One is good sexual cognition. Including having scientific sexual knowledge and correctly understanding the natural and social attributes of sex. For example, can understand the role expectation of gender characteristics and the moral, ethical and legal norms of sex; Understand the anatomical characteristics and physiology of sex, sexual psychology and sexual behavior, sexual reproduction and contraception; Understand the knowledge of bodybuilding, sexual health care, sexual organs and behavior, sexual dysfunction, sexual deviation and sexually transmitted diseases; Understand the knowledge of male beauty, female beauty, physical beauty, spiritual beauty and their relationship.
The second is the correct sexual attitude. Including having self-esteem in sexual relations, being able to insist on one's rights and refusing unreasonable demands from others; Have a sense of social responsibility and be responsible for all specific behaviors in gender relations; Have a sense of respect, maintain a cooperative attitude during sexual activities and respect the opposite sex; With proper limits, you can not only communicate frankly with the opposite sex, but also properly handle the relationship between friendship, love and career, and restrain yourself from taking a rash and willful attitude, that is, it is both asexual and indulgent.
The third is healthy sexual behavior. Including sexual desire, should be based on love and legal marriage; The satisfaction of sexual love not only stays at the physical level, but more importantly, it combines the height of belonging, love, respect and self-realization to achieve the blending of spirit and body; It can eliminate bad psychological factors such as fear, shame and guilt that inhibit and damage sexual ability and sexual relationship, as well as sexual dysfunction and sexual deviation, and has the ability to enjoy sexual behavior, regulate and control sexual behavior.
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The concept of sexual psychology
Sexual psychology refers to the comprehensive psychological factors of various psychological activities and individual psychological characteristics accompanying human sexual activities, including: (1) Perception is the perception of things involving sex, including sight, hearing and touch related to sexual content; (2) Sexual thinking is the imagination and thinking of sexual problems, and the subject of sexual thinking constantly obtains the understanding of sexual problems through this imagination and thinking, and forms a systematic and stable viewpoint, that is, sexual values; (3) Sexual emotion refers to the experience of attitudes towards sexual activities and sexual objects, including sexual pleasure, affection or love for the opposite sex, sexual jealousy, etc. (4) Sexual will is the subject's control and regulation of sexual behavior and activities.