My name is Lin Ronghua. I was born in July. 1962. I am a villager in Yanjiatun, and my husband Liu Zhanhe is also a villager in this village.
My husband and I have a very tortuous story in our marriage. Husband Liu Zhanhe was originally from Yangyuan County, and came to our village as a door-to-door son-in-law from 65438 to 0978. From then on, Liu Zhanhe, Zhang Xiuhua and her parents formed a new home, and the four of them started a new life. Liu Zhanhe worked to support his family while farming, and his life was quite comfortable and happy. Soon they gave birth to a daughter, and life became more and more prosperous. Unfortunately, his wife, Zhang Xiu Pinat, is ill. He sought medical advice everywhere. After several treatments, he spent a lot of money and never thought about giving up treatment. With the continuous deterioration of her condition, she still failed to retain her life and passed away. He took good care of his parents and their daughter in order not to be sad. He scrambled to do all the work, and old people and children always gave way to food and clothes. His deeds spread from village to village, and everyone praised him, even to other villages.
A few years later, I was introduced to Liu Zhanhe. I have heard about his family for a long time, knowing that he is filial, honest, reliable and diligent. After discussing with my parents and obtaining their consent, Liu Zhanhe and I became a family at 1986. After Liu Zhanhe and I got married, we were still the old man who supported Liu's ex-wife. A new home has appeared, and the family situation is more complicated. My husband Liu Zhanhe often reminds me that his ex-wife's dying wish entrusted him to take good care of the young children and the elderly.
As a wife, mother and daughter-in-law, I try my best to do everything well, take good care of children and the elderly, take good care of my husband, and don't neglect my husband because of hard work. I keep my parents' birthdays in mind. I always cook delicious meals that my parents like on their birthdays. Every holiday, Lin Ronghua always remembers to buy some presents for his parents. It was cold, so I made a new cotton-padded coat for the old man to warm his heart. When my parents are old, I have to work in the fields every day. In order to let her husband work with peace of mind and her in-laws enjoy more happiness, she undertakes the obligations of housework and taking care of children. Therefore, this new home is still so warm, civilized and harmonious, which is praised by the villagers. My husband and I are well aware of the grief of the old man who lost his daughter and the poor child who has no mother. To this end, we take the initiative to get close to the elderly, care for our daughters, care for each other, treat each other as equals, worry about their food, clothing, housing and transportation as much as our own children, say something generous and do something caring, and move the elderly. The two old people praised us as filial sons and daughters. The child also slowly came out of the grief of losing his mother and accepted me as a new mother. When my daughter first accepted me and called me "mom", I felt that my efforts and efforts were worthwhile. As long as I am happy for this family and the elderly and children, I am willing to pay anything. Over the past few years, it has become a beautiful talk in our village that the families formed live in harmony and respect each other. At the same time, making money harmoniously, the whole family members have their own labor skills, and family life is thriving. Therefore, we have also been commended by the township government and have been rated as civilized and harmonious families in towns and districts for many years.
Over time, the old man died of illness, and we died for the old man according to the custom of the world, paying off the foreign debt owed by the old man for medical treatment. Later, a boy was added to the family, and the marriage was still so harmonious and beautiful. A few years later, it's time for my daughter to talk about marriage. My husband and I have successfully hired our daughter again, and now our grandson is eight years old. Now the old woman is eighty-five years old. Now because the elderly can't take care of themselves, they are afraid of being wronged. I will serve anything, eat three meals a day, pour shit and urine, and never complain. Filial piety is not only the death of the elderly, but also the care of their daily lives. After my father-in-law died, I was afraid that the old man would be lonely and depressed. I often chat with her, often bring my little grandson to see her, let the children tell her stories, and let her feel the happiness of family. Seeing the old man's childlike smiling face, I feel as sweet as honey.
To know that a family is a process from scratch, from small to large, it is not easy to form a family, and it is not easy to live in harmony. This process must rely on the management of * * *, which not only refers to the material, but also emphasizes the spiritual: cultivating * * * interests, creating a good family atmosphere and so on. Home may not be luxurious, but it must be warm. There is also mutual respect, mutual care, mutual help, respect for the old and love for the young, honesty and so on. "Everything prospers at home", a harmonious family, the reason why it is harmonious, I summed up an experience of "treating others sincerely, living in harmony, respecting and loving each other". Acquaintance is a kind of fate. Being able to spend one's life under the same roof is a fate made in previous lives. So I often comfort myself with contentment and treat myself and my family well. I have worked hard for so many years, which is just the epitome of thousands of China women in Qian Qian. Only by inheriting this glorious tradition can we live a happier life.
