In primary school, Xiao Tao got excellent grades and was very obedient. However, after entering junior high school, especially after the second day of junior high school, Xiao Tao became more and more out of control and was actually found smoking in school by the teacher. Mom and dad also found that as long as he went out to eat with friends, he would smell of alcohol when he came home. My mother can occasionally find some cigarette butts at home. On this day, Xiao Tao went out to play with friends again and came back very late.

Looking at Xiao Tao's drunken appearance and smelling the smell of alcohol and tobacco on his body, the grumpy father gave his son a good beating and scolded, "Xiong Haizi, have you gone out to smoke and drink again?" Do you still look like a middle school student? "

Xiao Tao hid and shouted, "What's wrong with smoking and drinking? You can too. " Hearing this, dad became even more angry. In the face of this disappointing son, the mother just shed tears silently.

Because parents are busy doing business, they seldom care about their children. In addition to constantly meeting his material needs, they lack due attention to their son's education, but only emphasize the importance of learning, which makes Xiao Tao really lose interest in learning, so he learns from his father, smoking and drinking.

In fact, parents' attitude against children's smoking and drinking must be clear. On the issue of adult drinking, some people surveyed 100 families and found that: 50% parents believe that underage drinking should be stopped; 10% parents allow minors, especially boys, to drink alcohol; 20% parents are noncommittal about underage drinking; 10% parents never care about this aspect of their children; 10% parents think it depends. It can be seen that more than half of parents do not object to children drinking. It is this attitude that indulges their children. When children are addicted and parents can't tolerate it, things are out of their control.

Parents should clearly understand their children's ideological trends and guide and correct them in time. Some children regard smoking and drinking as showing off their skills to their partners, some think that they can harmonize the relationship between people, and some think that smoking and drinking can relieve their troubles and refresh their minds. For these specious concerns, parents should correct them in time, teach their children to establish a correct attitude to get along with others, increase their courage to face setbacks, and guide their children's thoughts on the right track.