When you get together with friends, classmates and colleagues, you will inevitably talk about your parents' shortcomings and eat and drink! Inevitably, just talk about how brilliant the past was. Let's talk about whose officials do the most, who earns more money and whose children are more talented. Even talk about whose pension is high and whose pension is low? Saying this is nothing more than comparing who is better!
In fact, after retirement, I think I should calm down and live my life quietly. We used to be retired ordinary people. No matter how much money we made in the past, now that we eat three meals a day, our children will become talented again. If we are not filial, we still can't refer to our children! Whether the pension is high or low, there are many things I can't change. If I spend more, I will spend less!
Besides, friends gathering is nothing more than eating and drinking. Now that I am old, I can't eat any more, and drinking is even more harmful to my health. Some of them get drunk because they drink too much, which leads to physical discomfort and illness. Your family still blames you and even gives you trouble!
Therefore, I think that when I retire, I should reduce my circle of friends, try to enjoy a lonely life and spend more time with my family!
Sometimes you can drink tea, read books, listen to music, exercise in the park, take a walk and enjoy the natural scenery alone. It's not a very free life!
Let me answer this question.
10 years ago, after I retired, the most meaningless thing I did was to play mahjong every day. An old man in his sixties plays mahjong at least twice a day or even three times a day. After the performance in the evening, I won the money and went to eat supper and drink beer with some handsome young women, often staying up late at night. This makes the family angry and resentful. It is meaningless to say that playing mahjong every day is mainly in these aspects:
First, playing mahjong, I sometimes lose thousands of dollars, and my retirement salary often becomes a "moonlight family". In the mahjong room, Ma You and I will always be losers, and the owner of the mahjong room will always be winners. As the saying goes, "four people fight, four people lose and win the table and bench." This is the universal law of all mahjong parlors. Take a mahjong room I often visit as an example: she has three rooms and a mahjong machine. It is basically full in the afternoon, with an average of not less than 6 sets in the evening. 50 yuan is charged for each set, and the total daily charge is about 700 yuan. Excluding expenses such as electricity, tea and garage rent, the average daily income is not lower than that of 500 yuan, and the gross monthly income is not less than 20,000 yuan, which is close to 250,000 yuan a year. In our community, there are more than 10 mahjong halls. The annual income is as high as more than 2 million. This money is the card table fee for us to pump water to play mahjong every day. In Ma You, the money in our pockets is the water in the mouth of a fish, and we spit it out every day. Win money today, lose money tomorrow, you will always be a loser, and the mahjong boss is the real winner. My card skills should be relatively good, and I haven't won any money, not to mention those novice mahjong players with poor skills. What's the point of playing mahjong every day?
Second, playing mahjong every day, indulging in it, mahjong halls often have some quarrels and even fights. That doesn't mean anything. Playing mahjong is a small bet. Someone has a metaphor: "It's illegal to gamble big, but it's better to gamble small." . Whenever gambling, ten gambles and nine cheats. I caught two gambler cheating in the mahjong room in our neighborhood. Because I have seen and studied various tricks of mahjong. There is a middle-aged man from other places who plays mahjong in our community and wins every game. Everyone thinks it's strange and abnormal. Once I played mahjong with him, I would pay attention to his every move. I caught him stealing cards red-handed. Fortunately, I handled it properly and told him to leave early and never come here again. Otherwise, it will be torn to pieces by angry Ma You, leading to public security cases. What does this mean?
Third, after retirement, I played mahjong for half a year and bowed my head day and night, leading to scapulohumeral periarthritis and cervical spondylosis. Playing mahjong with my head down on the table for a long time, my eyes are always staring at my own cards and every card played by others, which leads to long-term exhaustion and congestion, and my vision is seriously reduced. What is more serious is that the cervical vertebra compresses blood vessels and nerves, resulting in severe stenosis of blood vessels and dizziness caused by insufficient blood supply to the skull. I have been to the most authoritative hospital in the province. In order to prevent misdiagnosis, I found two professors through hospital students to diagnose my condition. They watched the films taken by my cervical vertebra respectively, and agreed that they should have surgery, otherwise their lives would be in danger. I just know that retired people who play mahjong for many years not only spend money, but also kill themselves. It really doesn't make any sense.
