"The best thing in the world is empathy." Let's take a look at an example of not "empathy"-

654381October 30th, an interview video of Academician Zhong Nanshan in the program "Health Care Hall" of Beijing TV Station caused public anger, because the hostess Yaqi was always fascinated by her smile.

In the Year of the Rat, the whole city of Wuhan was closed, schools were postponed, enterprises were postponed, and the whole people were grounded at home under the epidemic. With the increasing number of confirmed cases, people's anxiety and panic are constantly pushed up.

In this context, even my 1 1 year-old baby is worried. When he saw this video, he was very puzzled: "Is she stupid? How can you smirk and ask others why their eyes are wet? "

"If it were you, how would you communicate with this respectable and lovely elder?" I asked.

"Solemnness, humility and respect are the attitudes that should be given to the elderly; Interviewing such a heavy topic should be serious and dignified. " He thought for a moment and gave his answer.

Yes, a basic common sense that even children know, this "compound host" who graduated from Communication University of China and has a beautiful resume, actually showed the audience such an ignorant gaffe.

"People who lack empathy will be as ugly and annoying as this host." I said to the child.

Empathy ability, or translated as empathy ability, refers to the ability to experience the situation of others, so as to feel and understand their feelings.

Empathy refers to the ability to go deep into others' feelings and understand others.

Whether we see friends' hands bleeding on paper or the news of old people picking up garbage in hot summer, observing other people's pain can arouse our deep pain and sadness-just like the same thing happened to us. This feeling is empathy, that is, the ability to put yourself in others' shoes.

Novel coronavirus was raging, and Professor Zhong Nanshan, an academician of China Academy of Engineering, was once again appointed as the head of the senior expert group of the National Health Commission.

He immediately gave advice: "My general opinion is that unless there are special circumstances, don't go to Wuhan." However, on the evening of October 8th, 65438 10, at the age of 84, he rushed to the forefront of epidemic prevention in Wuhan without hesitation.

From Guangzhou to Wuhan, and then to Beijing ... In the past few days, he has learned about the epidemic situation on the spot, studied prevention and control plans, held press conferences, broadcast live through the media, and interpreted the latest situation ... His work and schedule are all full.

Zhong Nanshan, who stood up again at the critical moment, evoked people's collective memories of this hero who dared to tell the truth, waded in dangerous beaches and gnawed at hard bones, and was full of respect.

He is called the "national backbone", a hero, a tough guy and a cruel man.

In the interview, the woman who was reviled by the public for her hot search once smiled naively and asked him why his eyes were wet. Zhong Nanshan replied-

"Because I think that in Wuhan, our medical staff have worked very hard, and people infected by unknown viruses are really depressed.

At that time, when I was communicating with many of my students, they were in a bad mood, so when my students wrote a message saying that they suddenly sang the national anthem in the street outside and sang "The Chinese nation is at its most dangerous time", it showed that everyone's morale was up. So I am very touched. Why? Because doing anything, including treating critically ill infectious patients, it is very important to have morale, spirit and the strength of unity and cooperation. This is a prerequisite. "

Academician Zhong, whose eyes are wet, and the woman who keeps inexplicable pleasure in times of crisis are like mirrors showing "empathy" on both sides.

Communication is 30% content and 70% emotion; If the mood is wrong, the content will be distorted.

In real life, we often become parents who lack empathy and don't know it.

Once, I took my children to the China Science and Technology Museum, and the huge exhibition hall was crowded with people. I accompanied him through one project after another until my legs seemed to be filled with lead.

I said to him, "I'm going there to have a rest." You put on your mobile phone watch and come to me after playing this project. "

I sat on the floor regardless of my image, surrounded by my parents like me.

Half an hour passed and he didn't come back. I called him and found that he was out of service. There are children everywhere, but I can't see him. I panicked!

Fortunately, the child was finally found.

Excuse me, if you were in this situation, what would be the first thing you would say to your child?

"Where have you been?" -Blame and question

"Didn't I tell you to come to me for this project? Why run around? " -be reasonable and blame.

"Pull the child up, turn around and go, push hard"-vent your anger

Parents who truly feel the same way will first understand their emotions and state from the child's point of view. None of the above practices have been done.

