? It has been known for a long time that intimacy can cause childhood pain. Everyone you meet and fall in love with in your life is not "accidental", but you attract yourself and let you see the lessons of life.
? Living itself is a kind of practice, and the best practice is to fall in love!
? Only when people have been in love several times and experienced several major traumas will they realize what is persistence, what is unrelenting, what is impermanence and what is pain. Without these experiences, it is difficult for you to understand the meaning of those words in the book.
Love is deeper than any kind of spiritual practice course. If you have never been in love, even if you have read all the books on psychology, your heart is empty. Without vivid and bloody experience, your life will be in vain, and you will lose your unique epiphany.
? And I think some brave people really don't even need to practice, because she is not afraid of being hurt and really lives the light of life that only she can live!
? It is often said that love hurts, and the more you love it, the more it hurts. I don't agree with this statement. You have protected that heart very well, but it is dead and has no feelings. What's the point?
? Sooner or later, people have to face everything I think the sooner you get hurt, the better. It won't kill your injury, but it will make you stronger! Love is a very interesting topic. If you don't expose your heart, how can two people fall in love in a defensive state? Playing tricks, chatting up, communicating, and deliberately chatting up are all scheming ways, not real blending of life.
? Love should be a real collision between two hearts, a process in which two souls burn, dissolve and then produce a new self. Even if we separate in the future, we will leave with different textures, different memories and different thanks.
As long as people stand up after several injuries, they will certainly become stronger and tougher!
? When I first started studying physical and mental growth, I always fantasized that I could solve all the problems in my life once and for all, but until now I realized that the problems would never disappear. All study only makes you face the problem bravely, not avoid it! Only by facing and accepting bravely can we gain a freer state because of greater tolerance.
? I have seen such things as "Man, if you treat a woman as a queen, you are the emperor …", and I think all the women who forward such articles are unconsciously turning themselves into "dissatisfied women". I really want to say, woman, what do you think of yourself when you expect men to treat you as a queen? And when did you treat your man as emperor? Men are often under more pressure than women. It is not easy for everyone to live, but they don't know how to be considerate and grateful. A woman who only complains about men's summaries will also make people who love her gradually move away.
? There is a book called "Marry anyone is happy", but really, when you understand, no matter who the other person is, you can have a good time, and nothing the other person says or does will particularly affect you. If you can't break up with this person, you can decide whether you are happy or not, then you give the other person the right to decide whether you are happy or not. As long as the other person doesn't have the happiness you want, it will be painful. If you don't have the right to decide whether you are happy or not, then even if others change you!
? There are also many girls who think that good love is based on material things, so they hope to find Gao Fushuai to improve their quality of life. I think they lack the ability and confidence to believe that they have done everything. If you have no confidence in your future, you will ask too much. If you ask a person who has Gao Fushuai, men will choose you by the same criteria.
There are also many girls who are worried that they will not be able to have boyfriends when they are old, and think that men only like young and beautiful girls. And I don't think being pursued has anything to do with age. Women's inner stability is very attractive. Maggie Cheung, Faye Wong and Faye Yu are all around 50 years old. Nobody likes them? Men also need to rely on, which we often ignore. A woman who is strong enough to support him is the real charm of a woman!
? When you focus on yourself, the whole world can revolve around you. If you take others as the center, you should take others as the center. Women don't need the power to make people stay away from each other. True charm is like a magnetic field, like a tornado, which gently and voluntarily attracts everyone, and everyone will approach a comfortable place. When you form a comfortable magnetic field, everyone wants to be with you. This is an invisible and intangible charm.
So, be what you want to be, be white instead of looking for it, be a brave traveler who just walks instead of dreaming of finding a person who loves to travel, and be a sunny person who always gives love to the world instead of praying for someone who knows how to love you.
Yes, when you want something, you have to be yourself first. When you become something, you will attract something. Please believe that God has arranged for you thousands of times more than you want!
I hope all women can become active decision makers, not passive waiters, waiting for others to give them forever. You will always be disappointed. How does the law of attraction work for you if you put yourself in a state of incompetence?
I wish all women can live a full and rich self! Let yourself be the shining light full of love first, and then you will find that all love is drawing close to you! You will be surprised to find that all your dreams are within reach!