In fact, everyone has a different definition of happiness. Happiness is not just a word. Now many of us say that we should enjoy happiness now, because we don't know which one will come first tomorrow, so something will happen. Therefore, we believe that people's greatest happiness is to enjoy life in a limited time, eat whatever they want and wear whatever they want, without worrying about their future life. It is ok to be happy now, but there are still many people who don't like this lifestyle. They have lived a simple life all their lives, so we always feel that they are really happy?

This kind of person is essentially a manifestation of low self-worth, so he will be self-critical and unworthy. They don't deserve good clothes, good food or good gifts. They can only pick up old ones. They are very eager to gain recognition from others to increase their self-confidence, so they will get it in disguise by constantly wronged themselves and pleasing others.

But because the black hole inside them is too big, it is difficult for others to accept good feedback from others, because they are dissatisfied and unworthy. Over time, it will make the other person feel very nervous, have no guilt, pay without going out, and be full of frustration. People with them become depressed and it is difficult to be happy.

Therefore, people who are willing to eat and drink all their lives are not very happy. Because they don't give their hearts full of love, but to some extent, they unconsciously please. At the same time, people around you are also very sad and happy. Because I can't meet my inner expectations and give back, I am full of pressure, guilt and even anger.

Taking care of yourself is everyone's most important responsibility. Only in this way can they take care of others at any time, do not scold themselves, do not wronged themselves and do not please others. Because the final result is often failure.