Gentlemen don't lie. A gentleman should be as straight as bamboo. When a person encounters setbacks and is in a dilemma, it is easy to lose confidence, so try to restore the original belief and make up your mind to implement it. On the other hand, when a person is successful, it is easy to be complacent and bring unexpected disasters, so he should retreat quickly and think that it is the only way out. Peace is the first thing to do; Tolerance is the first way to treat people; Calm is the first method of nourishing the heart. Bad words can be too few, slow words can avoid regret, back words can stay away from disaster, if words can nourish happiness, quiet words can prolong life. Abstinence and abstinence are the ways to keep fit; Convergence is static, which is the family law; Let nature take its course is a convenient method; Doing good and cultivating the mind is the law of life. Obey these four laws, and the outcome will be within reach. The wider the difficulty, the thicker the person in difficulty, and the slower the emergency. Meet people with neutrality and mediation, do things with precision and results, and be serious with justice. Anything difficult to do should be powerful and lifeless, and people who are in trouble need to know it. There is a tight heart when you are free, and a leisurely interest when you are busy, which is beyond the limits of the environment. The villain should stay away, but he should not be regarded as an enemy. A gentleman should be close to him, but don't agree with him wholeheartedly. Choosing the right people to make friends, reading good books, listening to good words and doing good deeds are what beginners must do. Don't spit out words that don't benefit the body and mind, don't do things that don't benefit the body and mind, don't get close to people that don't benefit the body and mind, don't enter the realm that doesn't benefit the body and mind, and don't show books that don't benefit the body and mind. Being aloof from things, being generous to people, having nothing to do with Zhan Ran, having something to do with it, being complacent, indifferent, frustrated and calm. Have a clear attitude. Persuade people with reason, natural and graceful, neither supercilious nor supercilious. Be neither humble nor supercilious, and be well groomed; Modest and polite, the language is especially suitable for chapters. To be a man, you should be strong, soft-hearted, ambitious, courageous, weak-hearted, truthful in words, wise in growth, rewarding with good fortune and far-sightedness. You should be smart, too You just need to hide in the depths. From ancient times to the present, nine out of ten people are smart, but none of them is generous and suffers. People nowadays are stupid and afraid that they are not smart. We should cultivate sincere and upright character, be honest and upright, hide evil and promote good, and think of others everywhere; Integrity, enthusiasm for public welfare, integrity, and decent speech. Be a man, you must be modest and eager to learn. If you are willing to do good deeds and make a name for yourself, you will be in danger of attracting strong winds and discrediting your high reputation. If a person's reputation is good, it is easy to cause others' jealousy and slander. So give more or less to others and don't hurt yourself. Similarly, you can't blame all the bad reputation on others, you should at least share some. Only with this attitude can we cultivate sexual health.