"I want to sue my parents because they gave birth to me!"
This is a movie that cries from beginning to end. We understand it, not because we are noble, but because children are our weakness.
one
The world has always been cruel, even if you are just a child.
Zan's family lives in a rundown slum, with no identity and status. Parents obviously have no way to raise their children, but they have to keep giving birth.
After his sister Saha was sold to a grocer, Zan couldn't bear to run away from home. In the process of escape, he met Rakhil and her son, who were also good people without identity.
During Rachiele's imprisonment, Zan carried the whole world on the shoulders of 12 years old, and took Jonas, who was over one year old, wandering around to survive.
However, the world has never shown any kindness to him because he is a child. The house was repossessed by the landlord and locked tightly. Zan endured humiliation for a long time, and his hard-earned money stayed at home forever.
Let him play, make him cry and make him angry. Nobody wants to talk to him.
Zan hated his parents for betraying his sister from the bottom of his heart. Under the double blow of poverty and hunger, he had to go the same way as his parents. He can only sell Jonas, who is over 1 year-old, to the hateful traffickers.
As Rachiele said, she doesn't blame Zan for selling the children, but the traffickers! Yes, I don't blame it, but life is too cruel!
1 1 year-old sister got pregnant after two months of marriage, and then bled to death. Zan, 12 years old, took revenge on the hateful grocery store owner with a knife and was finally sentenced to five years in prison.
In prison, Zan's mother told him, "God took something from you and will give you something in return. I am pregnant! " "
This sentence became the last straw to crush praise. So he took his parents to court and said:
I hope adults will listen to me. I hope that people who are unable to raise children will not be born!
two
Born without raising!
If not, why should there be?
I can't criticize the dilapidated environment and poor policies, let alone point out what to do under the background of the times!
I just want to ask those parents who are struggling in hot water and don't even know their own lives. Why do you want to have children and let them live such a shady life with you?
I remember Zan's mother said in the movie-which one of you has experienced the life I have experienced, and if not, no one is qualified to accuse me.
Some people think this is true. People who have not experienced the same pain and helplessness cannot be criticized.
However, I think that the shackles given to them by life should be put on them, not on children. What happened to an innocent child?
It is not only irresponsible, but also extremely stupid to send children to their parents in this world regardless of their actual conditions.
If you are full of resentment, children who come to your own world will only become your doormat, victims of your foul language (get out, I'll kill you, etc. ), is also the source of your burden and pain!
They are not happy at all!
When I was a child, people in the village often gave away their children one by one, either poor or patriarchal, but they still gave birth.
I often think, how poor the children who are sent out are!
Just like in the movie, Zan's parents have the same ending no matter how many children they have. They also want to grow up in a loveless family like Zan, unable to read and write, and have to shoulder the burden of supporting their families at an early age.
If she is unfortunate enough to be a girl, she will be sold as a trading product if she shows a little femininity, and her future will be dark and confused.
Since you can't afford it, don't give birth! Don't let your today be your child's tomorrow!
This kind of life looks like a walking corpse, so sad!
three
Raise without teaching!
It's my father's fault for not teaching! If you were born and didn't educate them well, you might as well not be born!
At the beginning of the movie, there are many children like Zan in this slum. They are in the ruins, smoking cigarettes and playing adult games. Their lives are full of violence, insults or beatings, chains, pipes and belts. ...
Someone told these lost lambs that life should not be like this!
Some time ago, it was reported that Xiong Haizi killed a thousand-pound lobster by buying pesticides. Two immature behaviors directly caused tens of thousands of losses to farmers.
Every time I see such news, I can't help pointing my finger at my parents. Why wait until something happens to say I'm not disciplined?
If you had taught your children right and wrong, maybe none of this would have happened!
In The Distance Between Us and Evil, the murderer Chen Chang killed two children in the park and committed a heinous crime.
When the lawyer went to see his mother, she said, "I saw on the news that settlement can be given a lighter sentence." Please help me tell the families of the victims that when my son comes out, I will definitely take him to see a doctor, work hard and lose money to them. "
He even said, "If we lose money, the judge will let my son come out early, right?"
Seeing this statement is really gnashing my teeth at my mother!
On the one hand, I sympathize with her underlying social environment and long-term domestic violence, on the other hand, I hate her ignorance.
Her son committed the capital crime of eighteen layers of hell! She is so ignorant that she thinks that everything can be solved with money. What ability does such a person have to teach his children not to endanger society?
The sad thing about this is that you raise a child but can't teach it well?
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Raising and teaching has nothing to do with wealth, literacy or illiteracy!
Just because you are poor, you are not qualified to have children.
But you don't have the responsibility to love and take care of children, so you don't deserve to have children.
When I was an engineer in a factory, I met a general worker. Big brother only has two days off a month and works every day 12 hours. Wife and children are in their hometown, and there are hardly many times to meet each other in a year.
Eldest brother has no culture, but he has his own theory about raising children.
Big brother said, "I especially disapprove of hitting children." When I was young, my father beat me up. It's no use!
Once my children and a group of children in the village broke the neighbor's water tank, and he said he wouldn't participate. I knew in my heart that he must exist, and I didn't expose him on the spot.
I took him to the home of the child who was involved in breaking the water tank and was being beaten by his parents, so that he could see the consequences of doing bad things on the spot. I told him, did you see? You can't do such a thing. Not right!
On the way home, he confessed that he was involved and knew that he was wrong. "
After listening to my eldest brother, I especially admire him. Raising children always depends on the heart, and you can't solve it by pulling out a stick.
In contrast, I think I'm much worse at menstruation and raising children.
Menstrual family has money. She did nothing all day and only cared about her own entertainment, so she turned her eight-year-old son into a bully.
Once I went to her house for dinner, and her son scratched my hair and my face. He kept shouting, "This is my house, get out!" "
In the face of such a big child, I neither beat nor scold, so I had to ask for help with menstruation.
I don't know. My menstruation shouted, "Let go of your sister. Do you want to eat vines?" Say that finish, I left.
As soon as the child saw it, the power was like this, and it began to be rampant again.
I can't help it I can only find a way to deal with him myself.
In this way, the child is now twelve years old and still looks like a bully.
five
Why are you born without raising, raising without teaching?
It is better not to have children if you are born without raising, raising without teaching!
Raising children has a long way to go!
I hope that all parents who have children and intend to have children will carry the banner of love, firmly hold the bottom line of responsibility and raise their children with heart.
Let them always have a big mountain and a warm home waiting for them, no matter whether they are poor or rich, pain or joy.
If you can't do it, you might as well not!