After three or four years of marriage, there were problems in their marriage. The problem was investigated from the pedicure shop they used to run. After marriage, in order to make a living, my husband opened a pedicure shop in the county. During this period, I actually fell in love with the female technician in the store, and I kept proper relationship until this year when I was discovered by Sister Wang.
When Sister Wang thought the child was still young, she chose forbearance. In order not to make things worse, Sister Wang chose to go to the store, while the man was busy with business outside. After the story was revealed, men chose to escape, often not going home, even leaving their children alone.
Once they had an argument and started fighting, and the man made a big fight with her. Fortunately, Sister Wang's younger brother arrived in time, which didn't make things worse. When the brother-in-law took Sister Wang back to his parents' house, the man tried his best to stop it, and even went to Sister Wang's parents' house to make trouble. It's very unpleasant to fix the two families. The idea of divorce was deeply buried in sister Wang's heart, but at that time, considering that the child was still young, she softened.
Help the husband pay the bill and make the man crash.
No matter how bad the marriage is, life goes on. Arguing again 10 years, as the saying goes, "unhappy marriage, everything goes wrong." Due to poor management, this man owes a lot of foreign debts. Although Sister Wang tried her best to cover the family expenses, the debt owed by her husband was really a drop in the bucket.
Behind the man's back, I let Sister Wang take out his savings to help him pay his debts. I thought that the man would be grateful, but everything was unpredictable. The man directly forced Sister Wang to borrow money from her family. This time, she didn't meet his wish, so she drove into Sister Wang. This time, Sister Wang gave up completely.
Forced by Sister Wang's helplessness, she decided to end the marriage. The man then went to her parents' house for a long time. Because of Sister Wang's insistence, the court finally ruled that the two parties divorced, and the custody of the children, the property of the husband and wife, and the debts of the marriage all belonged to the man. For such a sentence, the man even played a rogue. Anyway, he just wouldn't let Sister Wang go home and even went to her parents' house to make trouble.
Men pester, beat and even restrict themselves.
Sister Wang suggested that the husband and wife should be separated for two months first, and both sides should be calm and calm. Brother Liu still disagreed with Sister Wang's request because he was afraid that Sister Wang would never come back after she left. Legally speaking, Sister Wang has nothing to do with Brother Liu, who has no right to restrict Sister Wang's personal freedom.
Brother Liu understands these truths, but it is still the case. He admitted that he was selfish. He said to Sister Wang, "Even if there is no legal relationship, I will find you. I will follow you when you go to the toilet. " Sister Wang couldn't bear it anymore and left by car, followed by Liu Ge.
In the face of such a marriage and such a partner, I believe many people can see the problem.
Brother Liu's behavior seems a bit rogue. Now that you are divorced, why bother? Doesn't he think it's a little selfish? What he should do now is to work hard and let Sister Wang see hope before he can return to his family. His stubborn practice can only intensify contradictions, and may even develop into a conflict between the two families, which will be even more impossible to recover.
Some people get married, and of course some people get divorced. Some people are so happy after divorce that they can finally leave the person who hates them. However, some people are divorced, but they regret what they did wrong, which leads to being a lonely person now. Whether you are happy or not, marriage has come to an end. Everyone doesn't know the life after marriage, and of course the life after divorce is the same, but in my opinion, divorce is the end of fate. Since you choose to separate, there is no need to struggle, but some people don't choose this way. Since I still can't let go, why divorce? Since you choose to separate, why do you miss your last marriage and can't extricate yourself? This kind of question, these three people's statements gave me a lesson.