From then on, I bid farewell to the mahjong room, chose a meaningful activity and started backpacking at home and abroad. I have not only traveled all over Southeast Asia, but also visited most parts of China. Not only did I gain knowledge and expand my knowledge, but my travel life strengthened my body. Periarthritis of shoulder and cervical spondylosis were miraculously cured without surgery. Long-term travel career is not only more meaningful than soaking in the mahjong room every day, but also a happy retirement.
The tea is really cold when people leave!
This is a true story. A few years ago, there was a bureau leader in our unit. During his tenure, he has strong working ability and is ready to help others. He has a wide range of contacts. In a small county, his influence is great, and he is highly respected both inside and outside the unit!
Later, because of his age, he retired to the second line and no longer held leadership positions, so he was idle. He is not a man who can live in leisure, so he started a company related to fire safety. Everyone thinks that with his relationship and influence, he will succeed!
At first, everything went well. My former colleagues gave me enough face, and people in the society listened to me as always! After starting a company, the richer you are, the more you value money, and even your wife is not needed, because the company accountant is young, beautiful and more considerate!
The pulse of the old man will never be finished. Slowly, things are not easy to handle, and the leaders are full of complaints. Later, I was seriously deceived by my friends in the most trusted society. He worked hard for several years, but it was abolished overnight and returned to liberation! Affected by this, he was seriously ill, and no one visited him during the period, which made him even more depressed! Before long, he had a stroke and collapsed in bed! Faced with today's embarrassing dilemma, he was speechless!
Outsiders can see clearly. People who know him say that his biggest mistake is to mistake the platform for personal skills! And whether he has realized that it is too late! People walk far away from tea, which has nothing to do with human nature. Platform is capital, not personal ability!
The most meaningless thing after retirement: 1. If you have nothing to do, just go for a stroll in the original unit, have a meal, find out a secret, and even insert a word in the current government. It's so annoying. I don't want to be an "old child". I don't want to have ideas about children's work and survival, and I don't want to interfere. 3, the ears are soft, often fooled by a few eggs and bowls of noodles, and the money is smashed into a healthy bottomless pit. Some even become targets of electric fraud.
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This question is very interesting and of universal significance. Modern society has entered the age of aging, and the elderly in China have accounted for 17% of the total population. After retirement, some old people are energetic in learning knowledge, exercising and continuing to work, while others are doing meaningless things.
One is to rely on the old to sell the old on the internet and make a spray on the internet! Seeing modern society is not pleasing to the eye, and I can't stop cursing all new things, because I have low academic qualifications, low skills and low pension, and I hope others are poorer than myself. In fact, I am jealous of the mentality of comparing with the rich.
The third is poor travel. Old people can travel after retirement and go to places they have never been. And some elderly people specialize in poor travel, wasting time, that is, looking for people and enterprises selling insurance, fund-raising and health care products to participate in free travel or extremely low-cost travel. There are also a bunch of old people who travel together, calculating each other, and traveling without traveling. They just don't want to buy tickets at the gates of various scenic spots, just take a photo, send a circle of friends and travel to this scenic spot by themselves. On the surface, these old people travel everywhere, but in fact they don't go swimming anywhere, which is a waste of travel and accommodation time and money.
This is an interesting question. I'll get it.
I am an employee who has just retired from the enterprise, and my years of work have formed an inertia; Get up in the morning and go to bed at night. If there are no special circumstances, I usually rest and get up on time, and suddenly change my lifestyle. I'm really not used to it. Wake up at the same time in the morning, even want to eat and go to work. Fortunately, after a period of adjustment, I am used to my present lifestyle now.
