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Eating, while satisfying the basic living security, is endowed with more love, wisdom and meaning, and even eating can become a belief. This is the realm of eating and the beauty of eating.
Lin Qingxuan, a writer in Taiwan Province Province, said in an article about food, "People always choose their own preferences, which are often very close to their own personality and essence, so we can see their personality from their food." And I think, not only the content and attitude of eating, but also a person's personality, which is education.
When I was in college, I remember that in the hot summer, the most thirst-quenching thing was the bright red and green watermelon. One day, several girls in the class bought a watermelon and sat together to quench their thirst after going to physical education class. In the dormitory, several people were sweating all over. After the beginning, everyone politely bypassed the middle part of the watermelon with spoons and dug attractive pulp at the watermelon skin, and did not forget to give in to "eat more" and "eat faster". ...
At this time, a girl dug a big piece from the middle of watermelon and said to us girls who pushed each other, "You are so stupid, in fact, watermelon is the sweetest in the middle!" " Ha ha "looked at the triumphant appearance, everyone didn't speak, a few people gently shook his head and said nothing, continue to eat their own side of the watermelon.
Seeing great wisdom from small details, a person who only cares about himself when eating will make people feel unreliable.
Eating is not only a kind of culture, but also a kind of cultivation. The simple act of eating presents various attitudes, some people eat rudely, some people eat elegantly, some people eat alone, some people like to share, some people ignore etiquette, some people are considerate everywhere …
You can see a person's character from every bit of life. Although you can't say that everything is right, there is some truth. A person's education, imperceptibly flowing with the education of parents, reflects a person's family culture, the cultivation of their own habits, and achieves lifelong education. Therefore, a person's words and deeds reveal his self-cultivation taste.
Eating is a very simple thing, but even this simple thing is also a very serious thing. It releases the character and soul in your bones. Inadvertently, you can expose your upbringing.
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People have seven emotions and go their separate ways. But often emotions can reflect a person's personality like a magnifying glass.
Especially when people are angry, impulse becomes the devil, controls your cover and really exposes your character.
He Hui is my colleague. They have a good relationship on weekdays and often eat together. As a result, there were disputes and conflicts of interest at work. Ann, who has always been gentle, ran angrily to Hui's desk with a ferocious face and attacked Hui mercilessly.
Hui ignored Ann's mania and abuse, saying that you really left me speechless, and then left the station silently.
From then on, Ann fell in love with Hui and often said some "bad words" about Hui in front of others. Later, even if it reached Hui's ears, Hui chose not to refute, not to refute, ignore and do his job well.
Try to stay away from Ann.
As a result, Hui was recommended to a big company by headhunters because of her outstanding performance, and her position was greatly improved. Ann is still in her old place, and continues to mention the "bad" from time to time.
Slowly, Ann was alienated by many people because of her poor personality. Speak ill of people all day.
In fact, arguments at work are completely normal. Ann turned it into low-quality public anger and private disclosure, exposing her hidden essence and destroying her own brand.
People should be reasonable. You can't make others obey you just because you raise your voice by a few decibels. It's not that you refute it. Exposing each other's history in a rage can cover up your mistakes.
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Now the development of the Internet has grafted wings for freedom of speech, and all languages can fly in the sky.
When you open a web page, it is easy to see the abuse from netizens all over the world.
These people may be step-by-step office workers on weekdays, but they still live in another self, a completely different self. When you are in high spirits on the Internet, you can hold your tears and snot when you are moved, or you can't wait to scold others' ancestors for eighteen generations when you are angry. It's terrible to switch between these two modes seamlessly.
The anonymity of the online community makes their behavior in the network not bound by social public order and good customs, let alone responsible for their own remarks, thus completely exposing their essence and character.
A person's character is best seen when he is angry or his own interests are damaged. Some people say that if you are not sure whether a person is suitable to be your friend, then have a quarrel with him and see how angry he looks.