There are many twists and turns on the road of life, and a good life inevitably requires a good attitude.

Even if fate is unfair, a good attitude will make life full of sunshine.

Unbalanced mentality will lead to deviation in life.

Believe in yourself, believe in the future and embrace life with a healthy attitude.

Famous saying:

The old horse crouches, aiming at thousands of miles; The martyrs were full of courage in their later years.

-[Han] Cao Cao

Sadness in the heart is greater than death, and human death is second.

-[Warring States] Zhuangzi

When you are alive, you must be in a good situation. Don't waste time and create unnecessary trouble.

-[America] Mark Twain

Who is the dance academy, who will accomplish nothing; He who can't dominate himself is always a slave.

-[Germany] Goethe

A person's life may burn or rot, I can't rot, I am willing to burn!

-[Former Soviet Union] ostrovsky

Classic material:

Choose your own mentality ("don't think about eight or nine, often think about one or two")

Yu Youren, a veteran of the Republic of China and a famous calligrapher, experienced ups and downs, but he was indifferent to it all his life. Friends often ask him how to live long and healthy. He always points to the calligraphy and painting hanging on the living room wall and laughs without a word. It's a freehand lotus painting with a couplet beside it: Don't think about eight or nine, always think about one or two. Horizontal batch: Ruyi.

As the saying goes, life is often unsatisfactory. If the soul is a material service, it will only be suffocated by pessimism and despair, and the road of life is doomed to be like climbing a mountain with heavy load.

Thinking about one or two things often means gratitude, gratitude, cherishing wishful thinking in life, and finally resolving and transcending suffering with that openness and tenacity.

I often think about one or two things, because situations are born of the mind-the problem itself is not a problem, but how to treat it is the biggest problem.

I often think about one or two things. After all, it is one or two things that determine the quality of life and shape the realm of life.

An open mind makes a career (Hawking's story)

Once, at the end of the academic report, a young female reporter jumped onto the podium, deeply admired the great scientist who had lived in a wheelchair for more than 30 years, and asked without mercy, "Mr. Hawking, Luger's disease has fixed you in a wheelchair forever." Don't you think fate has cost you too much? "

This question was obviously abrupt and sharp, and the lecture hall was suddenly silent. Hawking's face is still full of quiet smile. He tapped the keyboard with his fingers that were still moving. Then, with the standard London cavity issued by the synthesizer, the huge projection screen slowly and conspicuously shows the following passage:

My fingers can still move and my brain can still think; I have the ideal that I pursue all my life. I love my relatives and friends. By the way, I still have a grateful heart. ...

After the inner tremor, the applause thundered. People flocked to the stage and gathered around this extraordinary scientist to pay sincere respect to him. People are deeply moved, not because of his suffering, but because of his persistence, optimism and courage when facing suffering directly. Life is like a blooming flower withering. Tides rise and fall, there are gains and losses, and there are pains and joys. If anyone always thinks that he has lost too much and is always tortured by this idea, then who is the most unfortunate person.

If you have a bad attitude, you will not succeed.

Hou Yi is a famous sharpshooter in ancient legends of China. On one occasion, the King of Xia asked Hou Yi to shoot an animal skin one foot square and a target one inch in diameter. He said to Hou Yi, "If you hit it, I'll give you 12 thousand gold;" If you miss it, I will cut your fief. " After hearing this, Hou Yi suddenly felt uneasy. When he shot an arrow at the hide, he missed it, and when he shot at the target, he missed it. Wang Xia asked the others, "Hou Yi always hits the target. Why didn't he hit a single shot today? Why? "One man replied," Hou Yi missed because he was happy with 12 thousand gold and worried about being fined for cutting the land. "If we can get rid of these external joys and sorrows, then everyone in the world can become a shooter worthy of Hou Yi!"

A good attitude can make people live longer (Confucius' way of keeping in good health)

Confucius lived to be 73 years old. Compared with his contemporaries, he was very old when he died. Old Master Q's longevity is related to his fitness style. First of all, he is open-minded, and his ambition is to make "old people feel at ease, friends believe, and young people care". The requirements for personal life are not high: "If you don't want to eat enough, you won't want to live a quiet life." He said eating coarse grains, drinking cold water and bending his arm as a pillow. "Happiness is among them." Wealth gained by practicing crooked ways is regarded as floating clouds. Secondly, he pays great attention to food hygiene. He doesn't eat any spoiled food. He doesn't talk to people when he eats or sleeps. Finally, he likes sports, archery, driving and singing. His favorite movement is "rhyme". He can also play the piano and has a theory of playing instrumental music.

Optimism about Death (A Song of Mourning for His Wife by Zhuangzi)

When Zhuangzi's wife died, Keiko went to offer her condolences and saw Zhuangzi sitting with his legs crossed like a dustpan, singing while knocking on the basin.

Keiko said, "You live with your wife. Your wife raised the children, and she died of old age. It's enough that you don't cry when she dies. Is it too much to sing while knocking on the basin? "

Zhuangzi replied, "That's not true. She just died. How can I not be sad? But look at her origin, there is no life, not only no life but also no body, not only no body but also no breathing. Mix in a trance, change with qi, change with qi, change with shape, and now die, just like the change of seasons. Everyone is resting quietly in the big room of heaven and earth now, but I am crying with her. I don't think this is my destiny, so I stopped crying. "

Compulsive mentality is often not desirable.

There is a kind of moth that flies around candles as soon as it sees them. People drove it away with fans, but it flew back soon. Every time you fly back, you should bravely bump into the candlelight, and you will be burned and bruised by candlelight. Finally, he fell to the ground and died without turning it over a few times. Everyone sitting there laughed at moths. This is stupid.