1, back to your pearl, tears streaming down her face, wishing I could not meet you before marriage. -In the Tang Dynasty, Zhang Ji's "Female Fu Sending Dongping Li Shidao" means: When I returned your double beads, I had tears in my eyes. It's a pity that I didn't meet you before I got married. 2. Although my body doesn't have bright wings like a phoenix, I can feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn. -Li Shangyin's "Untitled Stars and Winds Last Night" in the Tang Dynasty means: Without Cai Feng's wings, you can't compare with Qi Fei; The heart is like a soul, and the feelings are closely linked. 3, the belt is getting wider and wider, I don't regret it. -In the Song Dynasty, Liu Yong's idea of "dying in Hua Lian and leaning against dangerous buildings" means that I am getting thinner and thinner, but I have never regretted it. I'd rather look haggard because of her thinness. I live at the head of the Yangtze River and you live at the end of the Yangtze River. I miss you every day, but I can't see you, so I drink Yangtze River water. -I live at the head of the Yangtze River by Li Zhiyi in the Song Dynasty. I live in the upper reaches of the Yangtze River and you live in the lower reaches of the Yangtze River. I miss you day and night, but I can't see you, but I drink the water from the Yangtze River. I still have a silver plaque tonight, and I'm afraid meeting each other is a dream. -Song Yan's "Partridge Sky, Colorful Sleeves Holding Jade Bell" means: Tonight, I hold up a silver lamp to look at you carefully, but I am afraid that this will meet in a dream. Talk about the highest realm of heterosexual confidants 2 1, enjoy each other today, and don't forget each other in the future. -Three Kingdoms Cao Zhi 2. Peach Blossom Pond is deeper in thousands of feet than in Wang Lun. -(Tang) Li Bai 3. Teenagers are happy to know each other. They miss their old friends. -Han Yu 4. If you don't know each other, you will remember each other again. -Bai Juyi 5. Heroes in adversity. -Wei 6. After Zhong Ziqi's death, Boya could no longer play drums. -"Han Shu" 7. I didn't say I was drunk, and I stopped taking a glass of wine. -Tao Yuanming 8. The most important thing in life is to know yourself, and to be a family. -"Wild Goose Gate Collection" 9. Concentric and economical, consistent. -Song Ouyang Xiu 10, throwing it with papaya and holding it with Qiong Yao. It is always good to repay bandits. -"The Book of Songs" 1 1, teenagers know each other happily and miss their old friends. -Tang Han Yu 12, knowing each other is in urgent need, it is good to be alone. -Li Bai 13, ten thousand gold is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. -Cao Qingqiuqin 14, with one heart and one mind. -Ouyang Xiu 15, friends should make up and go back. -Feng Menglong 16, making friends in life begins and ends, not for ups and downs. -Helan Jin Ming 17, enjoy each other today, and don't forget each other in the future. -Cao Zhi 18, know each other all over the world and know each other. -Feng Menglong 19, the friendship between cloth and clothes, can't be forgotten. -Don li yanshou 20. A gentleman is as light as water, the older he gets, the truer he is. The population is as small as honey, and it is an enemy in an instant. -"Xun Zhi Zhai Ji" 2 1, clothes are not as good as new, people are not as good as old. -"Han Yuefu" 22. Ten thousand gold is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. -Cao Xueqin 23, gentlemen and gentlemen are friends with the same way, and villains and villains are friends with the same interests. -Ouyang Xiu 24. Friends who are willing to fall in love will never get tired, and those who are intimate will speculate. -Feng Menglong 25, knowing each other urgently, it is good to be alone. -Tang Libai 26. Friends should make up and go back. -Feng Ming Raptors 27. Smile when you meet someone, and cry when you send someone away. -Wang Wei 28, happy life knows each other. -Wang Anshi 29, life happiness knows each other. -Wang Song Anshi talks about the highest realm of heterosexual friends 3 The highest realm of heterosexual friends Understand the highest realm of heterosexual friendship: stand not far away and appreciate each other. In fact, the friendship between men and women is a noble feeling of human beings and an emotion between love and friendship. This feeling is not a lover, nor a lover, but beyond ordinary friends. This feeling is not about love, let alone sex. But it will make you move, but it will not be emotional; Let you warm, but there will be no passion, there will be sweetness in purity, and there will be long in plain. There is a saying that is the most appropriate metaphor, that is: standing not far away to appreciate each other. This feeling lies in inner understanding and spiritual blending. Their hearts are close, but their bodies are far away. This is a spiritual Plato, which only rational people can make and only rational people can get. When two people are together, it is spiritual tacit understanding and spiritual unity. They can talk about love, marriage and the future, and they can talk about all the problems in life without scruple. They know each other, cherish each other, support each other and respect each other. Feeling like a lover, but heartless; I feel like a brother and sister, but not as solemn as a brother and sister, casual but solemn, intimate but rational, and selfless. Two people who feel this way will not treat themselves as the opposite sex. They can shake hands or hug tightly, but it has nothing to do with sex. Love and appreciation, innocence, not desire and possession. They will appreciate Nietzsche and discuss Byron together, but they will never send each other a small flower. They can go for an outing and drink together. When they arrive at the station, they will say goodbye and go their separate ways. They don't have to meet, stay together or pretend to be inseparable. They can easily go home with dignity. That feeling is wonderful, and that taste is hard to describe. Of course, the attraction of the opposite sex is not denied, and occasionally there will be a few moments when people can't help but quietly reveal how much they love, which is inevitable. He felt it, and so did she. It was a slight emotion at the moment of shaking hands, and it was an impulse to embrace the hazy, but when they looked up at the clear sky and looked at each other's selfless eyes, they would know that some things were more lasting and worth pursuing than love. With this feeling, there will be unspeakable pain, helplessness, happiness and endless enjoyment. Because after all, this kind of feeling exists between men and women, not love, but close to love and can surpass love. This kind of emotional variable is very large and the most difficult to grasp. We rely on mutual reserve and respect, and defend the last line of defense. Because of this feeling, there will be the most affectionate people, the wise and intelligent people, and the ice and snow smart people. Because they must understand that love is extravagant, as beautiful and fragile as a glass bottle. To feel this way, you must stay away from love and sex. So it is tacit and well known. A thin layer of paper makes this relationship attractive and energetic. Distance is beautiful; You can appreciate it only if you have a distance; Distance can last forever. Only rational men; Only a smart woman who deserves this feeling can maintain this feeling. Men and women, vulgar men and women can't and don't deserve this feeling. I believe that this kind of true and pure feelings beyond the affair between men and women are hard to find and need deliberate alienation and careful care. This is a wonderful feeling, natural, frank and natural, and it is also the highest and most beautiful realm of indifference.