I happen to be the one who crossed the post-90 s. Because it happened to be my son, I just thought about what to do after being a mother-in-law.
First of all, when you marry a daughter-in-law, as long as it conforms to a custom here, I will give you as much money as you want, but if everyone else is100000, I can't give you1000000.
After I got married, I definitely bought a wedding room for the young couple. This is my plan. I will buy their wedding room directly from the provincial capital. Let them start higher. We old couple live in our county.
I'll take my daughter-in-law when I'm born, and I'll take a month off if I'm not born. It is very convenient to have a new moon.
I helped a little before the child was three years old, and I paid the monthly expenses. The rest of the living expenses are still for the young couple to work hard by themselves. After all, you can't take it for granted
After the children go to school, I will let go completely. I can have my own life.
Of course, if my daughter-in-law has a request, I will try my best to meet her request, but if it is unreasonable, I will definitely not agree.
By the time we are in our fifties and sixties, we have saved enough money. First, I rented several houses in my hometown, and then the old couple went to Hainan to play. We are going to buy a house in Hainan for the elderly. As long as we can be together forever, we won't bother those two guys.
We have worked hard for decades just to live a better life in the future. So we will save enough money for our retirement.