1, life requires courage to face yourself; To improve yourself, you need to listen to your heart; To manage yourself well, you must have a strong heart and cultivate self-confidence; Everything, as Bacon said: "Go deep into your heart, and then find all the miracles in yourself". With more experience, I like a person more and more. When I am alone, I will have more meditation, realize myself and surpass myself in silence. The road of life is simple but not simple!
2, life is impermanent, peace of mind is the destination. On the road of life, there are choices, giving up, setbacks, responsibilities, successes and failures. Time filters the pain and unhappiness in memory, but also precipitates joy and madness. And these wonderful memories, accompanied by my journey, have experienced the ups and downs of life.
Life is a flower, quiet or warm. Half of life is reality and the other half is a dream. The happiest thing in life is to struggle.
If your happiness is not so strong, then your pain is not so worrying.
Conscience is the fairest judge for everyone. You can fool others, but you can never fool your own conscience.
6. There is no obvious innate difference in EQ between people, and it is more closely related to the cultivation of the day after tomorrow. In a sense, EQ is even more important than IQ. With the increasing diversification and integration of the future society, a higher EQ will help a person to succeed.
7. Where there are people, there is something, and there must be right and wrong. Laugh and make fun of people covered in honey. Don't be enemies with those who brag and flatter. Keep your distance from mean people. You'd better be careful what you say and do to those who sow discord. You should leave a hand for those who turn against each other mercilessly. Turn a blind eye to cynics. Learn from talented people with an open mind. Work hard for those who devote themselves to their cause. Try to follow an ambitious man
8. Normal mind, happiness comes naturally. Being a normal person, superficial envy, boring comparison and clumsy imitation will only make you live in the shadow of others all day. We should know ourselves clearly, find our own position, go our own way and live our own life. Only with a normal mind can we find a pure land and live a quiet and happy life in the materialistic reality.
9. "Innocence" is a luxury on earth and a passport to heaven! "Lies" are necessities of life and addicts of the soul! Lies are responsible for cheating, and naivety is responsible for believing. Innocence went to heaven with a noble soul. Lies go to hell with dirty souls. Lies are desperate, because there is no more innocence in hell, and innocence is lonely, because there is no more lies in heaven! Lying is to live, living is not to lie.
10, there is no despair in the world, only a desperate heart. No matter how desperate the situation is, it is only a process and will eventually end. In the face of despair, escape is not the way, but challenge is the way out. High-spirited people seize fleeting opportunities in despair, while negative and decadent people go down in despair. We should proceed from the inner struggle, advance unswervingly, and try to forget everything, and the desperate situation will be left behind by us.
1 1. Tragedy tells us to grasp our destiny, and comedy inspires us to persist in happiness.
12, no matter who you are, it takes courage to choose the person you want to spend your life with, because no one can predict the future variables!
13, parents have grasped our initial, loess has grasped our final, and the length and short of life need to be grasped by ourselves.
14. If you want to be the winner of a war, you must know how to mobilize your opponents without being mobilized by them. Mobilize opponents to come to the battlefield we expect automatically, and we must lure them with benefits; If our opponents can't come to the battlefield before us, we must set up obstacles and obstruct them in many ways. So when the opponent is comfortable, he will be tired; If the opponent stays put, he will have to act; If the opponent is high-spirited, it will destroy this momentum and make him depressed.
15, see clearly people's strengths, tolerate people's shortcomings, be good at appreciating others' strengths and dare to use them, but also tolerate and understand others' shortcomings and be a sober "confused" person.
16, hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
17. In the face of facts, the more developed our imagination is, the consequences will be unimaginable.
18, I always feel that I have missed something, but I don't know if it is a good thing or a bad thing. Maybe it's good for you, maybe it's bad for you, so let him miss it, because it doesn't belong to me.
19, when you are manic, you are a person who has accomplished nothing. When you are unhappy, it is you who are more difficult. When you are high above, it is yourself who will die alone. When your goal is too high, you are the one who has repeatedly lost. Nothing is more convincing than time, because time can change everything without telling us. What we cling to is often deceived by something; We are often hurt by whom we attach ourselves. So we should learn to let go, look down on everything, don't care, don't care, right or wrong doesn't matter. Whatever you lose, don't lose a good mood. Grasp your heart and make it clean, white and quiet. Letting go does not mean giving up, and persistence does not mean persistence.