Promoting material civilization with spiritual civilization has set an example for the whole village in terms of civilized families. We thank the Party for its concern for us and keep in mind the teachings of Comrade Hu Jintao. In short, the family is the cell of society. Family harmony, respect for the elderly and love for the young, loving husband and wife, harmony between the old and the young, full of warmth, prosperous family business and social prosperity. On the other hand, if the family is not harmonious and the society is not peaceful, how can we make the people rich and the country strong? So I want to be a civilized and harmonious citizen, give warmth and love to the society, and be a moral person.
The most beautiful family story material II
* *, 1978, 12 was born in April, 1999 joined the work, and now works as a doctor in the No.1 Middle School of Culture in * * District. He works hard, loves his job, is loyal to his duties, works hard, and always insists on self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement, which is widely recognized by unit leaders and colleagues. Her husband, Comrade Li Ming, works in the Cultural Office. Since they got married in 2003, they have helped each other, cared for each other, shared joys and sorrows, cultivated deep feelings and established a harmonious and happy family.
A |, dedication, selfless dedication
As the only school doctor in a school with more than 2,000 students, Mr. Qu knows the arduous task. According to some specific conditions of our school, he made a concrete analysis of the student groups and bought some commonly used drugs, mainly cold medicine, antipyretic medicine, trauma treatment medicine and so on. In order to better serve teachers and students, she cleaned the school doctor's room and made a detailed investigation on the class size and students' physical condition. With the cooperation of the head teacher, she set up a health committee member for each class, who was responsible for the health survey of the class, gave timely feedback and dealt with the existing problems in time. According to the climate characteristics of this region and the specific situation of our school, various forms of publicity and education activities on infectious diseases are held regularly, which greatly improves the students' awareness of disease prevention and creates a safe and hygienic working and learning environment for the teachers and students of the school.
She also actively participated in all kinds of training organized by the school, worked hard to improve her political quality and professional level, strengthened communication with teachers, made full use of network resources to recharge herself, improved her comprehensive quality, provided the best medical services for teachers and students in the school, and escorted the normal teaching order, which was well received by all teachers and students.
Second, practice and carry forward family virtues.
Bill Gates said that there are three things in life that cannot wait: filial piety, love and kindness, which are the source of happiness. Teacher Qu knows this truth well and has done it himself. She actively advocates gender equality. At home, husband and wife respect each other, support each other and help each other. When they are in trouble, they face each other and solve the problem through consultation, becoming a model couple envied by everyone.
In 2009, Teacher Qu's mother was seriously ill and had to be hospitalized several times a year. Although she spent a huge amount of medical expenses on her mother, her mother finally died, leaving a sister suffering from epilepsy and a father suffering from the loss of his wife. The heavy family burden weighed on her shoulders. Because her home is in the countryside and she is in the city, she should take advantage of rest days and holidays to go back to take care of her father and sister, and work as busy as a spinning top without complaint. In September, my sister was admitted to the intensive care unit of * * District Hospital after a serious illness. The doctor gave several critical notices, and Mr. Qu and her husband discussed that they should make a hundredfold effort for one percent hope. After many troubles, I finally pulled my sister back from the death line and comforted her mother.
Teacher Qu devoted herself to her family and was impeccable with her husband's family. Some people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with and an insoluble contradiction. The teacher's words and deeds give the best answer to this. In daily life, he respects his in-laws, and he has never been red-faced with his in-laws since he got married. In 20 12 years, my mother-in-law had a major waist operation in XX Mountain Hospital. While she is at work, she takes care of her mother-in-law in * *. Because her husband is an only child, she is as busy as a bee. She visits her after work on weekdays and waits on her all day on rest days. She buys whatever her mother-in-law likes and makes the old man laugh when she takes care of it. Even the doctor said that her mother-in-law recovered quickly.
Just about to catch my breath, at the end of the same year, my husband had an accident at work, resulting in a comminuted fracture of his left leg. At this time, she lost her arm and had to take care of her children and her husband at the same time, which almost exhausted her. But Miss Qu, who is optimistic by nature, did not complain. She took good care of her husband and his leg recovered quickly.
