Since temperament is the embodiment of self-cultivation, how to improve self-cultivation and education will inevitably improve temperament. As the old saying goes, "Your mind is full of poems and books, and the most important thing is that books can travel far away." Let yourself read poetry and deeply understand the truth of being a man and doing things, and your temperament will come out. Let yourself know the society and know the inner expression of beauty, ugliness, good and evil. Then this person's dressing, walking and sitting posture all reflect noble and elegant temperament.
Of course, if you gain rich experience only by reading and visiting the society, you may not have a special temperament. These are all the details, and the details should be displayed through appearances.
Temperament is a subtle feeling that can only be understood but not expressed, which is difficult to describe. Before, like most people, I thought that temperament was reading, walking and improving artistic taste. This is temperament. Later, I met more people and found that some people really don't necessarily read a few books, even a dream of red mansions, but their temperament is actually good. However, there was a woman who did read a lot of books, but she had no temperament at all. She is rustic, unpretentious, without good decoration, and she can't see elegance in her speech. Of course, she is not vulgar. Where did the book she read go? Temperament, which I later discovered, is really a part of it, just like the imprint in blood, which may be lineage, heredity, or even an unbreakable password in my previous life. At first, I didn't agree with this statement. In early childhood, you will find that some children have their own aura, which is completely different from other children. So, how many books did the child read? How many roads have you walked? This can't be done with money.
College students should all have the same education, right? So, do you have temperament? Many well-educated people are ordinary. How many of those radiant stars can calm down and study hard? Do you have a bad temperament? Of course, some people will say that stars have a lot of experience, a wide range of knowledge and a high level of contact, so their temperament is naturally different, which is also reasonable.
In a word, I think temperament is half natural and half acquired. This kind of training has little to do with reading, but is a comprehensive embodiment in many aspects. Some women who bury themselves in reading all day are really extraordinary in temperament, while others are plain and dull.
What is temperament? You can't see it, but it can make you stand out in the crowd. The temperament is poetic and self-admiring, but it can be viewed from a distance and cannot be used for fun. Gentle and calm temperament. There are only two ways to improve your temperament. One is to experience more, read more, travel more, and grow old. This is something that needs to be persisted for a long time. One is to improve temperament from the outside, talk and behave, and walk and sit.
exterior
In the decoration of appearance, we should adhere to a principle and do subtraction. Wear less jewelry, less makeup, and wear clothes to make yourself comfortable.
Any hairstyle is good, the most important thing is the hair quality and scalp. Keep your hair soft and shiny, try not to leave heavy bangs, and show girls' confidence by exposing their foreheads.
Make-up should be clean. You can make up without makeup, but the makeup must be clean and clear. Unclean makeup can easily make the whole person look overworked and lead a sloppy life.
Symmetry doesn't require you to be thin, but you must never be fat. Note that fat and fullness are not the same concept.
The style of clothes is as simple as possible, and the quality must be good. Reference minimalist collocation, Japanese, British, European and American collocation. Don't be so-called "sweet lady style", it's really childish and low-level.
body
Be in good shape, walk straight, sit at the end, keep your neck straight and your back straight. Yoga is a good way to keep fit.
Have you ever seen someone praise a girl who stoops and walks with temperament inside and outside? !
Pay special attention to walking straight! I really read a lot of Gao Yan's sister papers, and they were all ruined by the walking posture. Introversion is not confident, people have no temperament, and foreign eight will be very man.
Don't lean your head forward. If this problem exists, you can consciously tighten your neck and lift your chin slightly. After a long time, the lines of the neck will be more elegant.
Don't shrug your shoulders and hug your chest. You can do some shoulder opening movements at ordinary times, but in the process of doing it, you should do it step by step, otherwise you will easily strain your muscles.
The back should be stiff. To solve this problem, the simplest thing is to stand on the wall. In the process of standing, try to keep your head, shoulders, hips and calves close to the wall. This method can also help to lose weight. Try to stand for 10 to 20 minutes at a time, otherwise it won't work.
internal
Knowing myself, I will reflect on myself three times a day. Only when you can talk to yourself can you really understand the world. No one likes a man who is arrogant and exhales.
Improve emotional intelligence and learn some psychology. Emotional quotient (EQ) is a big topic, in which emotional intensity, communication skills and speaking style are all involved. People with emotional intelligence will unconsciously establish a bright image.
Temperament, the biggest motivation, comes from self-confidence. Only by believing that you are the best can you become a comfortable existence in the eyes of others.
Temperament is a unique inner cultivation from spirit to behavior, which cannot be learned and imitated. Some temperament is innate, but it is very important to cultivate it. Elegant temperament is pleasing to the eye. How to cultivate a person's temperament? First of all, we must have a certain knowledge base. Pay attention to your moral cultivation. Secondly, we should attach importance to personal education. Develop good manners and habits. Pay attention to your moral cultivation. Learn to deal with all kinds of problems and practice your personality charm. It is necessary to stand the test of ups and downs, be not anxious or dry when things happen, strive for victory in stability, and handle problems with ease. In a word, temperament is a problem of learning, which is worth studying.