20. In fact, the development of many things is doomed to have an ending. Don't worry about the result. Enjoy the whole process of everything. When passing by, learn to forget and let yourself relax. Laugh loudly when you are happy, cry when you want to, and look up at the sky when you are free. The sun is shining and the sky is blue. I believe that time can change everything. There are various ways to live in life. If you know how to enjoy life, life will definitely give you a better side. You can not be noble, but you can't be shameless; You may not be great, but you can't be mean; You may not be smart, but don't be confused; You may not be knowledgeable, but you must not be ignorant; You can not make friends, but you can't be lonely; You can not pursue it, but you can't be jealous; You can not make progress, but you can't go backwards.
2 1, I haven't seen anything you can't solve for an hour.
22. When I was a child, happiness was simple; Grow up, simple and happy. When I was a child, romance was a luxury; When you grow up, luxury is romance. When I was a child, I dreamed; Very beautiful; Grow up, beautiful and dreamy. When I was a child, my ideals were firm; Grow up and be firm; It is ideal. When I was a child, I was lost in a distant place; When I grow up, I am far away and confused.
No matter how difficult the future is, life should be smiling. To be true to yourself is to take the road you choose firmly, not to take one less road.
24. There is no eternal happiness and pain in life-both happiness and pain are short-lived, so there is no need to be overjoyed when you are happy, because happiness is not long-lasting; There is no need to feel great sadness when you are in pain, because pain is not eternal. In the face of vicissitudes of life, if we can look down, we will live a little easier.
25, life is alive, there are too many things that can't be put down. For example, if you are famous, you can't put it down; If you have money, you can't let it go; With love, you can't let go of love; If you have a career, you can't let it go; With pain, you can't let go of the past ... many people's lives have become difficult because of these burdens. In order to get rid of their body and mind, it is better to put them all down. Confusion is a quick way to release.
26, life, difficult, understand life, more difficult. Once upon a time and now, happiness and sadness are half, I can only say that life is impermanent, and none of us know who is waiting for whom at the corner. However, there is always such a person, such people, who bear my ups and downs and give me joy all my life.
27. You may not be the queen of anyone in this world, but you must be your father's favorite little princess.
28. We long for a happy life, love, friendship and affection, understanding and health. Although Nuo Nuo's life has made us suffer a lot, we are still so eager to live, because as long as we live, there is hope for everything. As long as we live, we will see the sun. As long as we are alive, we will hear our heartbeat and truly feel our joys and sorrows.
29, life is alive, just a few decades, sometimes persistence is a burden, giving up is a relief. A simple life is charming, and a simple heart is happy. With the growth of age, it gradually deepens. Everything comes from the heart, everything follows the heart, and everything is attached to the heart. Out of sight, out of mind. If you have a kind heart, you have nothing to worry about; If you are kind, there will be no hateful people; If the heart is simple, the world is empty.
30, high-profile work is better every time.
3 1. Silence is like clouds in the evening.
32. The life that others help you decide, however dazzling, is not yours. The life you decide for yourself is your own, no matter how dull it is, and you have no regrets in your life!
33. A hard failure is the greatest life.
34. Ask me how I feel about losing Jose. The Bible says, "I can afford everything I give you", but when I can't lose it, I feel I can't afford it. I'm afraid I'll be half.
35. The value of people lies in that we have made progress in life because of the changes in time and environment. The loss of time is of course helpless, but the gradual transformation of people can not escape the power of time.
I like to see happy people, whether they are married or not.
37. If Sanmao dies-of course he will-please burn a copy of A Dream of Red Mansions, and don't make a mistake in burning paper money.
38. The only asphalt road in this wilderness is still being driven back and forth by me day after day. At first glance, it seems dead, lifeless and sad. In fact, it is like a street, a lane, a narrow lane and a stream anywhere in the world, carrying its passers-by and stories, coming and going slowly year after year.
39. When I am quiet, my heart seems as clear as clearing the dust. Silence is a flower that blooms freely in the heart lake. If you are quiet for a second, your heart will be happy for a second. Close your eyes gently. In your eyes, memory is not locked into your heart. Your heart will never be isolated from the world. Your heart is closer to happiness, to moonlight and to family.
40. Reading has nothing to do with going to school, that's another matter: reading-outside campus, books-outside textbooks, reading comes from some mysterious motive in life and has nothing to do with real interests. Reading experience is like light all the way, illuminating the darkness of life. At the end of darkness is the bean candle, which is the starting point of reading.
4 1, the better you are, the more people hate you. Because you are good, others are not good enough.
42. It has been drizzling these days. Looking out of the window, under the gloomy sky, is a crying city. When I closed the window, the steam quickly climbed up the glass. I can't see the window clearly, but I feel the cold of another world.
Everything is changing, so are you, and to some extent, so is the whole universe.
