Many girls pursued by love rat have their own routines. For example, love rat likes to capture little girls with sweet words, and also knows how to impress those cold girls with smooth, ambiguous and warm goodnight every day, so that they can get used to their own existence, become addicted to themselves and rely on themselves, so they are hurt by love rat. The best way for girls to deal with love rat is to find a way to give up their dependence on him.
For example, set a time period for yourself and tell yourself that you must not visit him during this time, so that you can clearly understand the essence of love rat, so that you can' detoxify', and then let yourself develop other behavior habits through emotional transfer, and forget love rat, such as setting a small goal for yourself, reading books, keeping a diary, sinochem, traveling and so on.
2. Get out of the shadow of lovelorn.
Being hurt by love rat is fatal to many girls in love, but the best way to deal with love rat after lovelorn is to forget him, get out of the shadow of lovelorn and start a new life. Maybe you can give yourself some psychological hints, or seek the help of a professional emotional counselor who remembers friends. It's not terrible to be lovelorn. What's terrible is that you have lost yourself since then.
3. Harassment of isolating love rat.
Many women have been hurt by love rat thousands of times, but every time they are hurt, they just need to be coaxed. Knowing that he is love rat, they can remind themselves to stay away from him for one second, and forget their pain under his sweet talk offensive for the next. This will only allow love rat to continue his evil deeds. Therefore, it is suggested that girls break up with love rat and decisively hack him, isolate him from all harassment, and block his way of continuing to hurt himself.
4. Let yourself live a better life.
Many love rat feel very attractive, and many girls are willing to be with themselves even if they have been hurt thousands of times. That vanity will make love rat look proud, so the best way for girls to deal with love rat is to slap him, wake him up and tell him,' You are not loved by everyone, at least I don't want you!'
Of course, I don't want you to slap love rat. I mean, to deal with love rat, I want him to realize that he can still live beautifully without you, and he is more natural and unrestrained. This requires you to constantly improve your personal charm. When you are promoted in all aspects, you will also find that love rat really has nothing to rely on. If a woman wants to live happily, she still has to rely on herself.