Men come to you only for physical needs. In daily life, there are more and more emotional liars, which are hard to prevent. To this end, girls should protect themselves and not be lost by feelings. I've sorted it out here. Men come to you only for physiological needs.
Men come to you only for physical needs. 1. 1. Lies.
Men don't have real feelings for you, they just want to meet their own physiological needs, and they just want to have sex with you, so this kind of performance will occur. The most basic thing between lovers is mutual trust, but he didn't even give you the most basic thing. It is said that women in love have zero IQ. In fact, it is easy to be irrational in love. She is so convinced of what men say that she can't tell a lie from the facts. Some women will still believe it when they know it is a lie, and they can't extricate themselves from it.
A man who really loves you won't lie to you. He will tell you everything frankly and generously. A man who loves you will not do anything to make you feel ashamed, and there is no need to lie to hide anything.
The second is to give you money.
It is said that companionship is the longest confession, but men usually don't give you any time, let alone companionship. When you are free, you will meet you with money. If a man is seldom with you and never spends time with you, even if he has time, he will do other things, not to be with you, but always tell you that he is busy and has no time to be with you, and then make up for it with money and let you buy something you like.
On the surface, such a man seems to be very kind to you. In fact, such a man doesn't love you. A man who loves you will take time to accompany you even if he is busy, because he knows that women care about his people, not his money.
Third, always say goodbye.
The man who always says goodbye doesn't consider your feelings at all, and doesn't care whether you will be sad or not. The man who really cares about you is reluctant to part with you. Even if you have a particularly fierce quarrel, he will only talk about the matter, and will not say that he broke up with you on his own initiative. Even, he will be afraid that you will be separated from him. Although he doesn't speak well, he will still be reluctant to let you leave.
There is only sweet talk to you, but no action.
The most intolerable thing in feelings is those men who can only make you happy with sweet words. Because love is not just talk, there is no practice, it has, and it needs real action. If a man loves you, besides sweet words, he must also take concrete actions for you, comfort you when you are injured and accompany you when you are sick. But men who play with your feelings usually only sweet talk to you.
There are too many liars in feelings, which makes people who are eager for a sincere love lose themselves. When men play with women, they will have these four performances. In fact, you already have a clear answer in your heart, but you just don't have the courage to accept the fact and let it go early.
Men come to you only for physical needs. 2. The difficulty can be imagined. When a man who gives her a little warmth appears around, it is basically like a moth to a fire, without much thinking.
Xia Jie is such a woman. After the divorce, she went to another strange city alone. Because of her work, she met Zhang, who is several years older than Debbie. Before long, Xia Jie fell in the arms of so-called love. But it didn't last long.
After months of getting along, General Zhang's attitude has changed a lot. Basically, apart from what kind of car and house he bought, there is only one thing, that is, he has physiological needs. At first, Xia Jie just thought that her man was too busy, so she had to keep enough understanding and support.
On the contrary, Mr. Zhang has nothing to talk about except to show off how many assets, houses and cars he has with Xia Jie. He even thinks that "I" has been so successful. You (Xia Jie) should be more interested in pleasing me. You shouldn't have a temper, you shouldn't have demands, you shouldn't have anything.
But what is the truth? Perhaps it is the status quo of the family that Xia Jie has to do something against his will, always hoping for a future, results and happiness.
In fact, a man who is a few years older than you and relatively successful, how can such a person be single? Or how can such a person lack women? Some of them are just' replicas' of his choice. After all, a successful man's social, resources and connections push him to be surrounded by women.
Fundamentally, two people are not equal at all. Even in the eyes of men, women are just obedient. In fact, Xia Jie should sum up and reflect on himself. For me, the most important thing is to plan for my children's future, relying on my own promotion and the thoughtfulness of a man like Zhang? Let's expect his sympathy.
If you don't belong to yourself, you should put it down as soon as possible and treat the so-called actions of the other half correctly and rationally. Expectation is the premise.
Ask yourself first, are you qualified to expect?
Although the words are heavy, the truth is deep.
You must be cautious about what you should consider for yourself. Love is not a child's play, you can put it off later.
Think, think.
Men come to you only for physical needs. You don't know if your brain is feudal, that is, you don't even know what you need. Then let me ask you, how many men have you had sex with? Several, so how many marriage licenses have you got? To be clear, it's not that you are feudal, but that you are not in a happy mood. All temperament relationships are based on your own mood and emotions. This is not intentional, but your possessiveness is very strong. So you will think that only by refusing to get in close contact with each other can the other party stay for you and try to get your body. In fact, you are all wet. The other person may be very angry and have an idea in his heart, and you will regret it. In the end, you not only didn't see sesame, but also lost watermelon.
So everything you do comes from your personal mood. Lammer tells you that you can do anything when you are in a good mood. If you are in a bad mood, you won't do it even if the other person is your boyfriend, so you should understand the answer to this question in our topic, right? This is what happens naturally when you are happy together. If the contradiction is sharp, I think you will naturally refuse. I didn't follow your routine.