How can chatting make each other wonderful?
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In life, we often meet such people. If you don't talk, you just want him/her to shut up.
Seriously feel: The furthest distance in the world is when you are in front of me, but we can't talk.
They may also want to chat happily, but they just don't say it.
Today I want to talk to you about how to stop being a "topic terminator".
We can't talk.
Rule 1: Always talk about yourself, a self-satisfied way to chat.
I have a friend, and the mode of chatting with me every time is like this:
Speaking ill of your company from beginning to end is full of negative energy, and you can't stop talking for more than 20 words.
Even told me about his bad luck from time to time, from what happened in the morning to what happened at night. It seems impolite if you don't reply to him. If you reply to him, he will complain about you more vigorously.
......
For those who can't leave a message for themselves, it's really impossible to talk.
When he talks endlessly about himself, he really wants to ask, "Does it have anything to do with me?"
If we can talk together, we should follow the principle of coming and going, and never treat each other as tree holes.
There should be proper limits for two people to get along, especially when they meet someone they just met. Don't mistake narcissism for fun and leave the other person speechless.
Rule 2: Ask questions in despair.
In an era of logging in to QQ for two hours every day, not just for upgrading, "Are you there?" It is the gentlest touch in the online world. But in retrospect, this minimalist opening remark should be the originator of embarrassing chat.
Of course, simply saying "Are you there" is hard to talk about. . Rome wasn't built in a day, so we can discuss more than one problem. One after another questions are often the culprit of talking to death, especially touching each other's privacy:
Have you got any pictures? Send it to me. If not, take one now.
After reading those articles posted on WeChat official account, I want to ask you, are you a dirty person?
How far did you go with your boyfriend before?
Have you ever been moved by your boyfriend?
Do girls like being touched?
What's it like to be moved?
What's it like to sleep with your boyfriend?
Why are you ignoring me?
I'm just curious. Other girls are embarrassed to ask.
Are you there? Are you there?
......
Faced with such a fatal question, I just want to reply to each other with an embarrassed smile, and then I don't want to talk to him anymore.
I hope his initial question is: "As a post-90s generation, what do you usually like?" Then I can proudly answer: "I like not to be disturbed."
This is a case I met, but in life, most of them met a life-and-death chat: "Where are you from?" How old is it? Where do you go to school? How many people are there in the family? When are you going to get married? How many children are you going to have? " ......
If you still want someone, chat in another way, such as:
When you meet for the first time, don't ask each other directly. You can learn about each other's daily life and preferences through social dynamics. When the time is right, then extract keywords to lead to the topic, just like:
Most of the music she shared in her circle of friends is rap. You can talk along the direction of "rap" and finally extend it to bbox or street dance.
Anyway, it means a positive daily life. Chatting is by no means a "census". You can ask questions, but you can't ask them in the end. Share half the problem, and a few more days is spring.
Article 3: In two sentences, you will dispute over trifles and habitually deny others.
I have met some people, and the first sentence is always "no, no, no".
Even if he agrees with you, he should deny you first and then tell the same logic in his own way.
Or habitually attack each other when expressing opinions, always add "you don't understand" in front.
Chatting is not a debate, but actually expressing one's opinions. Change the subject, don't talk about a topic, but convince the other party.
Win the topic, lose the relationship, don't scare away people who are willing to share their views with you.
Article 4: Think of yourself as a life mentor.
It's also cool to disagree with the three views. The most panic is that a word is unreasonable.
"Bought a new lipstick? Don't be so defeated, it's not easy for your parents to make money. "
"Study hard and don't indulge in games. When you are older, you will understand how precious time is. "
"Drink less cold drinks, or you will be infertile in the future."
"It's really ugly to ask you not to wear this type of clothes."
I'm sorry, did I eat your meal or something? Thank you very much for trying to guide my life. The truth is such a thing, but whether I live according to the truth is none of your business.
In chatting, unless the other person is in trouble and asks you for help or comfort, then the truth can come in handy, otherwise the truth will always be forbidden to chat.
"Buy a new lipstick again? What brand is this? The color suits your complexion and white. " "This dress has its own characteristics. Very good, like it is very important. " "The tea shop has a good drink. We drank it together and then stayed healthy together. "
Article 5: if you don't agree with a word, open it.
After reading some jokes, I feel that I am a master of emotional intelligence. Before the ambiguous stage, just say some old and embarrassing sentences.
"Sister, are you there?" "Hello, who is this?" "I was a lamp in your past life."
"Do you know why I am a vegetarian?" "Why?" "Because you are my type."
Brainless copying online girls jokes is the biggest taboo in chatting.
A good chat is sincere and can make the other person feel comfortable.
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Don't use "jump to conclusions" in chat, for example:
"What are you doing today?"
"Stay in the dormitory and watch movies"
"That your relationship must be bad. No one asked you out to see it. "
In chatting, don't let the other person just answer with "yes" or "no", but use open-ended questions.
Finally, Xiao Tong believes that chatting is an art as well as a skill.
