Since the baby was born, I began to read all kinds of books on parenting and psychology. I have to say that many times, theoretical knowledge can really guide practice. At least we can understand the development characteristics of children at all stages of growth, and then we can communicate with them more calmly.
Today, I shared ten parenting books that I have read and think are good. I hope they can help you.
The following are arranged according to my preferences:
Amir was born in 1762. After the book was published, it shocked many countries in France and Western Europe. Emile is a child's name. Rousseau, as Emile's mentor, expressed his educational thoughts on children's "natural growth". Many of his thoughts are still in use today, which can be said to be the works of the originator of modern family education.
Rousseau's educational thought was natural and even banned in the bourgeois society at that time. Today, let's look at this point of view again. Sometimes, we are flushed. Less and less parents will let their children grow naturally, and more and more parents will "encourage their children".
In fact, I personally prefer to see the version with color picture books, in which the illustrations are of good quality and more intuitive. Interested parties can download the electronic version.
Family education is a series of 12 chapters of the Department of Education of Southeast University, including the principles of family education, including psychology and teaching methods, as well as the specific operations in the following 10 chapters, which can be applied to the real teaching materials of landing theory at the age of 0. After reading this book, my feeling is that it is completely out of date today, and it is also very practical for many parents who have no foundation in pedagogy, such as the analysis and guidance of children's hygiene habits, feeding habits and many psychological problems. What you see is not the talk of educators, but the earnest concern of parents who love their children deeply.
If you study books on education, you will know that Spencer, as a pioneer of English philosophy and an uncle who personally coached and trained his little nephew Spencer to become a famous doctor and botanist, opened intuitive parenting notes for us in a language that ordinary people can understand and simple thoughts.
Although it was a long time ago and there are differences in different countries, when I read this Parenting Notes, I seem to see my children's problems, such as the importance of positive hints to children, whether to give them early education and how to educate them. After reading it, I can benefit a lot
Do children need early education? I believe Spencer's nanny has the same idea as many parents now. Let them play. Education is a teacher's business. Spencer told me with a story that what kind of child you will get depends on what you give to the child. Don't cover up your laziness by liberating nature, and let your child become what you want to be overnight, which is tantamount to a fantasy.
Julie Liscott-hymes
Do you know that this book originated from a video of Julie's speech? Lythcott hymes's speech at TED was impressive. Julie, once the provost of 10 Stanford University freshmen? Lythcott-hymes has witnessed too many children with educational defects. They may have excellent grades, but their living ability is low. The characteristics of "elite" students trained by American middle-class families are not uncommon among students in big cities. How to make children both adults and adults will gain a lot after reading this book.
I think we can focus on the list of "18 years old" mentioned in the book.
Heim Guinot
The author of this book is a father, a pediatrician and a child psychologist, so the theory of body-mind integration looks more objective. This paper gives us a new understanding of parent-child relationship through an example story.
About praise
Will you praise your children? Did you know that casual praise can also become poison?
When praising children, remember not to say "You are really smart" or "You are really a genius", but to say "Look, after your efforts, you have finally built the building blocks". Similar substantive praise can promote the exploration of children's internal drive.
I suggest parents read this passage three times. We often lose patience with our families, which is the root of all kinds of quarrels. What can be done in a few words is bound to be accompanied by unnecessary complaints and nonsense, whether it is husband-wife relationship or parent-child relationship. It might be clearer to talk less.
Wu xiaole
This book is really cruel, because it is a novel with the same name. After reading the novel, I have a deeper understanding of the story in the play. All kinds of single-parent families lead to psychological problems of children, and the problems caused by doting are shocking to us. Why do such lovely parents become enemies when they reach puberty? Perhaps young parents will take precautions early after watching it.
Jane Nelsen
I think the book "Positive Discipline" is a bit overestimated. Of course, a good book is definitely good. There are many practical forms and forms in the book, which you can choose according to your family situation.
Hao, Tongxing College
The author of this book is Hao, the author of Jing Zhe, and Yang Lan, the author of God's Scalpel. I finished this book in one go. The full text is very transparent and clear, and there are no difficult words, which is very suitable for ordinary parents to learn.
Parents can find scientific answers about future planning, emotional expression, and cognition of intelligence level in the book. I think it is necessary to recommend it to parents, especially parents of preschool babies.
I am personally impressed by the term "psychological bandwidth" mentioned in the book. When children have various problems, how do you handle them? Will there be irritability, anger, disappointment and even beatings after patience?
It is common to be influenced by emotions, but most successful people have a calm brain.
Understand the characteristics of children's brain development
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How to Cultivate Children with Full Hearts and High Emotional Intelligence
Venice Martin
This book is very interesting, and it can be regarded as a book to broaden your horizons on the road of parenting. It's about the parenting pressure in the Upper East Side of new york (which has nothing to do with me), so we poor people will pay close attention to how the rich are struggling to educate their children. In fact, various situations in the Upper East Side are not uncommon in Beishangguang.
If you have only read Thirty, you may have a deeper understanding of this book. I'm thinking that the writer of the TV series has read this book, too.
Fu Xiaoping
This book is said to be for parents of boys, but it is not necessarily so, because there are many girls with boys' personalities now. The book makes use of the boy's special physiological structure to make inferences, and also tells parents that they have The Secret Behind's various behaviors, adapt to this physiological characteristic, and then think about solutions. On the whole, it is quite instructive.
Xue Rui
Speaking of rebellious period, after children are born, there are various rebellious periods from the "full moon", especially the rebellious period of two years old, which is actually combined with their physical development. For example, the establishment of a sense of order makes them do a lot of things like obsessive-compulsive disorder, and when they are unhappy, they start to lose their temper. Most 3-year-old children have to go to kindergarten, which makes adults have more headaches when facing the social environment and family environment. This book is a parenting guide for parents of three-year-old children.
These are the parenting books that I personally think are good in recent years. They are all "useful" books that are easy to understand. Welcome to share your parenting experience.