At that time, I experienced excessive tension and anxiety and almost ran over with all my strength. I hugged him tightly and burst into tears (this touched sadness, tension and other emotions, which is incorrect).

When I met his surprised eyes, I realized that he just hadn't had enough fun, so I felt that he was immersed in his own exploration before the appointed time, but I abruptly interrupted him.

I quickly said, "I'm sorry, I thought it was long enough to find you, but it worried me!" " I didn't scare you, did I? "

He immediately gave me a big hug: "Maybe I was so fascinated that I forgot the time and worried you. Sorry. "

This is the power of empathy.

I saw his feelings, and he felt understood and accepted. So his inner strength can feel me in turn.

When a person is connected by empathy, his neurochemicals will change, calm neurochemicals will replace stress hormones, and stress will dissipate.

Good parent-child relationship is always the product of empathy.

There are many parents who love their children, but few parents who understand them.

Empathy is the first step into a child's heart. Parents should accept and respect their children's emotions or behaviors, so as to better guide and help children to establish correct and good psychological cognition.

Empathy: also known as empathy, empathy, empathy is also translated into empathy, empathy, empathy and so on.

Empathy refers to being able to understand other people's situations and have sensibility and understanding of their emotions. When communicating with people, you can enter the other person's spiritual realm, feel the other person's inner world, care about each other, understand each other's feelings and respond to each other's feelings appropriately.

Let me answer my understanding that "the best thing in the world is empathy".

Empathy is also called empathy and empathy. Empathy translates into empathy, empathy, admiration and so on. The concept of empathy was put forward by Rogers, the founder of humanism. Its basic idea is the ability to experience the inner world of others.

As a professional psychological counselor, you can use the language of the helper to go deep into the other person's heart and understand his feelings and thoughts; Counselors can grasp the relationship between the experience of the helper and his experience and personality with the help of knowledge and experience, and can better solve substantive problems; Psychological counselors can also use counseling skills to convey their sympathy to each other, thus affecting the positive feedback of the other party's psychological assistance.

Empathy is based on correct morality and values.

Empathy actually exists in China's classical works & gt there is a very incisive exposition. Confucius said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" and "provide for the old and care for the young", which well embodies the concept of empathy.

In our daily work and life, we often see that a friend has a high emotional intelligence and is appreciated by others. People with high emotional intelligence usually have good empathy ability, because they can feel the thoughts and feelings of others more keenly, put themselves in others' shoes and make more altruistic and decent actions in language and behavior, so they are loved and welcomed by colleagues and friends. It is what we usually call "good popularity".

Before the age of three, the children's world is individual-centered. Children rarely feel psychological changes and thoughts and feelings from the outside world or others. Similarly, its focus is mainly on itself. Empathy needs special attention. Cultivating children's empathy can help them learn to respect and care for others. It is also one of the important operations to cultivate a child with high emotional intelligence.

1. Parents are the main guides and important role models for cultivating children with high emotional intelligence.

Albert bandura believes that people have the ability of alternative learning.

The most common and profound influence on children's prosocial tendency is the behavior of others, that is, the role models that children can contact. In the content of sociality and personality development in psychology, it is specifically mentioned that children can learn empathy and altruistic behavior by observing role models.

As parents, we should pay attention to the cultivation of children's empathy ability in daily life.

Take more children to experience and feel. In daily life, learn to put yourself in others' shoes. Empathy education for children should be pervasive and penetrate into every small link of life.

Take a three-year-old child as an example. Give a simple example, such as when our children are free. Draw with children. In the process of drawing, we can draw a circle to represent the children themselves. On the first piece of white paper, let's draw a circle to represent the children. This circle can be drawn in the middle of a blank sheet of paper, indicating that the child is at the center of a family or a small social circle. But in the next picture, we should draw a circle representing children on one side of the white paper, and put more kindergarten children or other representatives of family and social roles in this white paper. At the same time, we should tell children that this kind of life is not individual-centered, but there are many circles, and different individuals form a social group together. This group is not centered on one person, but everyone in Qi Xin works together to live in harmony.

