This love, this light, is actually the spirit of our life, our will and even our perseverance.
Throughout the whole human society, no matter students or professionals, there are quite a few people who are confused and hesitate to take part in things that they don't care about or even contradict-to study, to work, and to drive ducks to the shelves. ...
As a teacher, I am a student on the one hand and myself (a person in the workplace) on the other. I have witnessed the above two situations. There are too many things to do.
This is actually a social disease.
There is no love in my heart, no emotional sustenance, no interest in doing things, no motivation to move forward, so there is no light in my eyes. Naturally, there are inexhaustible sources and inexhaustible motivation on the road ahead.
What should we do?
It must be changed, completely changed!
In his report collection on learning methods, Mr. Wei Shusheng gave a unique skill of "tempering the will". This trick is not only tailor-made for students, but anyone in society who wants to improve and has to improve himself will benefit a lot as long as he reads it carefully and carries it out effectively.
Students, students, learn what you are not familiar with. This is called a student, and it is also the responsibility of the students.
Some students don't like learning, which is his emotional choice.
But the students are not stupid. He still has a rational level. Reason tells him that in order to survive in the future, he needs to study, and his parents want him to study hard.
So as a student, you should use willpower to ask yourself to study hard.
How to hone the will to study hard? Teacher Wei Shusheng said-
To do one thing (such as study), start with small things.
I like this passage very much. Not only is it grounded, but it is catchy and easy to remember. More importantly, it is our extremely simple guide to action.
Too many people are stuck in the gap between knowing and doing, and they can't climb up all their lives.
Because the furthest distance in the world, besides the distance from the Himalayas to the Mariana Trench, there is still a long distance, that is, the distance between knowing and doing.
Teacher Wei's golden sentence just builds a bridge between knowing and doing. As long as you start on the road, start doing it and walk bit by bit, you can do it step by step.
Take me for example. As a Chinese teacher, it is very important for children to develop good study habits, such as copying aphorisms, reading books by themselves, reading textbooks by themselves, reading extracurricular books by themselves, and keeping a diary by themselves.
Chinese learning is nothing more than reading and writing in the final analysis, and writing is the externalization of reading, so it is reading and writing in the final analysis.
After these habits accumulate sand and become a tower, why worry that children can't touch the methods of Chinese studies?
When you hone your willpower,
Remember: don't aim too high, but do practical things;
Remember: if you can't do big things, do small things quickly. If you can't be a marshal, be a good soldier. You can't touch the sky above and the land below.
However, some students have been downstream for a long time and can't lift their spirits to study. Why? Because I can't do great things, I refuse to do small things. There is no sky above and no land below. They can't be bailiffs and don't want to be soldiers.
So the spirit is wandering, the soul is wandering, and the home is lost, leaving only impetuousness, impatience and irritability.
This is not only the students, but also the deep reason why quite a few people are superficial and impetuous.
Specifically, how to temper your will?
You must bury your head first and be quiet.
People learn to be down-to-earth when they do little things bit by bit. In the process of doing small things, people copy a powerful self. When a down-to-earth self appears, the willpower will become stronger and stronger.
When cultivating willpower, there are two traps not to fall into:
First, don't embarrass yourself. If the goal is too big, unattainable, enough or out of reach, it is easy to lose confidence and courage.
Second, never indulge yourself. Finding your starting point is more important than anything else.
Modern people's awareness of health preservation and healthy exercise is getting stronger and stronger. Let's take running or doing push-ups as an example.
If you set up a sign for running to lose weight and fitness, and you really can't run at first, then start walking, and you will have the motivation to run, and you will have the courage and strength to run;
You can do push-ups instead of running. I really couldn't do push-ups at first, so I put my arms up and made one. If I make one, it is possible to make ten eights. ...
Don't be too hard on yourself at first, set your goal too high and lose your courage and hope to do it.
You can't indulge yourself. If you can run fast, you have to walk slowly. If you can walk, you have to climb. ...
Don't make excuses and excuses for yourself. Once you open your mouth, you will fall behind thousands of miles.
Therefore, it is not a big deal to change yourself in time, that is, to start with what is in front of you, what is around you and small things. It's natural, it's natural.
If you can persist in doing one thing, you will find that you are also a person who has the final say, ability, perseverance and strong willpower. Your self-confidence will explode, your motivation to overcome difficulties in your study will be much greater, and your self-confidence in your future success will be much enhanced. Even though yesterday was difficult, today is no big deal.
Just like reading and writing, open a book and read a page or two every day, and mark it with circles while reading. When you encounter sentences that are particularly easy to * * *, you can extract them and put them in your notebook. When you write, you will naturally "cook with rice."
If you don't open paper books for a fixed period of time, you can use the sporadic time and fragmented time when walking, commuting and doing housework to open the book listening APP and listen for half an hour or even 10 minute. If what you hear is what you feel, you can extract it (copy and paste), and it will be much easier to piece it together to write an article.
Of course, at work, in life, and even on the road, you can turn on the voice input in your mobile phone, capture the moment of inspiration, say it in time (the software will automatically change the voice into words), be a conscientious person in life, and write my heart with me. Slowly, reading and writing evolved into eating, sleeping and writing.
At that time, you will find that you are also a person with great perseverance and strong willpower. Your self-confidence will be stronger and stronger, and the execution of doing things will also increase day by day.
Look, tempering willpower is actually not so high, so unfathomable, so unattainable, that is to say, you have the final say, you have to do it, and you will never stop doing it.