Third, be enthusiastic about public welfare and sympathize with the weak.
Some people say that if love only stays between families, then this kind of love is a little love, but Teacher Qu's family extends this kind of love to relatives, friends, neighbors and strangers, thus achieving great love.
Their family has always been willing to care about their neighbors. As long as everyone needs help, the husband and wife will definitely help as much as possible without saying anything. When people mention their modesty and enthusiasm, they always give thumbs up: this family has nothing to say.
In addition to caring about the neighborhood, their family can also actively participate in various activities in the community and cooperate with the community to carry out related work. Enthusiastic about public welfare undertakings, able to give help to poor families in society within the scope of their ability. They know that parents are their children's first teachers, and they attach great importance to the cultivation of children's good moral quality and study habits. The family often participates in various fund-raising activities held in the street. For the elderly, disabled or begging children, they often ask their sons to give them some change to educate their children to have love for the socially disadvantaged groups. In February this year, they just led their children to participate in the * * Evening News to raise money for Wang Yuanyuan, a leukemia patient. The children willingly donated all his lucky money, which has a great training effect on them.
Four, thrifty housekeeping, protect the environment
Diligence is one of the traditional virtues of Chinese nation. Mr. and Mrs. Qu can bear hardships and stand hard work, work diligently, manage the house diligently, cherish public property, make good use of every penny, nail rivets, plant trees reasonably and spend money on the cutting edge. Can do a good job in personal, family, workplace and public places. The family environment is clean and tidy, treat people with courtesy, and develop good civilized habits. Neighborhoods help and care for each other, and consciously safeguard the public health and public interests of residential areas. In order to protect the environment, their family practices a low-carbon life: washing clothes by hand and using phosphorus-free washing powder; Choose energy-saving appliances, turn off the lights and air conditioning; Choose bicycles, buses or walking to reduce taxis and private cars; Garbage sorting, waste recycling and so on.
To sum up, * *' s family story is typical and outstanding in all aspects. Specially rated as "the most beautiful family" and reported to the superior organization for commendation. At the same time, I also hope that all families in the world will become the most beautiful families and make our society more harmonious and happier.
The most beautiful family story material 3:
Home is like a root, which is always the destination of leaves; Home is like a coat, it won't raise the temperature, but it will give people a temperature that even the stove can't replace; Home is like a bottle of old wine, which contains a lot of tolerance and understanding, and contains more connotations of life. There is such a family around us.
When it comes to Dong, everyone who knows her will look envious. Because they have a happy family. Dong is the deputy section chief of ministry of materials and equipment, the third company, and his wife works in Tianda Project. They have worked in the third company for eighteen years. They have been married for many years, loving and filial to the elderly, enthusiastic and helpful, and have a harmonious neighborhood. They explained the true meaning of home and love with bits and pieces of ordinary life.
Because of the particularity of married work, we have always gathered less and left more. In their work and life, they support, encourage and help each other. Dong has been committed to the material management of our bureau for a long time and was awarded the title of "technical expert" in material management by our bureau. 20 12 was approved as a member of CCCC material bidding and purchasing expert database; My wife is responsible for the production management of the fourth bid section of Tianda Project, the longest tunnel project in the whole situation. She pays attention to teamwork, exerts group wisdom and optimizes many management schemes, and has been rated as an advanced worker for many times.
At work, they ask themselves to do better. In social and family life, they also try their best to play their roles and try their best to perfectly interpret the children in the eyes of parents, the wife in the eyes of husbands and the mother in the eyes of children.
Like many friends in China, after buying a house in Beijing, I picked up two old people and lived with their children as daughters-in-law and in-laws. Old people are retired teachers, helping them with housework and taking care of their children. People say that the most difficult thing is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially when the lover has been on the construction site for many years. In recent years, the old man in his family has always regarded his daughter-in-law as his own daughter. Old people help with housework at home, such as unpacking and washing bedding, cleaning and cooking. When the daughter-in-law goes to work, she wears sandals crocheted by the old man and carries a backpack sewn by the old man. Colleagues praised the old man for his dexterity. The old man cooks meals every day and waits for his daughter-in-law to eat them together. Dong sometimes tells the old people when something happens in the unit, and the old people can also help.
