Mood is human nature.
mood
State, manifested as anxiety, depression, calm, cheerful, all kinds.
Colors vary from person to person. Being moody, changeable and unstable is not conducive to self-cultivation.
life
Some people, when things are smooth sailing, feel sunny, but when they encounter setbacks, they feel stagnant, disheartened and waste their time.
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On the other hand, some people rejoice when the spring breeze is proud, face difficulties and bumps, overcome themselves, open their minds and face life with a smile.
People who believe in "every man for himself, and the devil takes the hindmost" are certainly not enlightened. This kind of people are dissatisfied with everything, full of complaints, too fat to eat meat, too crowded to get into the car, trying their best to collect money, with low interest, narrow-minded, greedy for fame, corrupt, cunning, deceiving others, caring about self-interest, jealous of others, and finally suffering from mental depression and mental torture.
Open-minded people behave gracefully. Tolerance, generosity, frankness, warm and polite manners and elegant and noble qualities are the common sense that sages taught people to be human. Manners are related to the success or failure of things. Elegant manners will bear the fruits of success, and rude language and bad manners will be full of obstacles. Open-minded, elegant, from kindness, noble personality. They will not neglect humble people, flatter powerful people, tolerate people with different opinions and live in peace with jealous people. I always respect other people's ideas in my life, never insist on uniformity, try my best to control my emotions, listen to other people's opinions with an open mind, not make harsh comments easily, be tolerant, be polite to people, have noble feelings and excellent quality.
It depends on an open mind, optimistic personality, humility and courtesy, helping others and elegant manners.
Zheng Banqiao and Yuan Mei were both great writers in Qing Dynasty, and they were both brilliant. In Zheng Banqiao's poem "To Yuan Mei", there is a beautiful sentence "I am not poor even if you are talented". It is not uncommon for ancient literati to despise each other. Zheng Banqiao is not jealous of Yuan Mei's knowledge, but regards his "wizard" as his example and wealth. This kind of openness and tolerance is admirable.
Seeing the question and answer of "Harmony with Two Immortals" in the book, my mood suddenly brightened. "Harmony and two immortals", that is, Hanshan and Pickup. A holy monk in the Tang Dynasty, with a high poem title, was respected for his merits. Hanshan used to ask pickup truck, "Someone slandered me, bullied me, insulted me, laughed at me, despised me, belittled me, hated me and cheated me. What should I do? " Pick up the answer: "Just put up with him, let him, let him, avoid him, put up with him, respect him, ignore him, stay a few years and see him." Although the language is humorous, it is meaningful. The key is to be open-minded, sincere and tolerant. No matter how deep and thick your misunderstanding is, it will melt away with time.
Open your mind, calm down, calm down to cultivate one's morality, and calm down to be healthy. Faced with unpredictable changes and tangible and intangible pressures, people are easily upset and distracted; Anxious to get angry, at a loss; Non-stop, exhausted; Put all your eggs in one basket, the larger the foe; Go with the flow and muddle along. There are also superficial scenery, inner hesitation, immature appearance, vicissitudes of life, hard-won achievements and frequent depression. What's more important is to broaden your mind, calm down, calm down, treat everything calmly, don't compare, don't be jealous, don't show off, don't feel inferior, don't be arrogant, in order to forget fame and fortune, forget resentment, pay attention to life and be healthy physically and mentally.
Lu You said: "An old friend can cleanse the world, where there is no balcony and bright moon." The road of life is not straight, people will inevitably encounter troubles, setbacks and misfortunes, but we should pay attention to adjusting our mentality, try not to be influenced by the outside world, and always maintain a calm and open-minded psychological state. Get rid of vulgar tastes, selfish distractions and live an aboveboard life, and your mind will be open and your life will be happy.