I feel how time flies. In the past few years after marriage, I have become a mother of two children in a blink of an eye.

It used to be taboo to call teenagers "aunts", but now they can accept it calmly.

I used to call myself "child" as a modest name. Now I dare to use it in front of these 70 s and 60 s elders, but I am embarrassed to mention it elsewhere, and I haven't even found a suitable substitute.

Fortunately, sensible young people have long used honorifics-"Sister Tong", "Manager Tong" and "Teacher Tong". As in those days, we are very cautious.

It turns out that I'm really not young.

Walking on the road of thinking, I feel unwilling, clutching the tail of youth, but I don't want to let go, and I want to sell Meng, act young and cheat.

These capitals have already drifted away, and slowly, they no longer belong to us.

Goddess, can't be; Little sister, almost unqualified.

I like the route from aunt more and more.

Just looking at the appearance, you will find that there are many changes in your face and figure.

(1) The skin has wrinkles, spots and white hair.

Skin thinning, loss of elasticity, wrinkles, pigmentation, spots, more common in the face, back of hand, legs, common dark circles, hair gradually falling off and white hair.

(2) hair loss

After the age of 30, women's ovarian function began to weaken and estrogen secretion was abnormal. Renal function is gradually weakened, which will lead to hair loss, hair loss, hair thinning and hairline recession. This is an obvious feature of the aging of women.

(3) Breast

Women's breasts begin to age at 35. After that, the levels of estrogen and progesterone in women will gradually decrease, so the breasts will gradually start to age and sag.

(4) Brain nervous system

In fact, many people don't know that our brains are aging from the age of 22. After 40, the number of nerve cells will decrease at a rate of 1 10,000 per day. When a woman reaches menopause, not only will her personality change, but her memory will also decline.

Besides, being fat is even more annoying.

Some living habits and preferences have also begun to change.

For example, staying up late before was a piece of cake; 12 I can't stand not sleeping.

Another example: the original floral hate pattern, as well as ankle-length skirt, these two elements together, ugly and earthy, like a foot curtain covering the body; I wear it often now, and I still feel quite ladylike.

Incredible, even the aesthetics from small to large have been subverted!

Most importantly, the temper becomes eccentric.

Yes, she used to be a cautious little jasper, but later she became a tiger girl who always scolded with her mouth open.

Yes, the original cheerful and laughing pistachio became silent later.

Further down, even values have changed.

Originally, pursuing ideals and paying attention to independence; Now, I think it's bullshit. Taking care of my husband and my children is the right thing to do.

Originally, I was unwilling to admit defeat and willing to suffer; Now, accept your fate and sit down and enjoy it.

Originally, I am very affectionate, and I am willing to do my best. Now, I believe that people are selfish and don't care about the right or wrong of others.

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The change of life, the hardship of work, and some hardships have made our once innocent face and pure heart vague and heavy.

Think about it quietly. Sometimes, I feel strange.

Time and experience not only affect us, but also affect our attitude towards friends and relatives around us and even strangers.

Let you be more indifferent, more questioning and more alienated from them.

Emotions are no longer sincere, and relationships are no longer strong.

No one doesn't want life to get better, but the fall of chicken feathers is everywhere, all the time.

At home, quarrels, disputes, violence, division. ...

Work, start to have pressure, doubt, be eliminated, turn against each other. ...

Every family has a difficult story, and everyone has a frustrated song.

I have blamed others, hated the world, and even pointed to God who has scolded me countless times. Only be cruel to yourself, only make yourself miserable.

Never look back, never reflect, never look forward, so in this rotten swamp, I get deeper and deeper.

No one can save you if you never want to change yourself and get rid of it.

The growth of age will one day turn us into white-haired, stumbling, a little stubborn or eccentric aunts.

However, even an aunt, why can't she have a rest from this day? In other words, let the image of this aunt be as full of vitality and vigor as when she was young.

Instead, give up on yourself early before this stage, give in easily, and wait for years to grow old.

Looking around, there is never a lack of examples that know how to maintain and cherish life.

As far away as the female stars Angie Chiu, Michelle, Brigitte Lin and Di Bola reported in the news, even if they are over 60 years old, they are still beautiful, elegant in temperament and flowery in smiles, which shows that the years are quiet.

Nearby neighbors, old classmates or colleagues' old friends, some are properly maintained, in good health, insisting on fitness, work, housework and children, and still have time to travel and learn art.

Eat fireworks and live a happy life.

Everyone has such a good wish to delay aging.

Everyone knows some ways to keep healthy.

For example, you should have good living habits, go to bed early and get up early, and avoid staying up late, because sleep is particularly important, which is equivalent to a person's energy during the day.

In diet, remember to overeat and drink more alcohol and tobacco. Some healthy ingredients can enhance human immunity, resist oxidation, and have a great effect on skin metabolism and delay aging. As a woman, you can choose to eat more.

Proper exercise and fitness is a powerful magic weapon to keep healthy and stay young forever. Want a good figure, greedy and sleepy, refused to move. Stop daydreaming!

In addition, a good attitude is the most important thing. Think about it, if you are sad or angry every day for a long time, you will definitely get sick.

Get rid of bad emotions in time, correctly understand the meaning of life, and have your own spiritual sustenance, which can be writing, calligraphy, flower cultivation, yoga ... as long as you like it, as long as it can calm your heart, it is a good exit.

Not only that, but also enrich life, improve memory and enhance literacy. gain two ends at once

Charming aunt, sixty or seventy years old. How can we bow our heads and give up early when we are less than forty years old?

Wake up early, act early, run to the fourth road, put aside complaints and sorrows, and embrace growth and cash. This is what we expect. I believe that you will not live up to your efforts and efforts. Come on!