If you look closely, you will find that modern people pay more attention to health preservation. Perhaps this is because most modern people have realized their basic material needs and have extra time and property to pay attention to their health and happiness. With the development of society, the concept of sex is also developing. In history, it may be that modern people have the most open concept of sex. So is this a good thing?

The relationship between happiness and sex, like food, is what people need. A full meal can maintain life, and the satisfaction of sexual desire is the satisfaction of desire, which will actually make people feel comfortable. Does it mean that when a couple get married, the more sex they have, the happier they will be? This is not the case, although sexual desire is not satisfied for a long time, it will make people feel disappointed; However, too much sexual life will destroy people's health, and people's health is not good, so naturally they cannot pursue more happiness.

The relationship between sex and health care. Traditional Chinese medicine pays attention to letting nature take its course and the right medicine. This principle is also the same when applied to the sexual life of husband and wife, that is to say, sexual life cannot be forced, and the word "reasonable" should be paid attention to.

So what is a reasonable sex life? Many people will discuss such a question, how long is the healthiest time for couples to live once? In fact, it is meaningless to discuss such a question, because everyone's physical quality is different and everyone's sexual desire is different, so the answer to this question may vary from person to person.

It is a reasonable sexual life to meet the needs of your body, which is equivalent to a reasonable health care method.

There is a good saying in philosophy, "Look at problems from a developmental perspective". What does this mean? In other words, when we are doing things and pursuing something, we should not be short-sighted, but look far. Indulgence will hurt the body, just as Chinese medicine says, it will hurt people's vitality and essence, which is actually a short-sighted performance.

On the contrary, if we regard sex life as a way of keeping in good health, we will realize that the purpose of human beings is not sex, but life itself; In this way, a reasonable arrangement of sexual life will not benefit from it because it destroys the body and health is not damaged, and people can pursue more happiness. This is the vision of development.