After reading Mr. Wang Meng's Unprotected, I can't help but admire Mr. Wang Meng's cheerful and open-minded mind, and I can't help but think of all kinds of complicated interpersonal relationships we encounter in real life: intrigue, intrigue, fame and profit; Humble and flattering interpersonal communication. In contrast, the "no defense" advocated by Mr. Wang Meng has become a fatal weakness. In fact, it's not like what Mr. Wang Meng said: "Building a city is just a small skill, called carving insects." It uses small skills and finally makes people laugh and give generously. Fortification means putting on airs, saying one thing and doing another, making a fool of yourself on the spot, exposing your tail and leaving a laughing stock. It is necessary to wear a mask for fortification. Although true friends are thousands of miles apart, they are neither fish nor fowl, and they are alone. " In our words, psychological defense is the best defense. If a person is open-minded and aboveboard, he will never do anything wrong in his life, even if a ghost knocks at the door in the middle of the night. If a person is as calm as water and indifferent to fame and fortune, how can he intrigue? In the final analysis, a person's troubles come from his own desires. The more desires, the more troubles and worries there will be. On the contrary, there is no competitive personality, no flattering words and deeds, no gossip, no dark side of life. This is the ideal life that one should pursue. So how can people's psychology be unguarded?

To quote Mr. Wang Meng: one is aboveboard, and the other is not afraid to expose one's weaknesses.

In our daily life, the more we try to hide something, the more self-defeating. For such an ending, the best start is to "let nature take its course". As long as we have a clear conscience, all rumors will be broken. Of course, this is not a pessimistic and negative approach, nor does it require everyone to be isolated from the world from now on, and everything is "irrelevant" to avoid conflicts with others. We should fight for our ideals while we are alive. The meaning of life lies in struggle. We don't have to wait to enjoy the fruits of our struggle. Our struggle itself is a kind of enjoyment and happiness. Just like one of my students, after four years of college life, I realized such a philosophy of life: "A man should have ambition. Without ambition, there will be no progress, but this ambition is not to surpass others' ambitions, but to build an ambition beyond oneself. "

"Unprotected" means not to put all your energy on guarding against other people's ideas, but to devote yourself wholeheartedly to the struggle for life goals. As Mr. Wang Meng said, there is another, perhaps the most important and fundamental reason: we don't have time. Because, we have more meaningful things to do, not for personal defense. "Unprotected" has another meaning-"There is no defense at this time." There will always be loopholes in defense. Of course, offense is not the best defense. Attacking others at will in order to achieve the purpose of defense is quite different from Mr. Wang Meng's original intention of creation and does not conform to the most basic moral conduct in dealing with people. Exposing people's shortcomings at will, insincerely speaking, and fishing for fame all day long will eventually get the eyes of the world. We advocate undefended, so that people in the whole society can devote more time and energy to their work and life. Less hypocrisy and more sincerity between people can build a harmonious human society; With less barriers and more exchanges, human civilization will not stagnate; With less defense and more cooperation, the world will become a better place.