After delivery, with the passage of time, pelvic effusion gradually disappeared; Postpartum mild depression is far from being as easy to cure as imagined. Among them, the daughter is indispensable. I accompany my mother 24 hours a day, and we read books, draw pictures and make small handicrafts together ... In the days of waiting for the second paragraph, she will be crowded with her mother in a narrow hospital bed every night; After giving birth, I knew that my mother wanted an injection, and I slept hand in hand with my mother in the next hospital bed at night. I remember that after the second incision doctor removed the stitches, I couldn't even squat down to lift my shoes. My daughter, who is less than three years old, helped me lift them. Because she pushed too hard, she sat down on the ground while lifting her shoes, but she didn't cry. She looked at the shoes that helped her mother lift her nose and got up with a smile. I will never forget that when I was most helpless, the love my daughter gave me was the light shining through the hospital window every morning and those dark days that accompanied me. At that time, I mentioned the divorce to my husband face to face; Write a will and ask a lawyer to notarize it; Before the operation, I asked my sister to help me comb my hair and made the worst plan. God has the virtue of living well, and finally I can't bear to accept me. Hehe ... My husband always takes time to accompany me to ride the mobike while the two treasures are attacking each other. When my body was on the road, my mind actually retreated from my thoughts, and my mild depression gradually healed.
It never rains but it pours. After just recovering from depression, I can't get out of bed almost every morning, and I can't afford to hold Dabao at all. I barely took it, and there was always great pain. I went to the hospital for examination, and B 12 was positive. The doctor suspected that it was compulsory spondylitis. The whole family is in a daze. My husband thinks that I gave birth to a son and a daughter for him, and made a good hand. After a pleasant day, I got sick. I'm really sorry. Husband asked her mother-in-law to take her second child back to her hometown first, and left the boss in Beijing for kindergarten. I will be more relaxed, but I won't think about it if there are children involved. After 30 1 hospital reexamination, it is still positive and belongs to congenital. During this period, I took Dabao to Tiananmen Square and went to Zhongshan Park to see the red Metasequoia and the golden ginkgo forest. My husband took us to climb Xiangshan on the weekend, because he was worried that he would not have a chance to accompany them to climb the mountain in the future, so he climbed up and took the cableway down. The doctor suggested an MRI 30 1 to confirm the lesion. On that day, I had to give my daughter to my husband who worked overtime and do an MRI myself. The moment I was pushed into the warehouse, I suddenly felt that I could better perceive my body by closing my eyes. Finally, he was diagnosed with rheumatism and congenital low immunity. It's not easy to squat for a long time. I have a heavy burden and I have to keep warm. My mind mirror has been basically split in two here.
Recently, my baby mother's life has gradually improved. Besides picking up and dropping off two children and helping with homework, it's all my own time. As long as the weather is fine, I will go out to exercise, run, play ball, or go to the park to enjoy flowers, water and autumn fragrance; When the weather is bad, I will write at home and fulfill my dream as a writer. After running and practicing, I feel comfortable and feel better. I don't have too many gains and losses. I just record the bits and pieces in my life and live a healthy, sunny and happy self, as long as I can enjoy it. The mirror of my mind is stuck together by scotch tape again. Although ugly, you can still bring it.
Look at the route, as a treasure mother, the body is overloaded for a long time, and the body and mind will definitely turn red. If you want to transform slowly, you must first try to keep your body on a healthy road, and then your heart can slowly return to normal. When the mind is in place, the body is in place, and the two are mirrors of each other. Many times, we can only help ourselves. Don't expect others to think of you. Seeking inward is our greatest motivation. A good life is what we deserve most!