Dong regards the two old people as his parents to honor them, and chats with them on holidays to tell some interesting things about the unit and society. Her mother-in-law has the habit of keeping a diary. Here is a record of their life together. In the diary of the year before last, she recorded this: Today, my son and daughter-in-law took me to Xinhua Street to buy shoes, and they told me not to look at the price tag, as long as it was comfortable. Daughter-in-law said,' Mom usually passes out by car, but today she finally went shopping and bought two more pairs.' This guy bought me four pairs in one breath, and also bought underwear and socks from the inside out. To tell the truth, I usually hate to spend so much money myself. My son should be kind to me, but it is not easy to marry a good wife. Daughter-in-law is usually reluctant to buy clothes for herself. When it comes to buying things for the old couple, it's always the first thing. I am really touched in my heart! To tell the truth, Dong always felt that this was what she should do. Neighbors' uncles and aunts praised her as a filial daughter-in-law, and her husband often proudly said, "The most reassuring thing is that the daughter-in-law at home is closer than my son and in-laws."
Under the influence of their mother-in-law, they advocate saving and careful calculation in their lives, watering flowers with rice washing water and mopping the floor with laundry water. It is hard to teach children a dish and a meal. Under their education, her son dressed simply and generously, never lavished, and developed a good habit of thrift. My son gradually became self-reliant and participated in social welfare activities in the community during the holidays.
Their family life runs in the it family, showing filial piety to the elderly, and the husband and wife are close friends. In 2008, their children's aunt's family needed money to buy a house, so she lent her savings without reservation, which made the old man very moved. Dong's lover, as a brother, set an example for his younger brothers and sisters. Every Spring Festival, the whole family is reunited and happy.
20 12 during the spring festival, the family was content with a warm and happy day, and the bad news hit like the top of Mount Tai. 1 month, my father-in-law was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer and needed hospitalization. My father-in-law has just settled down. In May, my mother-in-law was diagnosed with MDS hyperosteogeny anemia. Just after a course of treatment, her lung infection is serious and her condition is dangerous, so she needs 24-hour care in the sterile room. Work can't be delayed, housework needs to be taken care of, and children need counseling in their studies. At that time, Dong was under great pressure and could not accept this reality. Just when she felt exhausted, her uncle volunteered to take care of the old man. The child's aunt comes here from Shenyang every other weekend to take care of the elderly. Because the old man is sick, it is also a heavy burden on his children's minds. He often goes to Lacrimosa, but he still doesn't want to worry his son who is far away from the construction site. During hospitalization, he said to his son on the phone, "I'm fine. Don't let us affect my work."
These days, Dong has to prepare breakfast and lunch every morning, so that his father-in-law and children can eat it in their mouths at noon and cook dinner for the whole family when they get home from work at night. When I have time, I will go to the hospital to see my mother-in-law's day, feed her, wash her feet and wash her clothes in the hospital. . . Sometimes when I get home, Dong feels very tired. Every time you talk to your husband on the phone, you should comfort him not to be too sad. Seeing that the old man's health is getting better day by day, the children daily growing got up, and Dong felt very gratified.
It is said that a friend in need is a true friend. The condolences of the company leaders made Dong feel warm. After learning that the elderly need services, it is convenient for her to take care of the family and minimize the frequency of going out. Mid-year efficiency check and the end of the year also arranged for other colleagues to travel instead of her. During the hospitalization of the elderly, company colleagues Yazhu and Daxin went to visit the elderly one after another. The aunts in the community came to visit the elderly in an endless stream. Aunt Sun sent eight-treasure porridge, Aunt Zhang sent pomegranate and Aunt Xu sent milk bread. . . The care of leaders, colleagues and all walks of life has injected new strength into Dong, making her feel warmer, taking care of the elderly and reassuring her loved ones at home.
Their small family, with the help of many relatives, friends, colleagues and neighbors, has experienced the baptism of hardships and the hearts of the whole family have become closer. Watching the old man gradually recover, the children grow up happily, and the understanding and support of her lover, she felt unprecedented happiness flowing in her heart, and instantly felt that all the hard work was worth it!
What is happiness? Happiness is the calmness of going through hardships together, the short-lived gesture of dialysis, and the beauty of a silent life. Happiness is not in the eyes of others, but in our own hearts.