Here we recommend the famous picture book Little Blue and Xiaolan, represented by two interesting circles. Two children go to school together, play together, and turn green by hugging. Picture books are bright in design and easy to understand, but they contain profound philosophy of life and the law of color change. It is suggested that parents with children at home accompany their children to read this picture book to achieve the educational goal of killing three birds with one stone.

In kindergarten, children are bound to contact their peers and communicate with teachers, and small friction conflicts will inevitably occur in this process. Then when children encounter such small problems in interpersonal communication, the guiding role of parents is particularly important. Please ask parents to lead their children to be less melodramatic and more empathetic. Tolerance, forbearance and humility are important manifestations of education.

Empathy can be understood as sharing a beautiful relationship. "Asking what is the love in the world means that people are committed to life and death" refers to the empathy between men and women, which can rely on life; Su Shi has a poem "A Thousand Miles Together", but this is his feelings with his younger brother. I really hope that his younger brother can take care of himself and live a long life. Even though he is thousands of miles away, he can still share those wonderful times. This makes us realize that empathy is not only beautiful, but also not limited to men and women.

Don't say empathy is the most beautiful thing in the world. Even immortals are keen on the life of empathy in the world, whether it is a journey to the west or a fairy match. Whether it's a fairy tale or a legend. In short, they are keen on the life of empathy, and those who are full of vitality between heaven and earth are eager to enjoy the life of empathy. As the tallest animal in human beings, it is more necessary to combine Yang. This is the same as the law of nature. There is a small yang, a big yang, a small yin and a big yin, so it is called all year round. Just like the sun during the day and the moon at night, day and night are formed, so human men and women form human beings.

Empathy, also known as empathy and empathy, is also translated as empathy, empathy and empathy. Empathy refers to the ability to go deep into the subjective world of others and understand their feelings.

1. Listen to your feelings. Empathy begins with listening to your feelings. If you can't touch your own feelings, it will be too difficult to understand others' feelings, because this field is still blank for you! So, first of all, you should be able to adjust yourself to explore your feelings and understand them.

2. To express feelings, it is important to choose the way to express feelings.

3. Listen to other people's feelings. Once your own feelings and expressions no longer interfere with your listening to others, you can begin to practice understanding others' feelings; There are many clues that can help you find out how others feel.

4. Answer others' feelings thoughtfully. Finally, as soon as you hear other people's feelings, you will react in some way, making them feel that you have listened and can understand their feelings. Therefore, listening to yourself, finding out your feelings, expressing them, feeling the feelings of others and resonating with them are the four processes of empathy.

Thank you.

"The most beautiful thing in the world is empathy", and the "key word" or "combination boxing" in this sentence is empathy. How to understand and interpret the category of empathy? My own analysis is:

First, national unity is encouraged by the world. This is the most empathetic "pattern". For example, because of air pollution, environmental pollution, virus infection, black and evil hegemony infringement and so on. It has aroused people's anger, brought disasters, and caused unprecedented prevention and control that requires group prevention and control. The understanding of the Chinese people has reached a consensus, the responsibility of the country is touching, and the "reputation" of the world coincides. Therefore, this is the "emotional resonance" of "empathy".

Second, two people get along, like "fish and water blend", like "tourists weave", like "sunshine in the air", like "in the same boat", like "a couple in trouble", like "no one can live without who" ... So, this is the interaction of empathy, and this is the joint effort of empathy.

Empathy means sharing weal and woe, which can be brotherhood, love or affection. But when you are in the most difficult time, someone will accompany you and share weal and woe, which is the most beautiful thing in the world. There is a saying that "a friend in need is a friend indeed". Just like the song Friends, if you encounter misfortune, please tell me that it is "the best thing in the world is empathy"

"Empathy" should mean that you like each other at the same time, and the other person likes you. At the same time, everyone realizes the collision of souls and produces irresistible preferences! This kind of beautiful feeling can make each other look forward to it all the time … it may be the most beautiful in the world, but it is also the most difficult to meet …

Some people say that "the best thing in the world is empathy". How to understand this "empathy"? I understand it this way: it is a kind of empathy between lovers, a kind of empathy between knowing each other and giving timely help in the snow, a kind of empathy between husband and wife, a kind of empathy between doctors and patients, and a kind of empathy between treating diseases and saving lives ...! I agree-the best thing in the world is empathy!