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Pay attention to differences
What research projects does Maotoutou School have? To be honest, I really don't know what it is. My initial impression of this project is that he wants to make a mask, a very strange mask, like a monster and a devil. In order to make this mask, he destroyed two T-shirts, as well as a lot of paint from the art teacher's house and flour from home (it is said to be used for sizing). It was enough to destroy a dress, but later it needed painting, so I was not happy to turn it over at home. I also think it is better to destroy an undershirt than to waste expensive paint. Cat's head not only searches online for sizing methods, but also sews them by itself. Schools in the United States and Canada have trained a group of talents with strong hands-on ability.

Last weekend, the cat's head was told by his father when he was sizing, because his teammates said that his method was wrong and he should brush it with hot paste instead of being so cold. Cat Head insisted that he checked five videos online, all of which were like this.

Today is the last day to hand in the manuscript. Cat Head made it late last night. To tell the truth, he started this project very early, but he didn't expect to have something to do every day until the last day. For this reason, we also went to the library to find some books, and the teachers in the library were also very enthusiastic to help.

In the evening, Cat Head showed his father the results of his project with great interest. He thinks he can get praise from his father. As a result, my teammate said, "I think you spend most of your time making masks. I think you should spend more energy on inquiry. " I was in class, but I was so angry when I heard this sentence. Sure enough, I saw the cat shrink its head back to the desk angrily.

The cat lost its tooth two days ago, and he felt bad. Later, he had his teeth pulled out and got my praise and concern. When the teammates came home, the cat head showed his teeth to his father like a treasure. As a result, his teammate said, "You can check the composition and knowledge of teeth online."

Later, I asked my teammates angrily, "You are not feeling well. Do you want us to care about you?" Do you think we should comfort you instead of telling you about your study and work? "

Sometimes I tell my friends about these contradictions at home, and they comfort me that all fathers are like this. There are contradictions between father and son. But I was thinking, we always say that children are rebellious and children don't understand adults. So what we usually do is kill our children's love for us? Every time a teammate preaches to Cat Head, Cat Head doesn't listen. Finally, one day, he said to his father, "I don't want to hear you say that you are bored." Of course, we are unhappy as parents, so as soon as the child turns around and forgets, he will come to be nice to you, share his life with you and seek your concern. Didn't you give him what he longed for?

I can only interpret this situation as focusing on differences. First of all, when you have a parent with low emotional intelligence, do you follow the trend and continue to lower your route, or do you pay special attention to your words and actions only when you are clearly aware of yourself and know that others will not do so? Also, do we expect all people in this world to care about us, support us, encourage us and understand us? Is it necessary? Cann't someone be jealous, someone throw cold water on it, someone say irony, or even someone tell the truth in a burst of blood? Like my students, I can't bear to have any doubts about her homework. I always think that my warning about her writing mistakes is an ironic blow to her, so I always say this sentence to the cat's head: "Being at home with my father is a kind of training as well as listening to another voice."

This is the difference between our understanding and cognition. Our child fell down. Should we help him up at once? For children who fall, of course you will say "get up by yourself"; So shouldn't we say, "Are you sure you really learned what the teacher asked?" Or: "You should spend more time doing research!" Or children have been looking for information on the computer for a long time, and we have to say, "Is there something wrong with your efficiency?"

Yesterday, when I retired the noodle maker, my teammates were a little puzzled and asked me what happened. I said no problem, but there is nothing wrong with it. The problem is with me. I have no time. I didn't buy a noodle machine. I bought an accessory for the chef's machine. I have a chef's machine at home. Add a few heads to it to make noodles, which are fresh and delicious. But I don't have time to wait around and press my face. I'm not really that busy. I don't want to waste my time on boring and repetitive mechanical work. With this time, I can do a lot of reading and research I like. I can find more good articles and design themes for my students. Nowadays, children are so bad. If you simply copy the questions online, they can easily find ready-made answers. You must do it yourself. A year ago, some parents criticized the problem of copying reading comprehension questions online, but my talented students actually corrected it.

I have a friend whose kitchen utensils are very advanced. She always shows me all kinds of pots and pans she bought recently and tells me their benefits. There are also parents in the online group who spare no effort to explain the purpose of the tool. I am always unmoved, mainly because I pay attention to different things. This friend has a bottle of skin care products at home. I looked at it and put it on the dresser for three years. Recently, she said she would throw it away, because when I opened it and wanted to use it, I found it smelled bad. When this friend first met me, he also intended to buy cosmetics with me at buy buy. She said she didn't understand, so she bought whatever I said. Later, she gave up, because she followed me farther and farther, and she felt unbearable. La Prairie Eye Cream was highly recommended some time ago. I said I really used it, not the psychological effect of other brands. She shook her head and said it was too expensive and boring. So I closed my mouth and looked at her expanding bags under the eyes, deeper and deeper dark circles and eye lines. But she bought new things, such as waterproof stew and health pot. Anyway, if I need to ask about any kitchen utensils and saucepans, just ask her.

In short, we have different emphases in life, different aspects of pursuit and different understandings of pursuit. No one is right or wrong, just a choice for one's own life.

the end

P.S. paid for his teammate's mobile phone yesterday, and I am very proud. When I checked the accounts at night, I found that I paid them twice that day. I asked my teammate how to drive from school to the company, and he said from memory. I said, well, didn't you see the page that said no arrears when you paid? He said, oh, I didn't notice.