The theme of the fourth program of My Boy is "Be a strong boy", which goes deep into the hearts of this group of "empty nesters" from outside to inside. When the guests shed their star aura, shed their idol burdens, got together with three or two old friends, drank a little wine and sang songs, in such an atmosphere, all the pressure was released, showing the truest side, even some of them were never revealed in front of their relatives. After drinking for 30 days, they are most likely to touch their inner weaknesses and tell their true feelings. Some people even "tell secrets that their families don't know". After watching this program, what impressed me the most was this scene-"I am a very lonely person."

In the dim light, two friends accompanied. Cheney Chen said this sentence and picked up a glass of wine. Bitter as the wine was swallowed, he hid his face and wept ... When he learned that Cheney Chen's parents divorced when he was a child, when his sister's parents grew up, he found that his deep loneliness stemmed from the breakdown of his family when he was young. What is a happy family like? Mr. Jiang Yang once recalled in "The Three of us"-"Our family is very simple; The three of us, it's simple. We have nothing to do with the world and others, but to get together, stay together and do what we can.

When we encounter difficulties, we will bear them together, and the difficulties will no longer be difficult; We help each other together, no matter what hardships and difficulties, we can become sweet and moist. If we are a little happy, we will become very happy. To sum up, it is a very simple word "together", but after all, "the good things in the world are not forced, the colorful clouds are easy to disperse, and the glass is fragile." In reality, not all people are lucky enough to grow up in a complete family, and the parental relationship from the family also affects their later growth. Take "My Boy" broadcast tonight, for example, Cheney Chen burst into tears, and the martial arts and friends talked about "the shadow of childhood", all of which were related to the parents' relationship in "Origin and Fate". The barrier of family background subconsciously affects the inner growth of children.

What effect does family background have on children's growth? There is an old saying to explain it: "A dragon gives birth to a dragon, a phoenix gives birth to a phoenix, and a mouse's son can make holes." Every child is born like a blank sheet of paper, immersed in this "dye vat" that enters the family system, so the parental relationship in family of origin has a great influence on children. This is confirmed in the latest issue of My Boy.