In fact, although this makes sense, it is too one-sided. Men like a woman, as long as they intend to get married and live together, then they not only care about the young woman, but also include personality, knowledge, personality and so on.
Young men will choose women of the same age. What age group do men who are around 50 like?
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Wei Wu, 52, has been divorced for five years. Although they are over 50 years old, their life expectancy is still very long. A person's life is always lonely, and they have the right to pursue happiness.
Someone around him introduced him to women of the same age, but he disagreed. He thinks that although a person is fifty years old, he can still accept new things ideologically.
When a woman reaches the age of 50, her mind has long been imprisoned and many new things can't be accepted. Even if she lives together, she is boring. Might as well live alone.
Someone asked him how old a woman he was looking for, and he said between 35 and 45, and asked him when.
He replied: "A woman of this age has just entered middle age, and she is not too old and her mind is not too old. Moreover, although there is a generation gap, there will be more fresh topics. Living together is not only fresh, but also particularly interesting. "
Middle-aged men who choose to remarry must have met someone they don't want to lose.
Many people think that when a middle-aged man looks for another half, as long as the material conditions are good, he will definitely choose a young and beautiful woman, so that living together will be pleasing to the eye and taking it out will have more face.
As a result, middle-aged men no longer care about face. After living for most of their lives, they have long understood the true meaning of life. They don't want to waste their lives and their time and energy on an insecure person.
If you choose to remarry at this age, you must think carefully and feel it is necessary. Compared with young people, they are more likely to choose a woman who has the same language and feels comfortable to get along with, so that they will be more interesting and feel more secure for the rest of their lives.
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He Yue, a 42-year-old woman, divorced her husband five years ago and lived alone with her children. Someone advised her to say, "You have worked so hard with your children, why don't you find a new lover?" At least someone will share it with you. "
Actually, it's not that she didn't look. He was married before. When others saw her with her children, she was still so old, and there was no deal in the end. Her mind is not on it either. After several failures, she simply stopped looking.
She always thinks that men like young women. Now that she is a middle-aged woman, how can anyone like it? Might as well live alone. Although it's hard, it's easy as long as the children are old.
What she didn't expect was that not long ago, a very good man began to pursue her. Although he is ten years older than her, he is very energetic and has good material conditions. She asked why men like her.
The man said, "I have lived here for most of my life. I haven't met anyone. I don't like young girls. The gap is too big. Even if I find them, it is difficult to live together. " I value the inner nature of women. I've always wanted to find a gentle, virtuous, sensible and distressed woman like you. "
When men reach middle age, they have seen through the skins of young people, and they care more about the inner woman.
Although young and beautiful girls are good, they are no longer suitable for middle-aged men. Their energy is limited and they can't keep up with the pace of young people.
Young people like romance, passion and novelty. They also do some exciting things in life, such as bungee jumping, traveling, singing and dancing. However, all this is not suitable for middle-aged men, who are exposed to health and leisure.
How can two people with too big age difference get along for a long time because of the difference in lifestyle? Moreover, they have great differences in future planning and psychology.
So middle-aged men are more willing to find a woman who can care about him, understand him and understand him. Such a life will be more practical, and such a relationship will be more comfortable.
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Do you think middle-aged men still like young girls? In fact, they are not anymore. They prefer women who have just entered middle age.
Such a woman's thoughts will not be too old, and there will be more topics to talk about together, making her later life more interesting.
Of course, such a woman will not look too old, and it is more appropriate to be with a man. I won't say that an old cow eats young grass, nor will I say that I have found an old woman.
Such a woman is just right for middle-aged men, both in age and psychology.
Moreover, such a woman, after years of precipitation and emotional failure, knows more about the meaning of life and how to manage a relationship and live freely.