The scenery on the surface of life is for others to see. Whether life is comfortable or not, only your own heart knows best.
When dealing with people, you look down on me, I will never climb up, you look up to me, and I exchange it with my heart. At a certain age, I don't want to please anyone, and I don't want to please anyone.
Getting along well is the best relationship between people.
At one time, we all took pains to maintain various interpersonal relationships. When we reach a certain age, we will understand that the best mode of getting along is actually comfort.
When getting along with others, I always pay special attention to others' evaluation of myself, always habitually hide my preferences, dare not refuse others' demands easily, fear conflicts with others, and always deliberately cater to others. This relationship can be very tiring.
You know, with comfortable people, you will feel very comfortable and casual, and time will always pass unconsciously. Even if there are many dark clouds in your heart, they will disappear quickly in a comfortable relationship, and even silence is very comfortable.
However, when I am with uncomfortable people, I feel uncomfortable all over, and I have to wear a mask of hypocrisy. That is to say, if I say something against my will, I will either wronged myself and suppress myself, and I will sit patiently and listen to each other's nagging, making myself confused and tired.
A really good relationship is not coping, but comforting. The rest of your life is not long. Don't waste your time and energy on relationships that need to be deliberately pleasing.
Laugh if you are happy, don't laugh if you are unhappy, speak if you want to, and be silent if you don't want to. Simple and comfortable.
Comfortable to get along with, it is a preservative for feelings.
After years of desolation, I understand the desolation of the world and gradually understand that life is a passer-by.
Some people and things don't have to be too serious and persistent. Life should not be their obstacle. It is best to live comfortably. Two or three confidants are enough. The interpersonal circle should be simplified, and everything in the world should be ignored.
Life is simple and happy. No matter whether you are a lover or a friend, the best relationship is with whom you are comfortable, comfortable and not tired.
With comfortable people, there is no strong sense of uneasiness or inexplicable disgust, not to mention the way of communication, but I feel comfortable and natural at any time, quiet and healthy.
The best state of a relationship is to get along comfortably after being together, which is the perfection of the relationship.
Fate is to let nature take its course, without entanglement or beating, and those who want to leave will leave sooner or later; If you want to follow your feelings and feel uncomfortable, you won't make do, get along, talk, have too many sentences and have too much to say.
The rest of my life is not long. You can be relaxed and happy with comfortable people and friends who are not scheming, and you are not tired of getting along. Who is a true friend will be tested by time, and those who come to the end are true friends.
Getting along well is the best health care.
Some people say that being with comfortable people is better than any health care product.
Your health depends on your mood, and your mood often depends on whether you can live in harmony with the people around you.
There is only one heart, don't be too tired; People only have one life. Learn to live for yourself. Stay away from people who make you unhappy. Pleasing others is far less than being happy.
In life, don't be angry with unworthy people, don't worry about the circle you can't get into, the circle you can't get into is not suitable for you, and the people who are hard to please are not worth cherishing. Some people, you are difficult to get along with, and there are some things you don't like and don't understand, so don't force yourself.
Life is very stressful these days, and I am very upset. Comfort is the best way for friends to get along, so that friendship will not dissipate easily, and the mood will be comfortable and life will be happy together.
Life is really tiring, so don't force yourself, stay away from people who make you uncomfortable, avoid people who make you unhappy, and make friends with comfortable people, so that you can become a better person and yourself.