44. Hard work is better than getting rich by luck.
45. You can't blame the sea for the second shipwreck.
46. Being rich is not necessarily happiness, and being without money is not necessarily happiness. Nobody told me that bread is actually more important than love; No one told me that love is not a panacea for pain; No one told me how long we can love without money!
47. We are all on the road of "I am right". The farther we are wrong, the right start is to admit our mistakes.
48, some things think more headaches, it hurts. So, don't think if you don't think hard. If you don't get it, don't. Why do you want to wronged yourself? When it is useless to say more, perhaps silence is the best explanation. Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. After all, life is a long process. Every inch of time must be experienced by yourself, and every cup of rain and dew must be tasted by yourself. The key to determine whether you are happy or not is your state of mind, not what happens to you.
49. "Keep your head down when going uphill, and keep your head up when going downhill."
50. The front line of gain and loss has been set, gathering and dispersion are normal, persistence only increases troubles, and freedom and joy are natural.
5 1, once in the wind and rain, wait for the sun to come out.
52. The world is full of anxiety, because everyone is eager to get rid of their own shackles.
53. There may be a time when you suddenly feel desperate and feel that the whole world has abandoned you. To live is to suffer humiliation and pain. At this time, you should say to yourself, it doesn't matter, many people grow up like this.
54. Optimism and pessimism are unrealistic. An obviously hopeless thing, if handled optimistically, seems childish to me, which is as incorrect as pessimism, or even worse.
Catering to you can make you regard me as the only confidant in the world, but I didn't try my best to give you advice and explanation on your life, which is wrong. I can't even fool myself, let alone you.
56. Enough is enough for what you can't get.
57. Love is not asking for each other, but giving yourself and unconditionally making everything perfect.
58. Why did everyone get hurt, but nothing changed?
59. We started to fall in love not because we found a perfect person, but because we learned to treat an imperfect person perfectly.
60, lend me your smile, let me warm the whole world, [xx] years old diligent, come on!
6 1, life teaches people to scream, and life teaches people to be silent.
62. Life is short, but we think hard and try our best to uglify it and make it more complicated. The only good time, the only warm summer and summer night, we should enjoy it to the fullest. Roses and wisteria have bloomed twice; White is getting shorter and shorter, and every forest and leaf is melancholy, sighing the beautiful scenery and fleeting. The evening breeze slowly brushed the treetops in front of the window, and the moonlight fell on the red stone board in the house. How are your hometown friends? Is that a rose or a bullet in your hand? Are you okay? Did you write me a friendly letter or an abusive article? Dear friend, no matter what you want, but anyway, please remember: life is short.
63. The storm of life needs to be experienced by yourself, and the taste of life needs to be tasted by yourself. The ups and downs of life need us to face it frankly, so that we can experience the real taste of this world like fish drinking water.
64. Special days and ordinary experiences. There is no vigorous, in fact, there is no need for colorful, ordinary is the most real, so that you can capture the taste of life emitted by ordinary life.
Zen is just a state of mind. It is enough to understand the story you have walked through. In fact, the alienation of words is not necessarily a bad thing. Just like yourself, you don't want to dwell on the years and deal with feelings and words. Sometimes you talk like a knife. However, this is the reality, that's all. Soft, deeper. Time flies like water, but what you can't see through is the mirror in the world of mortals; The past is like smoke, but what can't be waved away is the passage of time; Keep busy, only memories.
A long time ago, I was waiting for someone to watch the sunrise with me. Although I don't know when I will wait, I will wait all the time. Maybe we will meet one day, so that we can be together forever. The fate in the dark may be doomed to be inseparable, and there will be no right or wrong ending and sad memories!
67. Looking back 500 times in my last life, I only brushed it once in my life, so meeting is fate and a gift from heaven.
68. Loneliness is an attitude.
69. I've been lazy for a long time, and I think I'm desperate if I work hard. But you think too much, you just touched yourself. What I fear most is not being busy, but being at ease. Don't choose comfort when you should work hard. Good morning!
70. Sometimes, it is better to know everything than to know too much. I can't catch it because I can't see it!
7 1, you are not hysterical and exhausted! How can I break the cocoon and regenerate into a butterfly?
72. Only in the eyes of ordinary people, life is empty and plain. Chernyshevski
73. A waste of time equals a waste of life. Kawabata
74. People who do harm will never be happy.
75. Success is 1% inspiration, and 99% stay away from mobile phones.
76, the National People's Congress, began to learn to hide a lot of words in the bottom of my heart, keep your heart, don't talk to people, just like an animal, take all useful and useless things back to its cave, and then be alert, lonely, pacing and wandering outside that cave, and don't let anyone near. However, a lot of worries continue to sink. One day, I am old, with a pair of eyes and a smile.
