Don't cooperate with jealous and stingy people.

Don't argue with stupid and ignorant people.

Don't get too close to people who are duplicitous.

Don't always make deals with liars.

Don't drink at the same table as a heavy drinker.

Don't argue with narrow-minded people.

Don't be close friends with people who are unfilial to their parents.

Don't associate with people with bad habits.

Don't talk to people who don't believe in cause and effect.

1 1 Su Yinhua's "cultivating the mind in the world of mortals"

Nan is a master of Chinese studies. He is proficient in Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism and has profound attainments.

He has many wonderful comments on life, which are more Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism and unique.

Every word reflects his knowledge and accomplishment, and every word reflects a transparent texture, which deserves our great attention and repeated understanding.

Height is determined by height.

Everyone's tolerance, knowledge, vision and mind are different. If you want to achieve great success, you must cultivate your manners, as big as the sea.

Only the ethereal can be comfortable.

If a person's mind and posture are not ethereal, it is finished, which is equivalent to putting a cup in a small pit of water as a boat and never moving.

Only with the lofty ethereal realm can you fly freely in this world and this universe and get happiness.

The enjoyment of loneliness

I'll tell you an experience: in the dead of night, when a person runs to the top of a mountain or a big desert, it's very quiet. He doesn't know how his tears flow down.

This is not sadness or love, it is an unparalleled quiet comfort, every part of the body is naturally opened, and the pain and troubles in the heart are gone.

It is what the ancients said, "Empty mountains and rainy nights, all is silent." I only heard the sound of rain beating the leaves in the empty mountain, and there was nothing else. That is the enjoyment of loneliness, which money can't buy.

If you achieve great things, you must be flexible.

"Success depends on change" ... a great man in history: a first-class wise leader who knows how to change next, leads others to follow the change and always stands in front of it;

The second category is contingency. You change, I change, and then change.

The third kind of person is that after a person has changed, he still stays where he is. When people passed by, he scolded behind him: "You have changed so fast, I am not ready for you!" " "

Restrain yourself with faith

I found that a person with thoughts and beliefs has absolutely different achievements. When a person has nothing to do with himself, it is easy to be the beginning of failure.

The harder it is, the slower it is.

Sometimes when dealing with a complicated and difficult thing, I can't understand it, and suddenly my mind says that this can solve the problem. This is the role of quietness.

So if you want to deal with complicated and difficult things, you must first calm down and think nothing.

The more you think about it, the more your brain turns, all your nerves turn, and finally you die or get sick.

The real practice is the world of mortals.

Real practice is not only in the mountains, temples, but also in society. Live in practice, practice in life.

No matter what occupation you are engaged in, you should integrate your own practice into your work, face the realm of experience and cultivate people's hearts.

Don't be afraid to meet obstacles against your destiny. It can temper your mind, improve your level and increase your wisdom.

A good attitude will make the world a better place.

Don't just think about yourself, think about each other. Only by getting rid of selfishness and self-love can you be comfortable.

How do you treat others, others will treat you, don't always complain, don't always find fault with others, don't always want to change others, first adjust your mentality and repair your heart, and everything will be as you wish.

The so-called practice-correcting yourself

If you embrace everything with a broad mind, you won't be confused. Seeing that everyone is a good person, everything is a good thing and everything is a good situation.

Being able to constantly discover your own shortcomings and get rid of yourself is practice. What else can you practice?

Forget your own good, forget the good of others.

"Don't think about giving, don't forget to accept", these two sentences have a profound impact on my life and are the spirit of Buddhism, Taoism and three religions.

Don't keep in mind the benefits of helping others, but throw them away. "Gratitude" benefits people a little, and we should always remember it.

Content makes you rich.

Be a man, leave some room. Don't take advantage of good things. If you use them, you will get into trouble. The so-called "contentment is always happy."

Working and sleeping on time is a person's life.

Every day, the climate on the human body is sunny from eleven o'clock at night to twelve o'clock the next morning; The afternoon belongs to Yin Qi.

Many young people in the city have low yang-they are dizzy in the morning and have no spirit at all; I took a nap in the afternoon and my spirit gradually improved; Nightlife is coming, and the spirit is getting better and better-it's all yin ... it's not nightlife, it's ghost life, and day and night are upside down.

The Best of Friends

China people talk about making friends, "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water". A good friend is not a fair-weather friend or a daily contact, but it is usually dull.

But that doesn't mean that he has a heart of stone, that his friends are in trouble, or that he is ill. Usually it doesn't matter. Maybe even if you look at it with your eyes, you say hello, but it's really warm.

The true meaning of life

Be strict with yourself. Don't be as serious as yourself when blaming others for their mistakes. If you do this, your resentment towards your officers, colleagues and subordinates will be reduced.

On the contrary, when the social atmosphere is in a chaotic era, it is often heavy on others, light on itself, and especially strict with others, and it is easy to forgive yourself.

Carefully understand these words of Master nan huaijin,

It walks to see the world in a generous way,

Take it easy on the bright road of life!