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The 66-year-old man said: You can live a happy old age if you don't fit in.
Text/Qi Yuner

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In fact, many people like to live in groups. They always feel that a person's life is really lonely, and a lonely life always makes them have a lot of messy ideas. But in this world, some people especially enjoy their own lives, because they feel that a person's life, without the interference of others around, does not need to spend time taking care of their own interpersonal relationships, so the old age life can be said to be perfect.

Aunt Mai, 66, is a very unsociable woman. She felt that she didn't fit in, so she was happy in her later years.

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Aunt Mai's wife died a few years ago, leaving her to live alone with her son. When she was young, many people asked her to marry another person. It is very difficult to live alone.

Aunt Mai was afraid that she would meet the wrong person after remarriage, and that her remarried husband would be bad for his son after remarriage, so she rejected everyone's proposal and chose to live alone with her children.

It can be said that it is particularly hard to live alone with children, but Aunt Mai still gritted her teeth and never complained to anyone. Even when she gets along with her friends, she only says that she is doing well.

Since Aunt Mai's son got married, her life has gradually relaxed, because the daughter-in-law doesn't need her help to take care of the children, and the young couple doesn't like living with the old woman, so Aunt Mai lives alone.

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For Aunt Mai, a person's life is very lonely. At that time, she just wanted to live with friends who had a good time. It's good that several people have a companion to do everything together.

Imagination is beautiful, but reality is cruel. After getting along with those friends, Aunt Mai gradually found that their lifestyles were completely different, and it was very sad to be together.

Besides, Aunt Mai thinks her friends are particularly fond of keeping up with the joneses. They always show off their daughter's son-in-law's filial piety in front of her and talk about what their daughter-in-law bought them all day.

Even two friends secretly called her a stupid woman all day. After her husband left, she didn't know how to find another partner and tried to bring up the child. She is such a stupid woman.

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Aunt Mai was particularly sad when she heard her friends mocking her, because she always felt that her friends were still young and could help each other with everything. She doesn't know that they have changed.

It is also for this reason that Aunt Mai moved back to the countryside and deleted all the contact information of all her friends. Even her own son, she didn't bother too much and chose to live alone.

After Aunt Mai returned to the countryside, she planted some favorite vegetables, raised some chickens and ducks, and even raised a dog to accompany her. She thinks it is really comfortable to live like this now.

Aunt Mai said that when she was young, she always felt happy to live in groups, but now that she is alone, she finds that this kind of life is what she wants, and this way of life can live a long life.

Concluding remarks

In fact, everyone's choice is different for his later years. Some people like a lively life, others like a quiet life, and some even think that a lonely life is the happiest.

But in any case, as long as you feel that your lifestyle is happy and you are happy, everything is enough, and you don't need to care too much about other things.