77. In life, there are always some things that make us dissatisfied; In life, there are always some people who make us unhappy; In life, there are always some setbacks that make us depressed. People always have troubles, intentions and fatigue. Busy, everyone has difficulties, in reality, everyone has pain, and there are always too many entanglements, which makes us helpless; There is always too much helplessness, which makes us helpless. So, some things can be serious, but never serious. When the heart is relaxed, the road will be smooth.
78. What is publicized in the novel is missing in reality.
79. After living all my life, I realized that life is just a sign of a road in the years.
80. Don't try to instill the so-called experience into others. There is no road in life in vain. I might as well say ten thousand sentences.
8 1, love is an illusion that needs to be proved constantly, just like fireworks need to be lit to see glory.
82. There will always be moments when you will stop believing, but in your heart, you will pursue something, but you still have to wait and work hard.
83, life is actually very simple, don't always push yourself. In fact, there is no need to care so much about many things. Why should you make yourself so tired? If it is because others make you so tired, then think about whether it is worth it for that person. If it's not worth it, why push yourself like this? Knowledge should be increased and troubles should be reduced; Friendship should be increased and resentment should be reduced; Kindness should be increased and depression should be reduced; Confidence should be increased and dishonesty should be reduced.
84. Learn to observe, because the world is full of wonders. Only by observing its changes can we distinguish right from wrong. Learn to forget, because only by forgetting what has been lost can we base ourselves on the present and look forward to the future. Learn to give up because some things can only be appreciated from a distance. If it is not yours, don't pursue it. Giving up is the best choice.
85. We think too much and sympathize too little. In addition to machines, we need humanity more; Besides wisdom, we need kindness more. Without these qualities, life is meaningless.
86. It is a delusion to rely on anyone in life, and the only thing you can rely on is yourself. No matter how difficult it is, don't forget to stick to it. Take care of yourself no matter how tired you are. Every time you keep a low profile, you will be steady, and every time you keep a high profile, you will be excellent. No matter how strong love is, it can't stand the erosion of busyness, and people are fickle. The so-called seas run dry and rocks crumble, but it is an extravagant hope of people, and it can also be said to be a good wish for life, nothing more.
87. I am eager to follow the direction of fate, calmly, without quarrel, regret and envy, and go straight through the journey of life.
88. Maybe our life is like a bus. When someone gets on the bus, someone has to leave. Therefore, some people can only accompany you for a journey after all, but they can't accompany you for a lifetime. When he arrived at the station, he had to get off. And what we can do is to always keep a warm heart and always treat everyone who appears in life gently.
89. But people are like this. They always live within a certain time limit. The world there may be beyond our understanding in a few years, but it is beyond our power. For your sake, Qian Qian will not hesitate to get hurt again. Maybe this is life, and life is not just about doing valuable things!
90. Everyone has his own way of living, and there is no need to copy other people's lives. Some people have superficial scenery and secretly don't know how many tears they have shed; Some people look embarrassed, but in fact, others may live a chic and happy life. There is no standard answer to happiness, and there are more than one way to be happy. Take back your envious eyes and look inside yourself. The day you like is the best day; The way you like to live is the best way to live
9 1, there are always some people standing in their hearts, quietly lingering lonely hearts, gently sweet and sour, like clouds floating like fog; There are always some feelings that will suddenly and gently disturb our calm mind. These feelings come in a hurry, deep, silent and heavy, just like gentle wind and rain. Fade slowly, fade gradually?
92. Life is to attack forever! Find a career and an ideal way out from your own environment, grasp the rudder of life, and consciously hone your will in the storm.
93. Our eyes set each other off, thinking that we could walk thousands of miles with Wan Li, but we passed each other in the end. A wrong hand, slowly, gradually, I don't remember. —— Ann Yiru's Life as First Seen
94. If you don't know how to cherish it, you won't be happy if you keep the golden mountain. If you don't understand tolerance, no matter how many friends will eventually leave; If you don't know how to choose, no matter how hard you try, it will be difficult to succeed; If you don't know how to act, no matter how smart you are, it is difficult to interpret a dream; If you don't understand cooperation, it will be difficult to succeed again; If you don't know how to accumulate, it's hard to have money if you earn money again; If you don't know how to be content, no matter how rich you are, it's hard to be happy; If you don't know how to keep in good health, you won't live long after treatment. Good morning.
95. Meeting is a touching term. In this vast sea of people, in this vast sea of nets, how many encounters pass by every day, and how many pass by in a hurry every day.
96. Love should be light and appropriate, just like green tea should be light and fragrant. If it is too strong, it tastes too bitter.
97. What many people lack is not beauty, but confidence. Remember: self-confidence is a kind of beauty.