If you want to say the most meaningless, it should be unnecessary concern for enterprises. I was in charge of equipment when I went to work, and I knew the equipment of the whole production line very well. What areas need further improvement? Where is it easy to break down? I have everything under control. After retirement, I often worry about these devices, and sometimes I have been studying this problem even in my sleep. I think this is the most meaningless and boring alarmist.
Without the earth, everyone would turn. Enterprises can still operate without anyone. Maybe it's better without you than with you.
The problem is that you have to adjust your mentality. Don't think you are arrogant, you are the boss.
Everything has a process, just get used to it.
Retire and do what you like.
First of all, travel, go out to travel and see different scenery.
Secondly, take part in physical exercise and keep healthy.
Third, look for food.
It all makes sense.
The most boring thing after retirement is to be rehired by the original unit.
I am an engineering unit, and my main responsibility is to be responsible for house demolition and land requisition within the red line of the project; Responsible for communication with the local government; Responsible for going to the local environmental protection bureau, housing and construction bureau, land and resources bureau and other departments to handle the relevant examination and approval procedures of the project; Also responsible for coordinating with villages and towns. When I retire, the leader wants me to accept re-employment and finish my work. In fact, I also understand that work can never be finished. Fortunately, the unit has been very kind to me for many years, the relationship between colleagues is very harmonious, and the re-employment treatment is also very good, so I agreed.
On the outside, everything is the same as before I retired, but from the inside, my mind has changed. People become lazy, and the mind of work is gone. They are always thinking about how to support the elderly and how to raise their grandchildren in the future. In particular, I can't accept a little timidity. The more I work, the less enthusiastic I am and I am not in the mood.
These days, I went to the city to run the examination and approval procedures for self-built concrete mixing stations. Because environmental protection has hard indicators, involving many departments, there is no way, only to ask my parents one by one. As we all know, it is difficult to get into our government department, with an ugly face and a big shelf. In order to go through the formalities, I can only rely on my old face and pretend to smile, feeling that my self-esteem has been hurt. It's really not worth thinking that you have been tired all your life, but now you are sad and humiliated in order to continue working.
Stick to it for a few more months, and when several major events at work are completed, I will resolutely propose to terminate the employment contract, go home to have grandchildren, enjoy family happiness and enjoy a happy retirement.
What is the most meaningless thing to do after retirement?
I don't think there is a standard answer to this question. Everyone has a different lifestyle and life experience. Then the understanding of whether it is meaningful is different.
In life, we often see someone doing something different. But for the customer, he may feel it necessary to do so.
So the answer to this question is that different people have different opinions.
Personally, I think the most meaningless thing after retirement is to keep in touch with the people in the original unit. I always call my former colleagues to send messages and ask questions. Even some people often go back to their original units for a walk.
It is normal for retirees to miss their original units. It is understandable that there must be a lot of nostalgia and nostalgia where they have worked for so long. However, when you return to your original unit, it will be impolite for your colleagues to ignore you, and entertaining you will delay and disturb the normal work of others.
Now that you are retired, there is no need to inquire about people or things in the unit. If a colleague tells you voluntarily, that's another matter.
I wonder if my old friends after retirement feel the same way with me. Colleagues who used to be very good at work have mostly stopped contacting after retirement, even if they meet in the street, they are sloppy. So, when you retire, you quit that circle and no longer have an intersection with them.
What I do after retirement is meaningless, and there is a comparison of pension. The level of pension has little to do with your quality of life after retirement. Some people are not short of money, but unhappy.
After retirement, most people will choose a leisurely lifestyle that will make them feel comfortable. As for what is meaningful and what is meaningless. This depends on personal understanding, cognition and recognition.
After retirement, the old people have worked hard for most of their lives. There is no need to exhaust yourself in pursuit of so-called meaning. As long as it is a healthy lifestyle, it is desirable.