The circle of friends has brought the world closer but alienated feelings. Now everyone is used to using WeChat. Wechat is very powerful, and it has the function of a circle of friends. Let's take a look at the circle of friends who have brought the world closer but alienated their feelings.
The circle of friends has brought the world closer but alienated feelings. 1 3 years ago, others played WeChat friends circle, and I sneered: What is the difference between this and qq space? It doesn't matter to me that non-friends can't see comments, but then I was wrong. Friends circle is not a simple circle of friends, it is much more powerful than qq space.
The deeds of national celebrities are all good, while the ugly ones are at fault. Open a circle of friends and read everything in the world. All kinds of worries about the country and people, complacency, awakening to the world, chicken soup for the soul, beauty and health care, WeChat business making a fortune, expression of love,,,
Understanding news hotspots no longer requires news broadcast or Tencent News. When you open a circle of friends, you will know that WeChat official account's articles present news content from all angles and deeply dissect the psychology of characters. To add a new friend, it is no longer necessary to ask the other person weakly what industry he does, just open his circle of friends and you will know.
Whose circle of friends has no advertising promotion and no work spit; A friend whom I haven't seen for years, as long as she opens her circle of friends, will know what she ate, where she went and how many babies she gave birth to in these years. Even if your pockets are empty, you can lie in bed and enjoy the beauty of the world, if you want to pretend.
Copy it several times and block that person. ,,,,, it has been described before that since we had WeChat, we have lived like emperors! The first thing to wake up every morning is to look at the circle of friends like an emperor reading the throne, brush WeChat and review the world events.
By the way, point a few more praises, leave a few comments and tell the Minister of Civil and Military Affairs what I know! ! ! What good hands! I own the world! I have to say that the circle of friends has brought the world closer, but it has also alienated sincere feelings.
First, because of the concept of seniority, the human feelings between relatives sometimes have to be grouped, and the circle of friends is invisible to the family.
The once popular online joke "Mom gives birth, Grandma raises, Dad goes home to surf the Internet, Grandpa goes to the food market and grandparents watch". Many thoughtless women think that if the mother is helping with the baby, the mother-in-law is a little contradictory, and this paragraph is simply wonderful.
So I forwarded it to the circle of friends. As a result, my in-laws saw it and shouted: I didn't bring my grandson. I gave you so much money to buy a house and a car, I don't care. Is your mother a hero in front of the children? Relatives are also talking about it, so the next time you send a circle of friends, you can only set it as invisible to your family.
Since the establishment of a circle of friends, it can be said that the traditional process of inviting guests has been omitted, and a circle of friends has been announced to the world. A friend of mine, working outside because of his relatives' 60th birthday, forgot to accompany him.
Apologize afterwards, but my child: we have sent a circle of friends. Don't you see? Who doesn't watch Friends now? Oh, this is embarrassing. So I don't send my friends away, whether it's my child's birthday or moving to a new home, for fear that my relatives will see it.
Please, I don't want to. I don't want to come. Obviously, pretending not to know, but afraid of having opinions, makes people in a dilemma. Between family members, because of the embarrassment of the circle of friends, because there are many examples of classmates' opinions in the circle of friends, the distance has widened invisibly, or no one has praised or commented on it or blocked family members since then.
The circle of friends also breeds many family conflicts. For example, my mother-in-law is always full of praise and comments on my sister-in-law's son, but her precious lovely mother-in-law turns a blind eye. This is a quirk. Work is very tiring, and everyone cares, so the next time I see others, I feel negative. Even if I wanted to say hello, I chose to watch it because he ignored me last time. Oh, honey,,,
Second, because of WeChat business, because of voting, because of bargaining, because of Pinduoduo, we have narrowed the distance between friends.
Doing WeChat business is not annoying, but annoying, such as brushing advertisements, blowing products, laughing off big teeth and so on, so-called expert theoretical experiments, red envelope screenshots, buying a BMW today and mentioning Maserati tomorrow, and so on. It's really annoying What is even more hateful is that it is obviously a "beautiful photo" of excessive beauty, but it is the magical effect of the product.
Jia: Not beautiful. This includes several of my good friends, and I strongly told them that you sell products, but your circle of friends is too fake. For example, this one sells insurance.
The first perfect composition hasn't come out yet, and the second one is not a composition at all. It's a self-directed tweet that regrets not buying insurance. In fact, there was a rude word behind my smile, which immediately blocked his circle of friends.
