Mr. Lu Xun once said: "A gentleman respects himself". Self-esteem, self-love and internal motivation are immeasurable, which can be said to be the basis for the growth of teenagers. Teenagers can only hand in a satisfactory answer to their own life if they have self-respect and love life.
Self-esteem and self-love are the foundation of success.
If teenagers want to be useful talents, talents and generalists, they must have self-esteem. Self-esteem is an indispensable fulcrum on the lever of life. It can make people stick to their own opinions and independent personality, and it is the driving force for people to move forward and the force to support themselves. You can make yourself change from passive to active, turn decay into magic, move towards your own goals and achieve your own life.
Self-respect and self-love, as the motive force of pursuing perfection, are the source of all great undertakings. At all times, all successful people are guided by good self-esteem. A group of refugees passed by a village, and the villagers sympathized with them and gave them food. They all scrambled to eat and drink, but only one young man stood by and someone gave him food. He declined politely, insisting on working first and then collecting food. He is Hammer, who later became the American oil magnate. Sima Qian was angered by castration and wrote down historical records. Sun Bin trampled his feet and blood coagulated the military books. Zhang Haidi became a giant of the times with his paraplegia. When the famous painter Xu Beihong was studying abroad, a foreigner who looked down on China said, "China people are very ignorant. Life is the material of conquered people. Even if you send it to heaven for further study, you can't become a talent! " Xu Beihong said haughtily, "Then I represent my country and you represent your country. Let's compare and see who is a talent and who is a fool. " From then on, Xu Beihong got up early and studied hard. His paintings were not only well received by artists, but also caused a sensation in the Paris art world. It is his understanding of self-esteem and self-love that enables him to achieve impressive results under difficult conditions. He once said, "Arrogance is indispensable, and pride is indispensable." It is enough to show that a person can't be arrogant, can't lose his integrity, blindly please others and feel inferior. "It can be said that self-esteem is the backbone of people, which makes people stand upright and is priceless in life. With it, they have great wealth.
Self-esteem means asking yourself to respect yourself, don't bow and scrape to others, and don't allow others to discriminate and insult. When you are unfair or wronged, you should bravely stand up and say no for yourself, but you should respect others more. Only when people know how to respect others will they get the respect they deserve.
Self-love is to cherish your body and reputation. It is love for one's own life entity and spiritual personality. Self-love and lover are interdependent and grow together. Only when a person knows how to love himself can he know how to love others better and make his life more exciting.
A person who knows how to respect and care for himself will be conscientious, study hard, perform his duties seriously and do his own thing well, no matter what the environment. On the basis of self-respect and self-love, I will do everything with confidence, self-reliance, consciousness and initiative. Teenagers who know how to respect themselves and love themselves will gradually get rid of dependence, passivity and timidity in learning and doing things, and be replaced by the concept of independence, self-confidence and self-improvement, and work hard, tirelessly, forge ahead, boldly innovate, bravely break through any difficulties and obstacles and pursue their own ideals. They can put the interests of the country and the people first, keep their duty in any adversity, set an example in life and study, match words with deeds, and shape themselves into a person with morality and ideals.
Everyone in life is equal, there is no distinction between high and low, only cultural differences and regional differences. Nothing in the world is more noble and important than your own personality. Only by self-respect and self-love can we stand on our own feet, strengthen our goals, hold our heads high, and reap the fruits of life with our own skills.
Self-respect and self-love, healthy growth
The quality of self-esteem and self-love is not innate, but gradually formed by acquired cultivation. The middle school stage is the key period of personality shaping. In order to grow up healthily, it is particularly important to cultivate good moral character of self-respect and self-love and shape noble personality.
To achieve self-respect, we must first know ourselves, understand ourselves, understand ourselves, and learn to tolerate ourselves. If you can't accept yourself, always imagine yourself as an ugly duckling, hiding in the nest and feeling ashamed, and can't get out of your cocoon, how can you prove that you are not a swan? Don't always feel inferior and don't always envy others. There are no two identical leaves and no two identical people in the world. Everyone is unique in this world. No great man is born, and no one is born to succeed. The key is whether you have the courage to pursue it and the perseverance to achieve it. If a person wants to achieve self-respect and self-love, the premise is not to feel inferior and give up, and to be worthy of himself, in order to win himself and win a colorful life!
Paying attention to appearance is also a concrete manifestation of self-esteem and self-love. Everyone loves beauty. After entering middle school, many students pay special attention to their looks and clothes. You know, the most expensive and beautiful clothes in the world are not pearl sweatshirts or clothes, but shame, self-esteem and self-love. A person who knows self-respect and self-love will make people respect you even if you don't wear the best clothes, as long as he is elegant and generous, restrained in words and deeds, maintains his good image, actively cares about the dignity of others, and combines self-esteem with respect for others.
People with self-respect and self-love know how to cherish their own lives, but self-love is not narcissism, extreme self-protection or passive self-indulgence. Teenagers, life is only once, life is so precious, you can't give up a colorful life for a moment's impulse and ruin your life.
People who respect themselves and love themselves know how to cherish time. Everyone's life is limited, and the time to belong to a person is also limited. As the ancients said, an inch of time is worth an inch of gold, but an inch of time is worth an inch of gold. Since everyone came into this world, he has started counting down. Cherishing time means cherishing life. Teenagers, in the golden age of learning knowledge, only cherish every minute, don't waste time, don't waste time, and lay a solid foundation for their later life.
Self-respecting people dare to face the hardships of life. There is an old saying: "People have no seeds, so they must strive for self-improvement." No one can change the innate environment, and no one can avoid the difficulties on the road to success. What matters is whether you have the courage to overcome difficulties and environmental dangers. Suffering is the stepping stone of great men, the wealth of capable people and the abyss of the weak. The rapidly developing modern society is a society full of challenges. Only by cultivating and honing tenacious perseverance and super acceptance from an early age can we calmly face greater difficulties in our future life.
Young friends should cultivate the quality of self-esteem, because self-esteem can reshape your life, make you know how to respect others, make your words civilized, make your behavior correct, make you work hard and warm your life. Self-esteem and self-love are the necessary psychological qualities for a sound personality and a sign of a person's maturity. They can subconsciously demand themselves, improve themselves and consciously fulfill their responsibilities and obligations, so as to cherish their lives and drive people to make continuous progress and self-improvement. It can make you an upright person and have no regrets all your life.