1, the old man didn't take good care of him and his face broke out in a rash.
Xiao Zhang said: The baby is drooling badly. For the convenience of her mother-in-law, she prepared many disposable dry soft towels at home. Tell the mother-in-law that if the baby drools, wipe it with a soft towel and throw it away, and then apply some ointment to the baby, so that the baby's mouth and face will not be red and chapped.
It is cold and windy. When I got home, I always saw my baby's face was red, and even a rash broke out on her mouth. Don't tell me how much she hurts. I thought I had run out of soft towels and cream at home, and I was going to buy some more, but I found that there was not much missing. Only when I asked my mother-in-law did I know that as soon as they went out to work during the day, my mother-in-law took the baby out for a walk, but never brought a soft towel (too many things, heavy and inconvenient). She was just a handkerchief when she went out, and the baby was drooling. rub down ...
Step 2 call names and hit people
Xiaoli took her daughter to her mother-in-law's house and went out to work after she was one year old. When she took care of the baby, her daughter didn't even mention how good she was. After taking the dishes, she always "mom eats, mom eats". When she goes out to play with children, she also shares her food or toys.
After bringing her daughter to her mother-in-law, she found that her daughter had completely changed from a little princess to a woman. Xiaoli can't eat her food. If she just eats them, she will keep shouting, "Mom is a bad guy, mom is a bad guy." Sometimes I do. Once Xiaoli was afraid that her daughter would eat too much, so she stuffed her daughter's favorite cookies into her mouth. The daughter in her arms directly threw away the biscuits in her hand and reached out to buckle Xiaoli's mouth. Xiaoli's lips were scratched. I had a disagreement with my children when I went out, and I went to the big face twice. Xiaoli has a headache.
3, hands-on ability is degraded, and you can't eat by yourself.
Xiao Chen's baby was brought by her mother. Her mother is in poor health, and the baby eats noisily. In order to let the baby eat quietly, Xiao Chen's mother always turns on the TV as soon as the meal arrives and feeds the baby bite by bite. After the baby finishes eating, eat by himself between watching TV. Soon after, Xiao Chen found that the baby neither watched TV nor ate, and never began to eat. The whole person has degenerated, and the mother also said that the baby is much better.
4, square dance, swearing, everything.
Xiao Li said that she left the child to her mother-in-law after work. My mother-in-law is a square dance fan. Every morning and evening, she dances and exercises in the square with her sisters in groups. Now the baby is also an out-and-out small square dance fan, twisting his waist when listening to music. Fortunately, I'm not a mahjong fan. I know more about mahjong than my mother. In the morning and afternoon, when I am free, I will get together with the old ladies and listen to people chatting for fun, killing time, all kinds of neighborhood gossip, neighbor nicknames, and all kinds of swearing and teasing between the old people. The whole city will be Xiaoming.
5, fluent in mother tongue dialect, not used to admission.
Xiao Tian and her husband are both foreigners. After giving birth to the child, Xiaotian's mother came to take care of the child. Because Xiao Tian's mother's Mandarin is not very good, she is used to speaking family dialects. It is also a hometown dialect to make friends with her baby since childhood. Originally, I found it nothing. Later, when she went to kindergarten, Xiao Tian discovered that something was wrong. Why did the baby fade when he came back from kindergarten? She asked the baby that there was no one to play with him. Only after asking the teacher did he know that he spoke fluent hometown dialect (although he tried to speak Mandarin in kindergarten, his hometown dialect accent was quite obvious). Most children don't understand, and gradually he is isolated.
I don't know how many of these old people are suffering from taking care of babies. In fact, when you encounter these problems, don't blame the old people blindly. Looking at it from another angle, it is not easy for our children to be in their prime and the elderly to take care of them. They are either children's grandmothers or children's grandmothers. In fact, they all want their children to develop in a good direction. Therefore, when encountering problems, we should look less, complain less, quarrel more, communicate more and understand more. I believe that the elderly will take better care of their children. ...