There are many cheap goods from Pinduoduo, and they are really tireless. Every time I say I don't want to pay attention, a: just delete it after bargaining. For those worthless things, I still have the cheek to be so cheeky. There will be no pies in the world. Even with a little kindness, I actually collected your big data. Cancel after each attention.
Next time someone asks, so I still can't unload a lot of products. But I really want to say mmp in my heart. To tell the truth, many times even if I did, I voted for the baby I think is really cute, your competitor. It doesn't matter if I vote for you. Selling my information is a big deal.
Besides, my time is precious. Why should I help you do these things? So sometimes, if I put a bargain in private, I can only pretend not to see it, not to refuse to respond, and not to strike up a conversation in the future, and the distance will arise.
This picture is understandable to express fatherly love, but it was sent by a relative of mine today, and I'm going to spit it out. The fake dutiful sons in the circle of friends are talking about her. In reality, her relationship with her father is extremely poor. She once said in front of us and her father: I would rather have a begging mother than an official father.
The WeChat circle of friends is not as simple as it used to be. Some people use it as a means to make money, some people are places to vent their emotions, and some people maliciously spread rumors in the circle of friends, causing social panic. Friends circle has occupied our life.
Spending too much time in this virtual small world has alienated the distance between people in reality. It is better to put down your mobile phone and be more sincere to everyone around you, even if your circle of friends is empty.
The circle of friends has brought the world closer, but alienated feelings. 2. The three days in the circle of friends have brought people closer.
Today, I suddenly want to talk about the topic # Friends circle can see it in three days.
I am a person without a circle of friends. As early as more than a year ago, I closed the function of WeChat circle of friends, so I seldom brush my circle of friends.
Before I turn off the circle of friends function, when I open WeChat, I will see that the WeChat discovery bar in the upper right corner has been flashing, reminding me that someone in WeChat friends has updated the message.
For a while, I especially wanted to open a circle of friends when I saw the flashing image on WeChat. It usually takes a long time to brush like this. But after brushing, the whole person feels empty again.
On the one hand, it is to control the frequency of opening a circle of friends; On the other hand, in order to reduce the time spent on mobile phones, I completely closed my circle of friends.
However, I will still open a friend's circle of friends regularly. Look through her recent circle of friends-whether the work is smooth, how she feels, and what she has been busy with.
For me, through the channel of circle of friends, I can keep abreast of her life, and leave a message at any time under the dynamic situation sent by my friends, telling her that I have always been there and never left. Although you and I don't often contact, I have been silently paying attention to your life, your joys and sorrows.
However, in the last year, I found that every time I opened my circle of friends, it was often blank or there was only one dynamic. The following shows "Friends only show the circle of friends in the last three days".
Every time I see this sentence, I feel a knot in one's heart, and then I feel very lost, as if my enthusiasm was suddenly splashed with cold water.
Later, I slowly discovered that this phenomenon became more and more frequent, so that every time someone added me to WeChat, I didn't have the courage to open his circle of friends.
Since the beginning of school in September, I have added my classmates to WeChat friends. I clicked on their circle of friends, which means "Friends only show the circle of friends in the last three days".
We are all people from all corners of the country and have never met at close range. When my circle of friends is blank, my first feeling is insecurity. The appearance of "friends only show the circle of friends in the last three days" is like a barrier, which blocks people's enthusiasm and intention to get close, and is accompanied by suspicion, vigilance and preparedness.
Such a relationship is difficult to establish a strong trust relationship, and it is difficult for one person to enter another's heart.
Baidu Encyclopedia explains the function settings of WeChat friends circle like this:
"There is a hidden switch in the WeChat settings-the circle of friends is visible for three days. Usually, this hidden setting is rarely used because most people are lazy. More than 1 100 million people have established a circle of friends visible for three days. This switch is used most in WeChat. This function is a very effective self-defense mechanism. "
From this explanation, we can see two meanings: first, the function that was originally considered to be the least used by people-the circle of friends can watch for three days, but it has become the most used function in real life. Second, this function can effectively defend itself.
This kind of network social performance is the naked performance of interpersonal communication in real life.
In real life, the communication between people is becoming more and more distant and cold. Everyone seems to be very busy all day and seldom wants to spend time with others.
We would rather lie at home and play games than have the patience to listen to people around us telling us about life's troubles. Everyone has a bad heart, but no one has the courage to tell others intimately and without reservation.
On the one hand, I am afraid that my frankness and sincerity will not get the same response; On the other hand, I'm worried that others are wearing masks, and maybe I don't know that one day that friend you think will stab you in the back.
