and then gradually recovered. At that time, in the most severe pain, Shu Ge thought, if I had died at that time, would I not have been found?
At this thought, he felt that his life was really bleak. If there are people around you, at least you can be known and missed when you are not around. But as usual, there is no one around.
Therefore, he thinks that in fact, middle-aged and elderly people also need to remarry, and they need to have a wife around them, that is, to accompany each other and be good partners.
Li Shu also agrees with Shu Ge's concept. Li Shu is 65 years old this year. Although he is old, he still has physical needs. Of course, this physiological need is more important to seek an intimate physical comfort. It's not disrespect for old or other bad ideas. After all, everyone has physical needs.
Therefore, after divorcing his wife for three years, Li Shu married a wife who was older than small 8. Of course, Li Shu's economic conditions are relatively good, and his children have made great progress. He gives Li Shu nearly 5,000 yuan in living expenses almost every month.
Every time I walk, I will take my wife Shu's hand and go outside. Every time I go to the vegetable market, I can also see the couple shopping together. Looking at this couple whose hair is half white, I actually feel very sweet and moved.
Indeed, love is not only the rights and interests of young people, but also the happiness of marriage is not unrelated to the elderly. This kind of person's happiness in his later years is touching.
Wu Shu and Aoki have the same idea. He's 70 years old, but he's still strong because of years of exercise and health preservation, and he can drive to road trip. Every weekend, I will take the old people around me to Zhou Bianyou. Wu Shu's daily life is also very colorful. He walks his dog in the morning, eats at a nearby restaurant at noon, and plays mahjong and practices Tai Ji Chuan with people in the community at night. His life is very pleasant.
Of course, the conditions in Wu Shu are also very good. Some women of the same age who have lost their other half often go through various channels to see if they can live with Wu Shu. But Wu Shu refused.
In fact, Wu Shu was very picky about feelings when he was young, and so was he when he was old. The only person who can get into his eyes is his dead wife. His dead wife has been dead for twenty years. During these twenty years, his neighbors and relatives introduced him to countless wives, and he was not satisfied.
In his eyes, only a dead wife is the best. Therefore, he would rather spend the rest of his life alone. Of course, this is also for my own health and happiness. He found a live-in nanny. He doesn't need a nanny to do anything at ordinary times. It's enough to cook and clean the room occasionally and then wait until the children come back with them.
"Why do you have to remarry? Actually, people are old. If you are afraid of your physical problems, you should pay more attention at ordinary times, or it is enough to find a nanny like me. You don't have any money, it's enough for your child to help you find one. " Every time someone asks this question, Wu Shu will answer it like this.
In fact, whether a man needs to remarry and whether he needs a woman after he is 60 years old is really decided according to everyone's different requirements and different situations. There is no fixed or absolutely correct answer.
However, whether you need it or not, you must take good care of your body when you are old and feel the wonderful changes in your body. Don't wait until the problem arises.
The aging population is increasing year by year, and the life of the elderly should also need the attention and care of our younger generation. Their inner loneliness may be beyond our imagination. If possible, spending more time with them will make them happier than giving them a few dollars.
Never wait until a person is gone to remember his goodness. Young people, act quickly, call grandparents, spend more time with them and make their future full of hope.