Second, many things can be done without your thinking. A lot of things can be obtained even if you don't want them. Many people can stay if they don't stay. Don't take everything so seriously. Life is most afraid of wanting to care about everything, but can't catch anything. Lost scenery, lost people, and no desire to wait all live at the end of fate. Why be too persistent? What should come will come naturally, and what should go will not stay. Let go of obsession, fate is the best life.
Third, everyone has their own way of life, and there is no need to copy other people's lives. Some people have superficial scenery, but secretly they don't know how many tears they shed; Some people seem to be living in distress, but in fact they live a chic and happy life. There is no standard answer to happiness, and there is more than one road to happiness; Take back the envy of others and look back at your heart. The day you like is the best day; The way you like to live is the best way to live
Fourth, life is alive and it is impossible to predict the future. Happiness and misfortune are always known until the end. Sometimes, people who are obviously lucky become extremely happy and sad because of a small matter; And sometimes people who are obviously unlucky get lucky because they face misfortune calmly. Therefore, the quality of life depends on the mentality. If you have a good attitude, bad things will turn into good things; If you have a bad attitude, good things will turn into bad things.
Don't care too much about the people around you, and don't care about other people's affairs deliberately. In this world, there will always be people who make you sad, jealous and gnash your teeth. Not how bad they are, but because you care. So if you want peace of mind, don't care. If you don't care about something, it won't hurt you. If you don't care about others, they won't make you angry. If you care, you have already lost. People who don't care about anything are invincible.
Sixth, it is a blessing to get what you want; Too much greed is fatigue. The needs of life are like eating, you can only eat two bowls of rice. If you eat two more bowls because of the smell of food, you will not enjoy the benefits of eating more normally, but will bring pain because your stomach can't bear it. It can be seen that getting is not necessarily enjoying. Don't compare with others, learn not to be greedy or extravagant, be peaceful and quiet, and be contented.