But throughout our lives, we walk in this world once. What do we want? Anyway.
Nothing more than going where you want to go, doing what you like, and being with people you like.
This seems simple, but it is not.
But if we do the following three things, everything you want will come.
Take care of yourself.
As the saying goes, health is the capital of revolution. Having a good body is the foundation of having everything.
Premier Zhou Enlai said: Only with good health can we study well, work well and develop in a balanced way.
Xu Teli once said: A person's body is by no means personal. It should be regarded as a valuable asset of society. All young people who are interested in contributing to society and making great achievements for the country must cherish their health.
Yes, only a healthy body can do what you want to do, go where you want to go and meet the people you want to see.
In recent years, with the development of the Internet, short video platforms have become more and more popular, such as "eating and broadcasting" economy. In order to attract attention, increase powder and attract traffic, people who eat and broadcast are also full of freshness. The food they eat is not only amazing, but also unique. Extremely spicy, super spicy, raw, big fish and big meat, roast chicken and roast goose elbow have become their daily life.
Some people earn a lot of wealth in life by eating, while others eat to the end of their lives.
Mr. Wang, a 30-year-old from Shenyang, is a "food broadcaster". After broadcasting for more than half a year, I gained a lot of fans and rewards through eating, but my weight also increased from 200 kg to 280 kg. Because of binge eating for more than half a year, not only the weight keeps rising, but also the blood pressure and blood lipid keep soaring.
On one occasion, before the live broadcast, Mr. Wang suddenly developed symptoms such as numbness and dizziness. After head CT and head vascular examination, it was found that his brain stem was bleeding and the situation was very critical. I was rescued in the hospital for seven days in a row, but unfortunately I still failed to save my life.
Mr. Wang earned wealth by eating, but he also lost his precious life.
A healthy body is the living room of the soul, and a sick body is the confinement room of the soul. bacon
The greatest wealth in life is not how much wealth we have, but that a healthy body is our greatest capital and wealth.
2. Do what you like.
There is a difference between doing what you like and doing what you like well. Did, like, hobbies; And doing well is professionalism and accuracy.
When we do what we like, from doing it well to turning our hobby into a major, then you are not far from success.
I know a blogger named Annie. When she was three years old, her parents divorced and her family was poor. She has lived in the country with her grandparents since she was a child. After entering junior high school, my father remarried, bought a house in the county, and then went to study in the city.
However, after living in the country for more than ten years, I went to the county seat at once, but I still couldn't adapt. I haven't been to the playground, KFC hasn't eaten, and I can't even read 26 letters fluently. Since then, inferiority and disparity have been secretly bred in my heart.
Perhaps because of family and environment, there are many things that she can't change, and she can't cry. She can only write down piles of warnings in her diary.
Slowly, Anne fell in love with reading and writing, which she has always maintained.
Because I like writing, I successfully entered a magazine as an editor after graduation. I insist on writing all the time except at work.
Working hours are often not enough, so she uses the theme framework of the article "On the way to work" to collect information on the way to work. She often comes home from work at night because she is too focused. She often writes an article until one or two in the morning, and then sends the manuscript to the platform and drags her tired body to sleep.
It happens day after day. Although she was very tired, Anne persisted. After so many years of unremitting writing, her writing style is getting better and better, and her articles are constantly recognized by major platform media.
In addition to salary, I can get a certain reward for writing at ordinary times, and my life has also been improved.
Anne has grown up, but so have her grandparents who raised her. When people are old, it is inevitable that they will have health problems. Annie thought about it later and decided to quit her job and go back to her hometown to take care of her grandparents, while writing full-time.
Full-time writing relies more on self-discipline and persistence, and there are countless moments of confusion, but Anne persisted. After three years in naked resignation, she bought a house through writing, which may never have occurred to her.
This is a leap from quantitative change to qualitative change in doing what you like.
This situation is not uncommon. The famous inventor Edison is a typical example. His family was poor when he was a child. Edison went to school for only three months and began to sell newspapers at the age of eleven or twelve. But he loves science and often uses the money from selling newspapers to buy scientific newspapers, chemicals and experimental instruments.
In the process of doing the experiment, no matter how many failures and setbacks he encountered, he never gave up. Even though he almost blinded his eyes, Edison stubbornly persisted in his love of science.
It is because of his unremitting efforts to do what he likes well, and his ultimate spirit has created his life.
3. Be kind to important people
In our life, besides our parents and relatives, we will meet many people of all kinds, most of whom are just passers-by, while some people have become important people in our lives.
As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, and parents are our closest and most important people. And people are often strange animals, and what is easy to get is always easy to be ignored. Many people should realize that we often give good temper to strangers and leave bad temper to our closest family.
Pinch your fingers and count. How long have you not called your parents? How long has it been since I went back to see them?
Or, think about it, have you lost your temper with your family recently?
Life is short, but family members are the ones who accompany us the longest. Time is fleeting, treat your family well! Don't wait for the child to want to raise and not stay, then regret it!
Besides parents and family, we will meet other important people, such as teachers who give us enlightenment education at school, help our brothers when we are in trouble, and help and guide our colleagues or leaders at work.
As long as you put your heart into it, you will find that these important people play a key role in our lives. Some may be the courage to help you move forward, while others are turning points that change your life.
As the saying goes, people who dig wells don't forget to drink water, and the grace of dripping water should be rewarded by springs.
We should cherish and treat these important people well.
Because, they are our nobles.
When you do these three things well, everything you want will come as promised.
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