My husband and I both got married late. When we got married, he was 35 and I was 30. Plus, I really want to have a baby pig, so I started preparing before I got married, eating multi-dimensional tablets, drinking pregnant women's milk powder to supplement nutrition, giving up drinking and so on.
65438+/kloc-I finished my wedding in early October, and my period came on the plane when my honeymoon came in the middle of the month. After menstruation, start using ovulation test paper. I don't know if it's the wrong method or the quality of the test paper, but I haven't detected strong yang. I didn't go to the hospital for a systematic pre-pregnancy examination before, so I have no confidence in whether I can get pregnant normally, because I have been eating very little to keep my body fat for 20 to 30 years, and there are many cases of abnormal pregnancy around me.
On the 29th of the twelfth lunar month, I went shopping for new year's goods on foot. I felt a sharp pain in my lower abdomen when I walked. The more I walk, the more painful I feel. I called my husband to take me home. Then it was New Year's Eve, so I looked it up online and said that if the pregnancy was successful, I could test two columns in 10 day, so I quickly took the early pregnancy test paper to test it, and the result was a big whiteboard. So my husband started nagging, which made me very upset. (Later he explained to me that the reason for nagging at that time was that he had some doubts about himself [covering his face])
On New Year's Day, I went to visit my relatives. I was caught because I didn't dress so well. When I come back at night, I have a headache. My husband advised me to take some cold medicine. I am superstitious, because I think it is not good to take medicine for the New Year, so I didn't take it. Now that I think about it, I'm glad I didn't eat it. On New Year's Eve, I remembered that I didn't have a perm, manicure, eyelashes, alcohol or gain weight after the second year in order to have a baby, but I wasn't pregnant. Coupled with my husband's nagging, I broke out directly and cried for 2 hours [laughing and crying]
Because I was a little wine putty before, I was not pregnant. My husband didn't know how to appease my emotions, so he advised me to "drink!" Just drank a bottle of craft beer [dog head]
On the fourth day of Lunar New Year's Day, I'm going out to visit my relatives and have a good start. However, it was useless all day, and I was particularly sleepy with backache. After lunch, I fell asleep on my relatives' heatable adobe sleeping platform.
On the first day of May, I never gave up taking a test paper, and there were two shallow bars. I showed my husband a flashlight with my mobile phone. He looked sleepy and instantly sat up from the bed and said, turn on the headlights! I couldn't restrain my excitement and said, "Be calm and take the exam tomorrow.". After buying the electronic test paper, the process of waiting for the display is still very tense. Show: 2-3 years pregnant
I went to the hospital at once, but I still walked for half an hour. I waited 1 hour for the result and took a walk in the park next to the hospital. As soon as the results came out, she was really pregnant. Doctor's advice: don't walk more, pay attention to rest [black line]
Experienced a small storm and successfully completed the first step. Because of my lust for that bottle of beer, I checked all the items suggested by the pregnancy test doctor, including some IQ taxes. A family who filed with me spent more than 2000 yuan, and I spent 5800 yuan on filing. Here, I also want to remind all pregnant sisters to be calm and not impatient. Knowledge on the Internet should also be viewed dialectically, and various theories vary from person to person.
Approaching due date
The results of prenatal examination were all normal, all passed at one time, and the result of 36 weeks B-ultrasound was breech position. Our hospital here can only do breech caesarean section. In order to relieve my nervous mood, I began to look up some adverse consequences caused by natural delivery on the Internet and accepted caesarean section in my heart. Chat with the nurse when doing fetal heart monitoring, because I was familiar with it before, and the chat was more casual. The nurse's sister said: This month is breech position, and it will basically not turn over, and it will die [dumbfounding].
38-week B-ultrasound results: The first B-ultrasound doctor repeatedly looked at my previous B-ultrasound results and took many photos of me, saying: You make me feel that I can't work [covering my face], and I don't know whether I should be happy or unhappy. The psychological construction that was finally completed is once again entangled. Remind pregnant mothers again, face it happily and don't always watch it online.
40+ 1, broke the water and was admitted to the hospital. After a day and a night of induced labor, she failed and turned to cesarean section.
Having a baby once, going through it twice. This also laid the groundwork for my later postpartum depression. I will write an article to share in the future ~ ~ ~
On the preparation of prenatal milk powder
Due to my incomplete understanding of breast milk, I expected that I would have enough breast milk. I didn't even buy milk powder when I was preparing something. At that time, I thought: anyway, there are many maternal and child stores near the hospital, so it is not too late to buy without eating. It was almost the due date, so I went out to eat and bought a small can. As a result, it was really used, because the water broke first and there were some infections. After giving birth, you need infusion, so you can't feed it right away.
About the preparation of the article
I suggest you prepare with your husband. My home is run by me, although I asked my husband to clean up with me when I was cleaning up hospital supplies, and told him what these were and what they were for. As a result, as soon as I got out of the operating room, I was so sleepy that I had to answer the nurse's questions one by one.
About diet during pregnancy
I must eat properly. I get fat easily and eat without restraint, which is one of the reasons why I can't give birth smoothly. So that on the way out of the operating room, I anxiously asked the nurse: there is only one male family member, what should I do if I can't lift it after going to bed [dog head]
I am a little dust, an old mother born after 80, who loves life and likes to share ~