Family education determines a child's life, and family education determines a child's life. The future success of a child is also inseparable from the foundation of family education.

A good family education does not blindly listen to anyone and learn from the experience of successful people, but knows how to teach students in accordance with their aptitude.

Every child has his own characteristics, but on the way to growth, he has to go through these three stages: strong dependence stage, ability formation stage and self-awareness stage.

Parents should adjust their education methods according to their children's characteristics and needs in these three stages.

The first stage: a good education is inseparable from the company.

Childhood is the golden period for parents to accompany and educate their children. During this period, parents are omnipotent, trustworthy, reliable and reliable in the eyes of their children.

Funeral court education determines a child's life and entrusts everything. Before the child is 6 years old, it is also the fastest period of psychological development, and it is the key period for the development of the child's personality.

During this period, the values passed on by parents to their children have the deepest and most direct influence. At this time, the education given by parents to children will be unconditionally accepted by children, and they will get feedback soon.

At the same time, this stage is also an important stage in the formation of children's sense of security. Since childhood, the two gifts that everyone needs most are a sense of security and recognition of their importance.

In short, it is the need to be loved and loved. A psychologist said, "What children need to know most is that they are very important to their parents and are always surrounded by love.

Only mentally healthy children can truly become a happy person, and insecure children will always be surrounded by inferiority complex.

The second stage: good education, everyone knows how to achieve children.

Adolescence is an important period for parents to cultivate their children's ability and quality.

Parents' attitude towards education determines the child's future height, and parents' cognitive height directly determines the child's cognition, which almost determines his later life.

Education is not a laissez-faire, not to mention everything, but a coach, guiding children to master their own abilities, encouraging them to become better themselves and become their spiritual and spiritual leaders.

Parents in this period should not be afraid of trouble. If you are afraid once, your child's learning opportunity will be lost once, so you need to have enough patience to cultivate your child.

Cultivate children's good habits from every little detail in life and allow children to try and make mistakes with an inclusive attitude.

Let the children grow up from their mistakes and plant the seeds of rules for them before the rebellious period comes.

The most important thing is to cultivate children's independence. Every farsighted parent should understand that independence is a skill that will accompany their children all their lives.

The best parents never let their children leave themselves, but let them master enough abilities before leaving themselves, so that they have enough confidence to embark on their own journey in the future.

The influence of parents on their children lies not in how much money they earn and how many things they buy for their children, but only in how much they accompany their children in their early life.

Every moment we spend with our child hides his future.

The third stage: a good education can respect children.

Adolescence is the stage when children's self-awareness awakens, and it is also the stage when children begin to overthrow their parents' teachings and are eager to get rid of all bondage.

Children at this stage have a strong sense of territory and are eager to keep their distance from their parents to prove that they have grown up.

Parental discipline and excessive hints will cause children's rebellious psychology and lead to parent-child conflicts. What children need at this time is to be respected like any adult and treated as an "adult" instead of a "child".

The so-called respect for children does not mean that you don't beat and scold, but that parents can seriously understand and understand their children's feelings and needs when their opinions conflict.

As long as it is not a question of right or wrong, parents should give their children as much autonomy as possible and respect their choices, even if you know that this choice will lead them to a more tortuous road.

What you have to do is not to stop, but to remind, wait and cover the bottom, because on the road of growth, children always have to take detours and touch the south wall to really grow up.

Good family education can not only give children meticulous love and security when they are young, but also cultivate them patiently in the process of their growth, so that they can go on in time when they grow up.

The children are growing up, and so are the parents. Improper educational methods will only become the shackles of children, and education that conforms to children's growth is the greatest blessing of children.