But in fact, we are very eager for sincere interpersonal communication, and sometimes we allow ourselves to open our hearts to accommodate others, be cautious, explore all the way and be overly sensitive. As soon as my expectations fail, I will immediately accept my heart.
Like a hedgehog, it is covered with sharp thorns, but it is extremely soft inside. I only stick my head out a little when I feel safe and comfortable, and once I smell danger, I will shrink back into that solid shell to protect myself from harm.
I tried again and again and failed again and again. In the end, I never had the courage to show my deep desire for softness.
So many times, the older you get, the harder it is to make friends. On the one hand, we are more and more in a hurry, and it is difficult to stop and look at the people and things around us; On the other hand, the fragile communication chain between people can no longer make us treat others with sincerity without hesitation.
After many people around me established a circle of friends for three days, I finally made up my mind to establish a circle of friends that I had shown for a month. I still want to give myself an external window and look forward to meeting more people with the same frequency.
The circle of friends has brought the world closer, but alienated feelings. Raising your hand in a circle of friends will bring closer relations and enhance friendship.
Today, WeChat is almost a necessity for everyone. People in the same unit, the same department, who have intersections, or people who meet places with feelings will add friends, so they will have their own circle of friends.
In the circle of friends, friends send dynamic messages. If you see it, you should like it in time. In fact, this seemingly simple action should not be underestimated, which will better narrow the distance between friends and enhance friendship. Especially friends who are familiar with each other and haven't contacted for a long time suddenly send a circle of friends. After seeing it, send a compliment, which is a greeting to friends, a concern for former friends, and an expectation of getting along well in the future.
When you see the dynamics of your friends, even if you don't get to * * *, you should praise them positively. This kind of praise with a hand is a gesture of concern, encouragement, respect and friendship for friends.
I have a deep understanding.
I have some hobbies. After work, I always like dancing, singing, writing articles and making videos to enrich my life. In the circle of friends, I often make my own small achievements. To be honest, I am really excited and happy to see my friends praising me. I not only feel the warmth of my friends, but also draw the distance between them invisibly. When I am lonely and in a bad mood, I will pour out my sadness in my circle of friends, and I will be grateful when my friends send greetings.
Once, I wrote a long poem in a circle of friends. A friend of mine not only boasted, but also made a long comment, telling me my advantages. At the same time, listen carefully and gain a lot. His encouragement and help filled me with confidence, and we became good friends who corresponded frequently.
In fact, when everyone is dynamic in the circle of friends, they are also carefully thought out and carefully designed. After sending it, they also hope to get everyone's recognition and praise for their friends, full of expectations. A survey shows that a friend's praise will bring even more pleasure to the other party than praise.
In fact, seemingly simple praise can imply the relationship between the two.
Like-minded people often praise them.
People with the same interests are more likely to become friends, because they can talk to each other, have the same hobbies and topics, exchange experiences in a certain field and learn from each other. Therefore, she fully affirms the dynamics of your circle of friends, fully supports it, and will not hesitate to praise it as encouragement.
Pay attention, but don't get used to praise.
Some people like to browse the circle of friends and watch their friends' developments, but they have never been used to praise them. From the heart, I have no thoughts and don't want to comment on anything. There was silence in the circle of friends, no intersection, no interaction, just watching silently.
However, I wonder if there are such people in your circle of friends who often praise others but not you? What kind of situation is this?
Disagreement among three views
Your values are different for people who disagree with you. He doesn't approve of you and what you did. Of course, what you post in your circle of friends is of no value in his heart. He will definitely not like it and will choose to ignore it.
There have been contradictions and misunderstandings.
You may have had conflicts before. Although the surface is calm, the other party may not have put it down yet. Although, out of human feelings, there is still a circle of friends between them, he chooses to praise him for the dynamics of your circle of friends, because he doesn't want to approach you actively, and he will think that praise is an initiative to please.
I don't want to have an intersection with you
This kind of person may look down on some aspects of you and look down on you. Because of arrogance, I don't want to have more intersection with you. Therefore, even if the content you send is commendable, he will think it is meaningless to praise you.
be jealous of
You may be excellent in some aspects, so when you show your excellent side, this kind of person will think that you are better than him, so you will not be satisfied with the idea of expecting attention through dislike.
In the circle of friends, there will be all kinds of people, but whether we often praise you or not, we don't need to care and entangle, be generous, be yourself and communicate with people who feel comfortable. Happiness is fundamental!