First, the topic of chat is mainly about the old-age life, supplemented by the imagination of the future. Topic 1: the old-age life. For the elderly, providing for the aged has always been a mainstream topic, because everyone is experiencing the life of providing for the aged. When you are looking for a wife, it is undoubtedly the best choice to communicate with each other on this topic. You can discuss the experience of providing for the aged and express your views on some current situations. This time, it not only resonates, but also makes the other person look at you with new eyes. In this way, the chat will naturally be warm and the situation of love will be opened.
Topic 2: Recalling the past. When the two old people stay together and chat, they can also recall the past, talk more about positive and interesting past events, and talk less about the sadness of their mental journey. The reason why we say positive and interesting things is to avoid the other person's depression and falling into a sad past. If the other person is depressed, although you can comfort him, it will do more harm than good to your future relationship. If you talk about something positive and interesting, you can make the atmosphere of your chat more joyful, and happiness is only a key element in love.
Topic 3: Imagine the future. Do you have any plans for the future, to realize your previous ideals, to do public welfare, or to do something else? These plans for the future can also be a chat topic between you. It can not only help you find the goal to get along with in the future, but also help you get to know each other better, killing two birds with one stone.
In short, it is not difficult to find a topic to chat with, but we need to relax, talk well and not be nervous. For the above three topics, the elderly group can choose the best one according to the actual situation.
Second, explore each other's hobbies, try to learn and interact more. When chatting with the opposite sex, the elderly can also discuss each other's hobbies. For example, if the other party likes square dance, you can try it, which not only enlivens the atmosphere, but also strengthens the interaction between the two sides. You can even ask the other party to teach you to dance square dance, which is an excellent interactive mode. We can give an example to illustrate the specific application details. For example, Lao Zhang just met his favorite second marriage partner, and the two are trying to get in touch. In the process of chatting, Lao Zhang learned that the other party likes to dance square dance, but he is not good at it and can't get in a word at all. Lao Zhang had a brainwave and said to his second marriage partner:? I want to learn from the square dance you said, but I'm all thumbs and afraid of being laughed at. Can you teach me?
This example has two bright spots: First, Lao Zhang expressed his expectation of learning, and the other party would not refuse, thus promoting the relationship between the two sides; Second, Lao Zhang said that he was afraid of others' jokes and asked the other party to teach him, and instantly attributed the other party to? One of our own? . This not only shows trust, but also brings us closer. In short, you must know each other's hobbies, even if you can't, it doesn't matter. We can study. In the process of learning. The relationship between the two people has also improved, making the other person feel that you are a person who is never too old to learn, which is more reliable!
Third, exchange sincerity for sincerity, avoid hypocrisy and show sincerity. It is human nature that emotional needs are the same whether young or old. In the process of communication, two people should not only chat, but also treat each other sincerely. If you can't treat each other sincerely in the process of communication, everything you say is false. So ... this relationship itself is not worth continuing, because it violates it? Heart for heart? Moral principles. Being honest and not telling lies not only reflects your personal accomplishment, but also reflects your cherish and sincerity for this relationship. Very do not disturb the attitude of choosing a spouse is the basic principle for us old people to find mistresses.
In fact, there is no profound skill in chatting, but a small way for us to pursue our partners. But sincerity is different. In the process of pursuing your partner, it reflects your comprehensive quality, as well as your attitude and ultimate goal of finding a mistress.
In short, when the old man is looking for a mistress, he must exchange his sincerity for his sincerity, avoid hypocrisy and show the minimum sincerity! In the process of finding a second wife, the elderly should chat with the opposite sex in this way: to support the elderly's life, recall the past and imagine the future as the topic; Actively explore each other's hobbies and try to learn more and interact more; Be sure to treat each other sincerely, showing due sincerity! '
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