I'm impressed.
Adopting a daughter and adopting a son really can't compare.
At the family reunion years ago, my cousin became the focus of the crowd. Cousin speaks softly and behaves gently, which makes people feel like spring breeze.
What is even more rare is that my cousin is nearly forty years old, but she is well maintained, with fair skin and black hair like a waterfall, which has become the envy of all the women present.
It is not that my cousin's family has good economic conditions, but that my cousin gave birth to a well-behaved and obedient daughter.
The husband is strong, the daughter is obedient and the family is harmonious. Why are you so unhappy?
Look at ourselves, or those middle-aged women around us, with loud voices, fast steps and small tempers. There is no doubt that it must be a boy and a mother.
In fact, before giving birth to a child, I was always a gentle and good-natured person in the eyes of my husband.
When the eldest son was three years old, he added a younger son. All right, let's have two sons. It's all the same anyway. Unexpectedly, in a few years, everything will be turned upside down.
What wakes me up every morning is never an alarm clock or an ideal, but the pain of the little boy's foot stepping on his hair.
When cooking, let him play with his brother quietly for a while. At the age of four, he can take his younger brother, who is over one year old, to draw all the walls at home with colored pen lines and teach him to draw.
I was so angry that my chest ached that I couldn't help shouting, "Why are you drawing on the wall? Believe it or not, I will beat you today! "
Who knows what this little bastard will say? The rabbit said confidently, "mom, you can't hit me." If you break me, you will only have one son, and no one will buy you clothes to play with! "
Marry my old mother, I only talk about not being angry, not being angry, my own, my own. ...
Never pay attention to health before giving birth to a baby, and eating the hottest hot pot at the latest is also good for your health. The cupboard is full of snacks and cosmetics.
After having a baby, I dare not stay up late, dare not eat greasy food, and fear sudden death and getting angry. The previous snack cosmetics in the cupboard have been replaced by flavored Xiaoyao pills, roses and other tea products that soothe the liver and regulate qi.
It is said that raising a son grows old quickly, that is, you will often experience the feeling of chest tightness, shortness of breath, soaring blood pressure and splitting headache.
What impressed me most was that I couldn't stand the pain of mammary gland hyperplasia. I went to see a doctor. The doctor said I can't get angry, and I can't get better if I get angry. I said that there are two sons at home, and the doctor was silent and said, then take medicine to save your life!
Although it is tiring to raise a child, another feature of his son is that he does not hold grudges. One minute the old mother was yelling at him, and the next she was talking and laughing with you. It makes people lose their temper instantly.
There is a saying that life is like a box of chocolates, but a box of dark chocolates is given to boys and mothers, 100% bitter and astringent. And two boxes of black Joe are given to two boys and mothers, but don't be afraid, black Joe can exercise his will quality even if he eats people who are not fat!
Perhaps the child's bad behavior is not regarded as trouble, but as a password for parents to practice. Raising a boy may not be so tiring.
Convince yourself not to worry or panic. Children will grow up eventually. Think of all this as a spice on the road to growth!