I am a woman who was adopted since childhood. Now I'm 30 years old. I've known about adoption since I was a child. My foster mother strongly opposes my contact with my biological mother. Recently, my biological mother ... This is just my idea. If I were you, I would like to know why I was born, why I didn't raise it, and why I came back to recognize my relatives. If I were you, I wouldn't choose my biological parents, because we know the feeling of being abandoned better than anyone else. How can I leave someone who gave it to my family? For better or worse, my parents raised me for 30 years and gave me a shelter for 30 years. I have been calling my parents for 30 years. If it were me, I would give my biological parents a chance to make up for their regrets. I will let my adoptive parents know that I love you forever and will never leave you. The adoptive parents said that we just have one more person who loves me, and we are just simple relatives. You have known who you are since you were a child, where you came from, and how many children know that it is not your own, but you can't ask yet. Finally, you don't know who you are. Compared with them, you are still struggling to go or not. You can go with your adoptive parents if you want, or you don't want to go. Nothing, but you must not hurt those who raised you and those who gave birth to you, our elders.