Second, how a person views himself determines his fate and points to his destination. The same is true of our outlook. When better ideas are injected into it, it will light up. No matter how humble life is, face it bravely, don't run away, and don't curse.
Third, high emotional intelligence, mainly to make others happy; High IQ is mainly to make yourself happy; IQ is not high, and EQ is not high. The main reason is that if you are unhappy, you will not make others happy.
Fourth, always leave some space for your heart. Money is easy to break up, popularity is hard to find, money is good, no money is good, and many good marriages will eventually pay off. It is good to climb to the top, but if you want to last forever, you must cultivate the spirit of life diligently; First paste and then worry, lose and then be smart. If you don't lose the happiness of life, you will be a big winner.
Fifth, life is not in age, but in spiritual youth; Clothing is not fashionable, but comfortable and fit; Not rich in diet, but balanced in nutrition; The bedroom is not about size, but about cleanliness and comfort; Health is not deliberate, it is important to let nature take its course; Exercise is not in Xia Dong, but in perseverance; Work and rest are not in the morning and evening, but in the law; Interest is not refined, keep childlike innocence; There are not many friends, but you need a bosom friend.
Remember, it's better to be smart than to play dumb. It is better to work hard than to seek happiness. It is better to pretend to be poor than to show off your wealth. It's better to lose than to win without losing. It is better to suffer than to take advantage of small things. It's better to be mediocre than to seek fame. I would rather be confident than blindly pessimistic. Better be healthy than fame and fortune. It is better to be diligent than idle. I would rather be paranoid than give up my ideal.
Seven, the road of life is tortuous and long, and when you are tired, silence will replace everything; Remember to be patient when life is in adversity; When life is good, remember to converge; When life is proud, remember to bow your head; When life is frustrated, remember to follow the fate; When in a bad mood, you need to cultivate yourself; When you are in a good mood, when you need to dive! Understand the true meaning of life, low tide makes the sea, low tide makes the king. A saint is nameless, but a great man is invisible. Expensive but not obvious, flashy but not gorgeous, exercise yourself in the wind and rain.
Eight, people in this life, we must stand up to lies, stand up to perfunctory, endure deception and forget promises. Slowly, I understand that persistence is not necessarily victory, and giving up is not necessarily giving up. It's better to turn around gracefully and give yourself a circuitous space, learn to think, learn to wait and learn to adjust.
Nine, the scenery of life, colorful. Being a normal person, superficial envy, boring comparison and clumsy imitation will only make you live in the shadow of others all day. We should recognize ourselves, go our own way and live our own lives.
Ten, don't care, it is a happy way. Why do you care? If you care too much, you will only surround yourself and make yourself unhappy. If you care too much, you will be very tired. Forget it, enjoy a relaxed and happy life first.