1, focus on being yourself, carefree and fearless.
Someone once said: "Many times we are not being ourselves, but imitating others, not living our own lives, but admiring others' lives, not pursuing our own happiness, but copying others' happiness." Some people have been comparing themselves with others, comparing their academic achievements, comparing their performance after work, and comparing their married spouses.
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The root of a person's unhappiness lies in comparison. As long as there is comparison, there will be a gap. The end result is depression and self-denial. As everyone knows, excessive comparison will drag down our lives. We live in this world, not to compare with others, but to bloom our own unique wonderful. Only by focusing on yourself can we find our own light and beauty in such a complicated world.
It is a person's most rare determination not to be disturbed by the rhythm of others and to bow down and take the road that suits him. People who really have a quality life never compare with others, but with themselves. Under limited conditions, they always show an open-minded and optimistic spirit and constantly enrich their knowledge and mind.
Gan Kun is undecided, you and I are both dark horses. Guard your own land, not in one spirit, not looking around. The worst result in life is just a late bloomer.
2. Take good care of your body. Health is a blessing.
There is a saying: "A healthy beggar is happier than a sick king." If you can't earn money, you can't finish the work. Don't overdraw your health for money. Don't wait until your body is on the verge of loss before you regret what you did. No matter how busy you are at work, don't forget to eat three meals a day; No matter how hard life is, don't delay a good sleep.
When encountering a temporary thorny problem, it is better to have a good sleep than to stay up late. Save your energy and close your eyes. When your body is fully charged, it will be full of energy to solve your problems. Don't forget: quiet years, smooth work and good health are the basis for enjoying happiness.
I like a sentence very much: "I want to love and live, and treat my present life as an eternity." Since I exist, I will be responsible for myself no matter what. "Treat life moderately, don't rush; Be kind to your health, pursue health, not be greedy for work and not overdraw. If you can stay healthy, don't hurt yourself, eat well and keep exercising, you will win more than half of your life. Every day in the future, may you talk and laugh during the day and have a good sleep at night.
3. Unload your fatigue and let the past be cleared away.
Adult life is more afraid of mental fatigue than getting tired. Not feeling happy and beautiful is the most depressing. At this time, what we should do most is to learn to enlighten ourselves. Don't give all the time to negative energy as fuel, but be the happiest self in a limited time. Even watching a funny movie, eating a delicious meal, or going on a long-awaited trip ...? Be positive, live up to your youth, don't let anyone consume our inner sunshine, and leave your life to the people and things you love.
Work hard, sooner or later you will marvel at the time; A little sunshine, sooner or later you will shine. Instead of always lamenting that life is not easy, try to add some sugar to life. Shake off yesterday's fatigue and helplessness, brush away yesterday's pain and tears, and welcome a brand-new sunrise tomorrow.
Give yourself a drum medal when no one cheers; Give yourself some comfort when a person wipes his tears; Give yourself some energy when you can't move forward. You will find that the next days will be very sweet.