Everything should be measured. As a housewife, a woman is trying to plan money scientifically and allocate family life. Some money can be saved, but some money is absolutely superfluous. Women realize that even after marriage, they should not save money in these areas, which is also unwise.
Don't save your external image. For women, image engineering is a lifetime thing. There is really no need to wronged yourself. Dress up beautifully, pay attention to skin care and maintenance, you will be confident, and men will love you more. Some women become mothers because they feel that they have a master after marriage.
I gradually relaxed my demands on myself and even saved my skin. I dress casually all day and my head is in a mess. Actually, I feel sorry for myself. In the long run, you will dislike yourself, let alone your husband. It is a way to dress up neatly and orderly, and also to please yourself. Therefore, there is really no need to rely too much on external image precipitation to make yourself beautiful.
Don't economize on a family's quality of life. Some women can be said to have gone a little too far. Like misers, they don't want to spend money and give up special food to buy delicious food. Obviously not very poor, but living a poor life, unwilling to greatly reduce the quality of life of themselves and their families. Why? Money needs to be spent, so that a large family can eat and drink well, and they also know how to arrange some details at home.
Let the family be warm and loving, so that the talents in the family will be happy, which is far better than blindly following the trend and wronged themselves. Money is to provide services to people. It is really a professional skill to establish one's own quality of life within one's power and let a big family live in a warm and beautiful environment.
Education that does not save children is the future of a family. As parents, we really can't ignore children's education. You really can't save money. Children are unwilling to spend money on education. In poor China, if you don't want to invest in children, why do you ask them everything? Within the family's tolerance, children must receive a good education, see the outside world more and broaden their horizons.
Children are interested in hobbies, so give it a try. Although reading and scientific research can't change the certainty of life, they can certainly promote the relative height of thinking. Therefore, even if you scrimp and save, don't play with your children's education. Only if you are willing to invest in this project will you benefit. When your children become excellent students, you will really have face.
Don't save your marriage from self-improvement, it is not an excuse and reason for you to give up yourself, nor is it an inner harbor for you to escape from growth. If you stop the pace of progress, don't read books or newspapers, and let yourself get entangled in small things, it is very easy to become more and more boring. No matter women can give up on themselves, they know how to enrich themselves, spend a little time reading books, enjoy the scenery they have never seen, enrich their brains and learn a professional skill by themselves, so they have been making progress and keeping pace with the times, and your husband has always respected you.