To get along with others is to compare your heart with others.
A writer once said, "At this age, no one wants to please anyone any more. Whoever is comfortable with him will be with him."
The rest of my life is not long, so I don't need to invite everyone into our life. Three or two is enough to get along comfortably. Some people, getting along with him, have no topic to talk about and are tired. Some people, when they get along with him, can't live without each other, and their hearts are warm.
It is a blessing for friends to get along well, and it is also a blessing for themselves.
I have read such a passage, "A comfortable relationship between people means that you can talk all the time or at any time."
In life, some people choose to please others deliberately to maintain relationships; Some people and people with the same frequency are friends, know each other and depend on each other.
My cousin has a bosom friend around him. Both of them are usually busy with work and taking care of the baby, and have little time to get together. And the few meetings are important moments in each other's lives.
When my cousin's child is born, friends will come to congratulate him even if they buy a station ticket. My friend's father was critically ill, and my cousin took a week off to help accompany him. Their friendship has been maintained for nine years now.
My cousin said, "We never complain about each other's kindness or why we don't think for ourselves. On the contrary, we must say something useful to me. "
With people on the same frequency, you can know your inner thoughts without too many words; You don't have to compromise to get along well.
For the rest of my life, it is fate to have people who walk hand in hand; It is a blessing to have people who know each other and cherish each other.
Famous Artists Gallery | Lou Shibai
I know a couple who have been married for many years and are still looking at each other. The wife said that at first she and her husband would have conflicts, but later they both learned to take a step back.
At one time, she was particularly willing to eat burritos downstairs of her husband's company, and her husband would buy one after work for several days. But once, her husband forgot to buy it because he worked overtime, so she lost her temper and felt that her husband could not even make this small request. She didn't understand that she was tired from working overtime. They looked at each other all night.
The next day, she calmed down and felt that she was really asking too much of herself. Even husband and wife can't force the other half to meet their expectations. That night, her husband still worked overtime, but this time she didn't let him buy burritos. When the husband got off work, he found that the burrito stand was closed, so he turned and walked to a flower shop and selected a bunch of roses for her.
Give up the high demands on others, others will be relaxed and they will be comfortable. What we want to meet all our lives is just a person who knows that he is not perfect, but is still willing to tolerate.
Famous Artists Gallery | Lou Shibai
Some people say: "jealousy is human nature. It is self-cultivation not to lose your temper or even retaliate because of jealousy. We can't suppress human nature, but we can be cultivated. "
People who are comfortable with each other are willing to refuel when others are good, and will not fall down when others are bad.
As the saying goes, good people are blessed. They not only kept their conscience, but also warmed the hearts of others. In the long run, they will be rewarded.
Getting along with others means caring for others and being kind to others, and others will be grateful and feel at ease.
For the rest of my life, I hope someone around me will know your warmth and understand your joys and sorrows. I wish you peace of mind and happiness despite the ups and downs in front of you. May there always be good thoughts in your heart, rooted in conscience and based on character.