One sentence can lay a basic view of everything in the world for a person's life. Looking back on my life, the famous saying that has the greatest influence on me is the phrase "Quiet is far away, indifferent is bright". "Indifferent to Zhi Ming, quiet and far-reaching." This is the highest state of self-cultivation in China traditional culture. Only when you are indifferent and quiet can you gain insight into the world, and only when you are purely introverted can you be far-sighted. "Indifference" is a kind of moral cultivation. Is a simple, detached, indifferent person, but not without enterprise, nor is it a paradise. On the contrary, it is to pursue lofty goals. Out of the noisy world, I like to stay alone in my room and enjoy the peace and silence in the depths of my troubles. Peace is a state. Laozi advocates that all things develop in line with nature, that nature is a moral honour person, and that life and death are natural laws. People should live a regular life, be cheerful and upward, relax physically and mentally, and constantly sublimate their spirit to achieve the realm of coordination, balance and both form and spirit.
I like to sit quietly in front of the computer, gently move the mouse, open those familiar and unfamiliar spaces, enjoy a different life and open the space. Just like talking to different people, listening to each other's worries, understanding different customs, enjoying different scenery and reading articles in space, some of them seem to be telling a distant story, depicting romantic and warm beauty and savoring their own hearts, only to find that "normal mind" refers to staying calm and calm when encountering any situation and environment. When people are alive, whether they are dignitaries or ordinary people, they will inevitably face many people and things and experience some life changes more or less. Proud must be indifferent, frustrated must be calm. This also requires normality. Calm is calm, and there is no concern in my heart. Life is like waves, ups and downs are inevitable. Life has ups and downs, there are bright and dark, which is also a natural phenomenon. People are not afraid of falling down for a while, and the test of frustration is often the driving force for a comeback.
Taste in peace and enjoy in nature, life is expensive. Bloom, let it go, let it open. It should be noted that when you are proud, you can treat it lightly. This is the mind of a real gentleman. It is a gentleman's demeanor to be able to take things in stride when frustrated. Therefore, regardless of the success or failure of life, we must maintain a normal heart. The spiritual world needs peace and tranquility. Whether a person's mind is mature or not depends on whether his heart can calm down and whether he can keep a lonely and indifferent peace in the noisy life. Quiet is not so much a cultivation of life as a clear understanding of people and things and an open-minded wisdom. The tranquility of life is the elegance of wisdom, the elegance of wisdom, the calmness of life and a rational and normal heart. Indifference is not aimlessness. An indifferent woman should have her own goals, big or small, lofty or ordinary, but she must have them. Many times I will watch and think quietly. I like the feeling that "the fallen flowers are silent and people are as light as chrysanthemums". I hope I can reach the state of "getting carried away, frustrated and calm", and I think I have done it. Calm is a pursuit. Tao Qian's "Picking chrysanthemums under the hedge and seeing Nanshan leisurely" is indifferent, but it has been indifferent in the end, and the negative seclusion has melted the light of struggle.
Silence is a kind of wisdom, which eliminates the frivolity of human nature and precipitates the anxiety of desire. Life can keep inner peace, which is a kind of self-restraint and calmness, and it is also the beauty and elegance of wisdom. As the saying goes, "All bets are off, but humility benefits." "Everyone loses, and the water overflows." The serenity of wisdom is an open-mindedness and humility, and the serenity of wisdom is a calmness and calmness. Only mature people know the true taste of loneliness and realize the meaning of life when they are lonely. Indifference means to identify and handle world affairs with a calm mind, not caring, not entangled, not arrogant and not impetuous, and to maintain a normal mind to face people and things. "The true taste comes from the light, and the British often know it from the middle." The more indifferent people are, the longer they experience dullness. Don't argue, don't make yourself delusional, don't be greedy, don't entangle, don't entangle in too many troubles and confusions. Indifferent but not hypocritical, calmly face the gains and losses, meditation will certainly cultivate the temperament, indifference can reduce disputes, food and clothing will not last long, only indifferent to nature can live happily. A person who is indifferent by nature is an elegant person and a person with the highest realm. He doesn't follow the trend and is not arty. Wang Wei's "I will go to the water to stop my path, and then sit and watch Yun Qi" is carefree in his heart. His appearance is unrestrained, flying freely like a cloud and flowing freely like running water. He wants to be detached from things, but it is difficult to hide the sadness of his career and the impermanence of his life. Only Zhuge Liang, "indifferent to Ming Zhi, quiet and far-reaching", realized the true meaning of peace.
As the saying goes: bystanders are clear, but the authorities are confused. The authorities are fascinated because they can't be calm, and the bystanders can see clearly, and because things have nothing to do with themselves, they can treat them calmly. There are always moments of confusion in one's life. Wise people occasionally commit crimes, and fools often commit crimes. It's really a blessing to have such a friend around. He is like a mirror, reflecting your heart all the time, reminding you to warm your life with the right temperature. Peace is beautiful, if you feel it sincerely! As long as we are calm, the sky is still blue, the sun is still bright, the trees are still lush and the sea is still clear! Calm is a kind of cultivation. The journey of life can't be smooth sailing. The ancients admonished: "The cycle has moved to the past, but the dignity of this mountain has commanded the Hanjiang River" and "There are many erotic dreams in the history of Qing Dynasty, and there are many wizards in the grave, so don't care and tidy them up, keep them in mind. The gain and loss of fame and fortune should be outside; Vulgar words in the market should be thrown out of the cloud. Only by being indifferent to ambition, meditating, being content and open-minded, sincere and frank, can we be healthy, harmonious and support our lives.