I am a 40-year-old mother. I want to learn a musical instrument. Please give me some advice!
I suggest you learn some playing instruments, because your fingers are hard now, and it's really not suitable to learn keyboard instruments or stringed instruments, not to say that you can't learn them, but it will be more difficult, so I think it's better for you to learn the flute and something like that, which is cheap, quick to use, quiet and has low requirements for the staff (by the way, the staff is actually very simple, as long as you calm down and have a look.