There is no natural emotional intelligence, so-called talking, but there are others in my heart.
How to make each other happy through chatting? These five tricks teach you to solve your troubles and let you successfully catch up with the person you like.
How can chatting make each other wonderful?
0 1
In life, we often meet such people. If you don't talk, you just want him/her to shut up.
Seriously feel: The furthest distance in the world is when you are in front of me, but we can't talk.
They may also want to chat happily, but they just don't say it.
Today I want to talk to you about how to stop being a "topic terminator".
We can't talk.
Rule 1: Always talk about yourself, a self-satisfied way to chat.
I have a friend, and the mode of chatting with me every time is like this:
Speaking ill of your company from beginning to end is full of negative energy, and you can't stop talking for more than 20 words.
Even told me about his bad luck from time to time, from what happened in the morning to what happened at night. It seems impolite if you don't reply to him. If you reply to him, he will complain about you more vigorously.
......
For those who can't leave a message for themselves, it's really impossible to talk.
When he talks endlessly about himself, he really wants to ask, "Does it have anything to do with me?"
If we can talk together, we should follow the principle of coming and going, and never treat each other as tree holes.
There should be proper limits for two people to get along, especially when they meet someone they just met. Don't mistake narcissism for fun and leave the other person speechless.
Rule 2: Ask questions in despair.
In an era of logging in to QQ for two hours every day, not just for upgrading, "Are you there?" It is the gentlest touch in the online world. But in retrospect, this minimalist opening remark should be the originator of embarrassing chat.
Of course, simply saying "Are you there" is hard to talk about. . Rome wasn't built in a day, so we can discuss more than one problem. One after another questions are often the culprit of talking to death, especially touching each other's privacy:
Have you got any pictures? Send it to me. If not, take one now.
After reading those articles posted on WeChat official account, I want to ask you, are you a dirty person?
How far did you go with your boyfriend before?
Have you ever been moved by your boyfriend?
Do girls like being touched?
What's it like to be moved?
What's it like to sleep with your boyfriend?
Why are you ignoring me?
I'm just curious. Other girls are embarrassed to ask.
Are you there? Are you there?
......
Faced with such a fatal question, I just want to reply to each other with an embarrassed smile, and then I don't want to talk to him anymore.
I hope his initial question is: "As a post-90s generation, what do you usually like?" Then I can proudly answer: "I like not to be disturbed."
This is a case I met, but in life, most of them met a life-and-death chat: "Where are you from?" How old is it? Where do you go to school? How many people are there in the family? When are you going to get married? How many children are you going to have? " ......
If you still want someone, chat in another way, such as:
When you meet for the first time, don't ask each other directly. You can learn about each other's daily life and preferences through social dynamics. When the time is right, then extract keywords to lead to the topic, just like:
Most of the music she shared in her circle of friends is rap. You can talk along the direction of "rap" and finally extend it to bbox or street dance.
Anyway, it means a positive daily life. Chatting is by no means a "census". You can ask questions, but you can't ask them in the end. Share half the problem, and a few more days is spring.
Article 3: In two sentences, you will dispute over trifles and habitually deny others.
I have met some people, and the first sentence is always "no, no, no".
Even if he agrees with you, he should deny you first and then tell the same logic in his own way.
Or habitually attack each other when expressing opinions, always add "you don't understand" in front.
Chatting is not a debate, but actually expressing one's opinions. Change the subject, don't talk about a topic, but convince the other party.
Win the topic, lose the relationship, don't scare away people who are willing to share their views with you.
Article 4: Think of yourself as a life mentor.
It's also cool to disagree with the three views. The most panic is that a word is unreasonable.
"Bought a new lipstick? Don't be so defeated, it's not easy for your parents to make money. "
"Study hard and don't indulge in games. When you are older, you will understand how precious time is. "
"Drink less cold drinks, or you will be infertile in the future."
"It's really ugly to ask you not to wear this type of clothes."
I'm sorry, did I eat your meal or something? Thank you very much, and always try to give me some guidance in my life. The truth is such a thing, but whether I live according to the truth is none of your business.
In chatting, unless the other person is in trouble and asks you for help or comfort, then the truth can come in handy, otherwise the truth will always be forbidden to chat.
"Buy a new lipstick again? What brand is this? The color suits your complexion and white. " "This dress has its own characteristics. Very good, like it is very important. " "The tea shop has a good drink. We drank it together and then stayed healthy together. "
Article 5: if you don't agree with a word, open it.
After reading some jokes, I feel that I am a master of emotional intelligence. Before the ambiguous stage, just say some old and embarrassing sentences.
"Sister, are you there?" "Hello, who is this?" "I was a lamp in your past life."
"Do you know why I am a vegetarian?" "Why?" "Because you are my type."
Brainless copying online girls jokes is the biggest taboo in chatting.
A good chat is sincere and can make the other person feel comfortable.
02
Don't use "jump to conclusions" in chat, for example:
"What are you doing today?"
"Stay in the dormitory and watch movies"