At this moment, you may wonder what is going on, and you may wonder why other people's boyfriends are so good that you can treat your good friend as a princess and coquetry in the sky. In fact, the reason is not difficult to see. When you put all your energy into each other, boys often think that I am sure of this woman. But looking back, if you treat yourself better and treat him coldly, he will pay more attention to you.
In a relationship or marriage, each of us should not forget ourselves. Remember, anyone who loses himself in feelings will never get the feeling of being loved. Therefore, you need to keep a heart that loves you. Only in this way can you be the biggest winner in your relationship! In that case, on the whole, how can we know ourselves? Let's take a look at the following views.
1. Take care of your daily life. In the days when you have a sweet love, girls always focus on him and often stay up late to chat with their boyfriends, so that they can't get up on time. At noon, I usually go to my boyfriend to teach and watch TV dramas. However, it has delayed a lot of my life. The implementation plan that should have been handed in and the health soup that should have been drunk in the morning were also delayed by this sweet love. I believe that love is a matter for two people, and you can also plan each other into their lives as a whole, but you can't disturb your original plan. Don't make a mess of your life because of his appearance.
2. Think more about your feelings. Psychologists have said before. Your feelings, like your emotional lover, are very important to your emotions. If you suppress your anger and let yourself be wronged, there may not be any performance at that time, but all kinds of factors will be expressed in the form of anger, dream mirror or disease one day.
Therefore, your dispute over love and the inevitability of its contradiction have made him unfair to your mentality. I hope you can tell him at an appropriate time that I allow you to put yourself in the other's shoes, but I don't want you to sacrifice your self-repression and think more about your feelings, that is, love yourself more, worry less about trifles and value yourself.
Don't forget to improve yourself in love. Why are some women still admired and appreciated by men as goddesses after seven years of itching? Is it because they have a special style, because they have an immortal face? Absolutely not. If you regard yourself as an unfinished book in love and have been working hard to cultivate yourself, improve yourself and make your book more and more brilliant, will men still be fascinated?
Think about it this way, even if you are in love, you need to work hard to improve yourself and turn yourself into a book that boys can't finish reading. Generally speaking, at the level of loving your lover, you will become a big winner in the love relationship!